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Explain this to me Alicia. I understand its a betrayal, but you work in the industry. I'm not trying to be controversial. I think any woman who finds her man cheating on her with an escort, would feel betrayed and not surpirsingly kick him out. And no reason why it should be any different for an escort. Its just that I find it hard to marry the two. ie. you working in the industry and yet at the same time feeling betrayed by another escort?
In the TV series of "Secret diary of a Call Girl" - Belle (the lead actrees and an escort) finds out that her boyfriend uses escorts . He knew from the start that she was an escort and yet didn't mind. When she finds out - she is devastated and proceeds to ruin his life!!!
I understand yet don't understand. Forgive me for being thick but could you kindly comment?
Hi.I donīt know but is like different if he fool me with an escort that with a normal girl.
Is a big difference.I'm thinking and thinking and what hurts more.
The problem is like that:if he go to visit an escort is because he donīt feel good with me in tha bed
and if he is with another girl who is not escort is because he donīt feel good with me like a woman.
Not countering you, but the guy cheated on Hannah and not Belle, thats what she could not accept. But I agree with you, I remember reading in another thread when one escort here said that she would overlook if her guy sleeps with an escort, but she would leave him if its her friend and I tend to agree.
If a lady can sleep with numerous guys as her job but not have an affair, guy should be allowed to sleep with escorts as long as he doesnt have an affair.
I am not trying to degrade anyone here, just sharing my thoughts...
I was in relationship once and I stopped visiting escorts and started again when my relationship ended. But I visit escorts for variety in life. One of the reasons I have never been to same lady twice. If your guy visits escorts, it does not necessarily have something to do with you.
Anyways, I would assume if you are in (or ever get into) relationship, mature thing would be he knows about your job and you guys discuss whats allowed and whats not before you get serious.
Thanks Alicia. I never thought of it that way. (Obviously because I have a man's brain!:confused: And we will never fathom the female psyche). I guess cheating in any form is a betrayal, and it doesn't really matter why it hurts. Thanks again for you insightful reply.