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    Dick the selection process...

    you've decided you want to see a girl,
    although there is a large choice, i always know which one
    i want to see. her profile will get the adrenaline going. at that time
    that profile will stand out amongst the rest. next time, that same profile
    could be in amonst the blurred ones.
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    Really struggling today. Planning to see someone on Friday.
    Usually I know who I'll see, before I even look.

    It just goes to show, how lucky we really are !
    Here's me feeling sorry for myself because I can't choose out of hundreds of beautiful ladys !
    What a twat I am

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    Quote Originally Posted by dave1dave View Post
    Really struggling today. Planning to see someone on Friday.
    Usually I know who I'll see, before I even look.

    It just goes to show, how lucky we really are !
    Here's me feeling sorry for myself because I can't choose out of hundreds of beautiful ladys !
    What a twat I am
    In the same boat dave , but were lucky twats .: lol doc
    Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc

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    No, I always did plenty of homework first:

    1. Check pictures to see who I like the look of.
    2. Check to see if the services that are a must for me are provided.
    3. Check prices.
    4. Peruse reviews if any.
    5. Search on escort name to see if any warnings are flagged.
    6. Compare and contrast from amongst my shortlist and place escorts in descending order.
    7. Start phoning to check availability and confirm details, i.e. services and what was included in the standard price.

    My reasons for not considering escorts:

    1. Pictures not verified genuine.
    2. Fake photo report on the profile.
    3. Photos highly professional which could indicate a high degree of photoshopping.
    4. Description of escort does not conform to the photos.
    5. No price quoted - "Ask".
    6. Reviews not allowed.
    7. Negative reviews and/or neutral/positive ones which contradict the data in the escort's profile.
    8. Negative board activity plus warning section reports


    If an escort had no reviews or only a few, but all the other boxes were ticked, I would have taken the risk on occasions.

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    Carlos just wondering why you would not consider an escort who has "Ask" for price ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dave1dave View Post
    Carlos just wondering why you would not consider an escort who has "Ask" for price ?
    Two reasons:

    1. I used to put enough time into the selection process and was not going to waste any more time or phone credit on escorts who could'nt bother their arses to advertise their fee. Now if it was an all-nighter, and they ticked all the other boxes, then I would have considered calling them, as I view "Ask" as an invitation to haggle......but for one hour, not worth it.

    2. The second reason is more psychological than anything else. You know the famous saying...."If you need to ask the price, you probably can't afford it".......well if I'm out shopping and I don't see a price clearly displayed, I will ignore that item and I think I brought that attitude to punting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlos marvado View Post
    Two reasons:

    1. I used to put enough time into the selection process and was not going to waste any more time or phone credit on escorts who could'nt bother their arses to advertise their fee. Now if it was an all-nighter, and they ticked all the other boxes, then I would have considered calling them, as I view "Ask" as an invitation to haggle......but for one hour, not worth it.

    2. The second reason is more psychological than anything else. You know the famous saying...."If you need to ask the price, you probably can't afford it".......well if I'm out shopping and I don't see a price clearly displayed, I will ignore that item and I think I brought that attitude to punting.
    Valid reasons.

    I just asked as recently I inquired about this with my favourite lady as to why she displays "Ask"


    She said that it helps her decide if she is going to see a prospective client by their general manner as to how he inquires about her rates.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dave1dave View Post
    Valid reasons.

    I just asked as recently I inquired about this with my favourite lady as to why she displays "Ask"


    She said that it helps her decide if she is going to see a prospective client by their general manner as to how he inquires about her rates.
    I think it might also afford them a degree of flixability i.e. if business is good they might quote more over the phone than if business is bad, or they might want to see how much clients are willing to pay. For example if an escort is the only one working in a town or there are very few escorts there, she would probably get away with asking more than in somewhere like Dublin.

    The downside could be, if one client had paid say €100 for 30 minutes and wrote a review and others saw that they had paid more on the same day for the same services, then a disaffected client might be tempted to write a bad review if he felt he had been ripped off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlos marvado View Post
    No, I always did plenty of homework first:

    1. Check pictures to see who I like the look of.
    2. Check to see if the services that are a must for me are provided.
    3. Check prices.
    4. Peruse reviews if any.
    5. Search on escort name to see if any warnings are flagged.
    6. Compare and contrast from amongst my shortlist and place escorts in descending order.
    7. Start phoning to check availability and confirm details, i.e. services and what was included in the standard price.

    My reasons for not considering escorts:

    1. Pictures not verified genuine.
    2. Fake photo report on the profile.
    3. Photos highly professional which could indicate a high degree of photoshopping.
    4. Description of escort does not conform to the photos.
    5. No price quoted - "Ask".
    6. Reviews not allowed.
    7. Negative reviews and/or neutral/positive ones which contradict the data in the escort's profile.
    8. Negative board activity plus warning section reports


    If an escort had no reviews or only a few, but all the other boxes were ticked, I would have taken the risk on occasions.
    Jeez! I've put less preparation into purchasing a house !

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlos marvado View Post
    No, I always did plenty of homework first:

    1. Check pictures to see who I like the look of.
    2. Check to see if the services that are a must for me are provided.
    3. Check prices.
    4. Peruse reviews if any.
    5. Search on escort name to see if any warnings are flagged.
    6. Compare and contrast from amongst my shortlist and place escorts in descending order.
    7. Start phoning to check availability and confirm details, i.e. services and what was included in the standard price.

    My reasons for not considering escorts:

    1. Pictures not verified genuine.
    2. Fake photo report on the profile.
    3. Photos highly professional which could indicate a high degree of photoshopping.
    4. Description of escort does not conform to the photos.
    5. No price quoted - "Ask".
    6. Reviews not allowed.
    7. Negative reviews and/or neutral/positive ones which contradict the data in the escort's profile.
    8. Negative board activity plus warning section reports


    If an escort had no reviews or only a few, but all the other boxes were ticked, I would have taken the risk on occasions.
    Your are the man Carlos!! I guess that level of detail comes with being a dictator!

    Its a very good list. Great advice for anyone new to the industry.

    I do similar things but in different order. Pics on profile page first , then reviews, then services and finally price.

    Like yourself, I don't bother if no prices are quoted. I think thats an excuse to chop and change rates, and I find haggling very distasteful.

    I don't phone about services though. Still have a mental block about discussing that with a girl over the phone. Plus there is the escort's disgression on the day etc.. So if my favourites are advertised and some of the reviewers say they have been provided, I just turn up and hope the lady is true to her profile favs. If I'm disappointed, I just don't go back.
    "Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"

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