Can't really get my head around why some women settle with men who treat them badly is it a lack of self-esteem or downright slowness on the part of women I know many examples what do ya think?
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Can't really get my head around why some women settle with men who treat them badly is it a lack of self-esteem or downright slowness on the part of women I know many examples what do ya think?
or
being with someone unpredictable
or
pity.........
or
most behaviour is learnt, violence begets violence etc etc - so for some girls its what they have grown up knowing, until someone breaks the cycle.
And didn't you know ? All girls love a bastard...... thats according to one of my ex-husbands ;)
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I don't know why I always end up with a prick....:(
Most men are bastards, so if you pick one at random then that's what you'll probably get.
And from what I've seen, most women do indeed pick them at random.
I know two gorgeous girls whom I meet regularly for coffee they just won't pull away from these bastards I will never understand why:rolleyes:
maybe its the woman thinking/hoping she can change the bastard won't happen yet then they complain when they don't get treated right:rolleyes:..
There are just as many women who treat the man bad as there is just as many men treat a woman bad.Its just that in alot of cases the man looks worse because he puts a hand on the woman.Now before someone climbs on their horse and gallops in my direction any guy that touches a woman is a coward and any woman that lets a guy touch her and stays with him needs to really question her views on relationships.
Just as many women bully or treat men bad but its a different type of badness.Its a physcological bullying.It is out their.I dont put up with it for a second but it is out there.
To answer your q i think that ppl that need to treat their partners like this are actually expressing a weakness and inferiority in themselves.
Westside.
If you are a nice quiet chap in this country, just commit suicide, save yourself the hardship of trying to find an irish girl. I have gone through the motions and have given up on love.
but for gods sake dont be like the guy i heard of who decided to end it all.He tried to hang himself from the top if the stairwell and the rope was too long.He was lying on the hallway with a broken leg and a rope around his neck.True story.
he was probably suicidal after that,
Westside.
if your always there,always flattering,always doing youll be close to her,as a friend.You'll be a great friend but never her lover.Thats all youll ever be,her friend and then you can sit down and listen to her telling you,her best male friend about the guy she loves down the road.
Westside.
I hate being everyone's friend. It's sad that as much as I love (and when I can, afford to) having sex with escorts, i have to leave afterwards. I've falled for 4 escorts this year! Four!! And it's shit. Three of them, I would settle with if they were to quit. But they just don't see me as a life partner, the way i see the potential in them to be. Oh boy! :)
as Tennyson's poem In Memoriam says:
I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
youd be surprised how many times escorts have guys fall for them.The thing is if your a client once then in most cases you remain a client.
The escort is the escort and the client is the client.Best left that way mostly.Business and personal dont mix well at times.
Westside.
I understand that. but haven't we heard stories of escorts actually falling in love with clients. Since I stopped going to bars and nightclubs 2 years ago, escorts are my ONLY means of meeting females, which sounds sad, but i can still crack a joke and make them laugh and HOPE that someday i might just hit the jackpot and find someone who might consider me for the future, and not keep me waiting too long.
ESP :(
i agree, when you go to see an escort, you 1st must think this is a business transaction, if you go back to see her on more than 1 ocassion thinking hey im in here, your going to get your heart broke and fingers burnt, never play with fire, so no mater what your feelings are to this lady, she could treat you like a king, dont forget she is doing her job!:(:(
yes theres 1 or 2 lady's i have met and become great friends with them, but thats all it would be great friends, i dont have no ellusions in my heasd that there could be more!;)
The same apply for the escorts, we need to keep in mind that it is purely business.
Doesn't matter how you get on well with a client... maybe he is never coming back or if he is maybe he will never look at you thinking something else other than business and if he will . . . things will be just toooooo complicated!!!