Originally Posted by
Curvaceous Kate
I'm sorry but that is a load of crap. If anything it is the reverse, as we are able to pick and choose when we work and many choose not to work the 'one in one out' system. If we are not answering the phone it is because for that period of time we are choosing not to work. Once you have met someone it tends to automatically get the phone answered more readily as they know who they are dealing with.
I know that I'm talking from the point of view of someone who has never been banned or had this to deal with, but I would say no more than 5% of my bookings come via messages and surely if someone is keen enough to meet you and that is not an option for whatever reason they will simply pick up the phone?
Also, I'm pretty sure I have had emails direct through my advert here, so is that not an option?
Lastly, it's not a huge problem in the fact that it is rare for a sex worker to get banned. If you look at it statistically the majority do not get banned or it happens extremely rarely. I think it's more important to keep the status quo of the forum than worry about the people who continually get banned who are well aware of the rules and the possible outcomes of their actions.
The best thing to do when you start to feel yourself get annoyed on here is walk away or report, but do not react. Make your point without getting personal and stop! If you continue to wind people up then you have to accept that you may get banned.