im starting a thread about the wanker sending pms to us all..(good idea qph) lads/ladies no more giving the wank stain blackmailing escort hating prick attention... vote no and then never reply to him...and never start a thread about his bullshit.
im starting a thread about the wanker sending pms to us all..(good idea qph) lads/ladies no more giving the wank stain blackmailing escort hating prick attention... vote no and then never reply to him...and never start a thread about his bullshit.
I don't think this is a good idea...at all...
I’m all on for it benin, hope it work out, so before I saw nothing more about him on the open forum I just want to say that in my opinion he really is a complete and total wanker, plain and simple you could go on all day saying stuff about him but I think by summing him up as a wanker just covers all basis.
I’m going to try not to talk about him again but I can’t say for sure if I will stick to this as I like calling him names. :D
I'm laughing at this, what do you think you are all doing only giving him the air space he wants with this thread and the other. QPH says ignore him and let it drop and you all are still replying saying great idea, at least if you are going to do something like this start it in the Established Members Lounge where he can't see it :rolleyes:
actually that would defeat the reason for this thread...i have said no...ill never respond to the asshole again ...this is the point he has had his last responce if you agree...and qph said as much...everyone needs to agree to ignore the wank..and when he sends pms report them
We have to communicate the idea openly first Anon. At least we would be talking about something we can do and agree on and not on things we have no control over and irony of ironies he may just be the one that brings as many people who disagree most of the time together :)
Maybe we should call him Luke from now on as he may be the one who gives balance to the force.
I for one will be seeing this poll and thread as a future mandate for mods to have forums permission to delete further threads relating to him and snuff out his open presence here and that is well worth one last hoorah of publicity.
But thats what everyone does already, isin't it? Who responds to a lunatic anyway?
Its a difficult position but the majority are unlikely to reply to him anyways having special rules and regulations for one person is what he wants,to be above others and to be treated differently to others.
Exactly and by doing this you are giving him exactly what he wants, recognition that he's upsetting the board members and escorts. Patricia herself said that the original advice she was given was to ignore him but that was wrong and she has now been told to openly expose him..
I am not just talking about responding directly to him but also from now on anything "about" him should be deleted as just talking about him is what he wants, and yes before someone says the obvious that's whats happening on this thread but this thread is to once and for all get the issue of his being talked about in any way anywhere other then est members section put to bed and draw a line under this from this point on, we cannot stop some imbecile from pming and texting thousands of times but we can all work together to aide escorts in some small way and ask people to hop on board in this and he be struck from the record here from now on and in any context either directly posted to or about.
This thread is going to be forgotten about or missed by half the people on here and if you start deleting stuff about him it will just cause more havoc as people will start putting up threads asking why they were deleted. Last reply as this is also giving him what he wants, established members banging heads over him..I'll leave you's to it, just putting my spoke in that I think this is the wrong way to go..
First off im not disputing what this guy is
But my problem here is let 10 posters 20posters 30 posters
agree to this, does that just because they are regular posters give them the right
to shape policy for the site.
How many posters must decide something is for the best to give a mandate?
If i feel strongly about some other issue tomorrow and can garner a level of
support can i also make that site policy.
The thing about democracy is u have to accept the bits u dont like to uphold
the principale
time to take a stand we all agree he is a trouble...why not as established members have our signature a link to this thread...everyone already knows he is here...but then they might see we see what he really is...and are not stooping to his level...what do ye think...might be a bad idea..better ideas are welcome..we need some ideas
I agree but also exceptional circumstances sometimes call for exceptional response's, its not us that are getting never ending texts to phones, its mainly escorts and some clients he has gotten hold of their numbers, will this measure stop that? no but we have to do whatever is in our remit to curb his exposure. At the very least anything to do with him should be moved to est members section from now on. Its all well and good equating this to wider democracy but tell that to the escorts that have gotten some very nasty correspondence from him and they at least deserve our trying to do something to lessen his exposure.
Can we move this thread to the Established members Lounge as was already suggested? It would probably be better to continue this discussion there, so as anything that gets discussed and ultimately decided will remain unknown to the afore mentioned wanker.
It will make no difference to him as far as contacting escorts as their numbers are there for all to see
To be honest whether we talk about this guy or not i dont think it will make any difference he will
continue. The amount of time and effort that he has put in before anybody acknowledged him was huge
This unfortunately seems like the career choice of a disturbed individual and i think ignoring him wont deter
him in the slightest. I cant imagine he can have a huge amount of client numbers and akward and all as it
will be for them i think they have no choice but to change their numbers to end this.
This is all completely true, but I'm afraid there could be further consequences for the people that are most at risk from him-- The Escorts-- and their safety should be our primary concern. Whatever is decided could affect his already aggressive behaviour, and we should take delicate steps. I have something to suggest that might help us in this regard that I think should be added to the discussion, but NOT if the wanker has the ability to see it. That's why I ask that this thread be moved to the Established Members Lounge.
What I'm saying is carry on as normal, mods will delete his posts, people report his pm's if they aren't already and if someone comes along asking questions as to why they recieved a PM, a mod replies and closes the thread, no need for a big drama evertime he's mentioned. No need for any poll, especially one that suggest even more regulations :yikes:
3 pages on and you guys are still talking about this waste of sperm. :lmao:
Exactly most people were unaware and now he is getting more attention , the garda should be involved at this stage and hopefully this guy will get what he deserves soon , but i cant see how this poll will help only create more noteriety for him. Lets be clear here , no internet forum is going to stop this guy only the gardai will be able to do that . Let the mods continue the wat they have been and keep deleting his user accounts
So what are we to do? Unilaterally decide among mods to delete threads started by valid members about him or ask for mandate from the members?
Coz make no mistake he only sends these pm's partly as he knows someone will create a thread about it and in that way get himself center stage as he knows anything he posts will be deleted instantly.
So this is not a silly idea it is democracy in action and by the looks of it we have a mandate to soon begin deleting any ref to him on open forum regardless of who posts it.
Because not all vaild members have the required quota to access the est member section. Are we to leave those without enough posts not have a voice just so one dimwit does not get his rocks off at the attention one last time?
That would be truly saying this place is just for the small few old stagers here.