Who on here has a GF/Wife but still sees escorts....?

Ok heres the thing....I am 26. I have been with the same girl for the past ten years and I love her. She was one of my only two girls to ever sleep with. As you can imagine, I am a little bored sex wise....I need to have variety to get satisfaction.

I know this is terribly shallow and selfish...but lately I have had serious temptations to call up an escort, just to try something different.....I know that though I will enjoy it, I will be crippled with guilt afterwards, and if my GF ever found out she would never forgive me. I wonder if there are any other users on here who are in a similar situation?

I know I should try new things with my GF to spice it up, I have done but I still have the temptation to ring an escort.

How many of you guys cheat with escorts, honestly?
How do you deal with the guilt?
How do you not get caught?

This is a pretty weird post, so apologies for the nature of it.

It's hard to imagine anyone here visiting escorts while enjoying having a relationship with a gf or wife!

Or are you out there ?

I really hope not.

That would just be wrong .

Try role play: get her to book into a hotel and you knock on her door as if she were the escort

Just a thought!!!


Nina
xx

Thanks for the reply. I know its wrong and completely wrong to cheat, especially with escorts. I have stopped myself so far in doing so, but the temptation is always there.
I know I'll be criticised when I say I love my GF, but I do. I think love and sex for me are becoming two different things. Im probably a bit of a bastard for even thinking such a thought, but I cant help it.

Just give it a go and see how you feel afterwards.

If you don't you'll never know !

I'll say this. Personally. I'd rather my boyfriend chated on me with an escort than started up an emotion fuelled affair with some woman he met at a bar.

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Originally Posted by king nothing

Thanks for the reply. I know its wrong and completely wrong to cheat, especially with escorts. I have stopped myself so far in doing so, but the temptation is always there.
I know I'll be criticised when I say I love my GF, but I do. I think love and sex for me are becoming two different things. Im probably a bit of a bastard for even thinking such a thought, but I cant help it.

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I can see you are feeling guilty just thinking about it, if that is how you feel now, what will you feel if you meet an escort. I would take Nina's advice and try role play.

I do not have the same feelings as I am unattached.

Well here comes the mouth me that is 20 years faithful started punting 16 months ago guilt yea big time but I needed a buzz and boy did I get it but I broke the rules and got emotional not good for the head you've got to ask yourself that question you wouldent be asking if your not tempted you see the great thing about punting is the door you close behind you and leave it there that's what happens 90% of the time me feck it can't do it any more but in reality the best few months of my life so yes you feel guilty but I've found out more about myself so go on if you don't you'll never no your boundaries but be careful buddy and keep it to yourself

Looks like you and you g/f need different things. have you tried to spice things up with her? maybe she is bored off you too? have you thought off that? sex for men is not as emotional as it is for women, you could really hurt someone, and realise when its done, you have made a big mistake. Ye must have something very strong to be together for ten years? if i was you id sit down with the love off your life and talk, dont say you want to c an escort off course, but ask her what she wants at this time in your relationship. You might be supprised. All the best

i reckon if u r going to cheat it is much better to do it with an escort than starting an affair with emotions, etc

u can have the fun sex part with an escort for 30 mins or 1 hour and get it out of ur system, but an affair involves much more lying, sneaking around, and emotional cheating

just my opinion though

jay