Some difficult questions you need to ask yourself......
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Thanks for the replies and advice.
I guess I was after having a couple of drinks on Saturday night and so a good bit braver/stupid than normal. I love my girlfriend very much and we have been together for 7 years.
The sex is lacking however. I could go into detail but suffice to say weeks go by without anything happening and it's always the same postion.
She is aware of it too but I can't imagine things are going to get better as it has been the same for years now. Meeting an escort seems so simple. I can't imagine everyone who posts a review or uses this site is single.
As recommended for I will just remain with masturbation. It's cheaper and doesn't hurt anyone. I hate the idea of cheating and although I have a very strong sex drive I have to remember how I would feel if I were cheated on.
Thanks again to those who replied and any other advice is appreciated.
Is it the sex that's lacking or the love??? You need to be honest for both your sakes..............
Is it the old I love her but I'm not in love with her???
Are you just stuck in a rut or routine???........ this is most often the case.........and if it is you need to break the routine and get out of the rut........
What have you tried so far to fix the problem???
I suspect like a lot of men, very little............:o
If I've got you all wrong then sorry, but this isn't a new problem I'm afraid..........