Originally Posted by
doodlebug
It is a bit like an itch you have to scratch. I am single and could easily meet someone in a bar or nightclub but I find myself using EL more and more, which is not good at one level as I am not working and it is costly. All that having been said I have met some wonderful women, and the sex is only for me an introduction, I get nearly as much fun out of communicating and learning about new people. I am 46 so maybe my drive is lower, certainly my personal circumstances don't help.