drugs sex and fetish urges ? am the only 1 ?

hi everyone :) im new to all this internet sex scene so i thought here was a good place to start.

as my wife only gets freaky if i get banned substances( due to every day life) im looking for some alternative fun.

she is like a porn star if we have a night out or pre planned a social evening organized but this is rare and being married since 17 my fantasies are becoming a dream:(

i love/dream of bdsm/ bi with a couple / domination/ roughbdsm . this is fantasy so far ?

is there much of a sex scene in cork?

is there any like minded people ?

There is a fetish section on this site, I recommend that you post in there, you may have more luck.

On the drugs front, I wouldn't entertain guys who wanted to take drugs. I had a guy ring last night who sounded stoned & said he was having beers with his mates, I declined his business, too much of a risk.

Sandy x