Can escorts and clients ever have a genuine honest relationship or are we just cheaters for life.
I for one am trying to put this life behind me and lasted 1 year and 5 months but finally did go back, do others find relationships difficult too
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Can escorts and clients ever have a genuine honest relationship or are we just cheaters for life.
I for one am trying to put this life behind me and lasted 1 year and 5 months but finally did go back, do others find relationships difficult too
An escort is for Christmas, just not for life.
And personally I 'd have to look up Webster' s New International Dictionary to find out what a relationship is.
As will have been stated here before, as long as it's not affecting other parts of your life, or costing too much money or the thrill has gone out of it. If any of the above apply quit, or give it up for a while and/or be more selective in who you see.
First off — the two situations are different! Clients see escorts for totally different reasons than why Escorts see clients! One is for the thrill and pleasure while the other is basically for financial reasons.
For that reason I'd imagine it would be easier for an escort to have a genuine relationship than for a punter — particularly if the punter is in a relationship while he is actively punting.
IT IS, never thought it was addictive
Couldn't it also depend on what you and your partner consider to be 'cheating'?
Although I've yet to be in one myself, I have met a few folks (and heard of a lot more) in 'open' relationships, wherein a set of guidelines, terms and conditions, etc., are applied to allow both one or both parties to 'seek gratification' outside the confines of their relationship. Whether this is done through swinging, bringing additional sex partners home for them to 'share', or simply an agreement to neither enquire nor disclose any goings on they might have on the side, I imagine that so long as the boundaries set out between them are adhered to, that neither partner is 'cheating' in the strict sense of the word.
cheating is fun.:)
I've found when I've been completely happy in a relationship then there would never have even been the 'thought' of straying.
When things haven't been going great then it's something that might pop into your mind - which is when I begin to realise that things aren't great.
Different reasons for different people though I'm sure.
Depends on what the girl your with is like. Some girls just don't have the sex drive to go at it every day.
At which point would it not be the reasonable thing to do to talk to your girl (partner) ??!
: I've been there >>
When I'm in a r/ship no other man exists for me . Period .
Then one day I found my eye starting to wander , started noticing other guys ; their lips , their bums , their biceps ,
just a sexual overdrive !! :
I took it upon myself to talk to my then b/friend , tell him something's not right .
We had a long chat , got back on track for another year or so (without cheating) , then eventually parted company .
I think you're totally right : if / when you're completely happy in a relationship , 'cheating' would never occur to you .
: once the thought arises , imo bests to be on the up n up and T A L K xxx
(Lest you're tied by property or kids or such. In which case prob better not rock the boat : have a bit of fun on the side ,
and go home a smiling happy man , husband , dad .. ) Xxx
Ps. Kudos to you young man !! You are more Self Aware than most (of any age) !! Xxx
"(Lest you're tied by property or kids or such. In which case prob better not rock the boat : have a bit of fun on the side , and go home a smiling happy man , husband , dad .. ) Xxx"
You've hit the nail on the head for me right there... I love my wife, kids, home etc ... But I also love something exciting, different & intriguing on the side every now & again.
The point at which I had previously spoken to a partner is the same as yourself, when you realise that something isn't quite right or not on the right track. I brought it up and after 'trying again' we eventually parted company before re-trying etc but definitely talking first, being up front and admitting something isn't right to me was the way to go.
The property / family scenario is admittedly a harder one to call / judge and having been there myself with buying a house before the big drop.... lets just say I've been through alot of stages of discontent and none of them were too enjoyable. But what doesn't kill you and all that!
:)
Once you get a taste for other lovely girls its impossible to stop and be faithful to just one
To avoid getting caught,
Cheetahs run fast.
So would you risk your love for an hour with a total stranger?
If you love her and you're content in your relationship , I dare say you wouldn't think of straying xx
: Happiness in a relationship comes in many forms : as Petros said - an evening spent in quietude with your loved one ;
or in a wild mad orgasmic escapade on a Sunday morning , or waiting for the kids to go to sleep to sneak a quicky ;
Or , perhaps a relationship has grown past the sexual stage yet both parties are fully committed in love ,
fully committed to each other ... One may have a sex drive that the other cannot (for whatever reason) match ,
or simply doesn't want to .
Then it's time for a talk imo --- unless extenuating circumstances are present (kids , home , business , etc.)
: One of my dearest men was found out some time ago : he was and is madly in love with his wife of many years .
They have a wonderful life together , but his Intimacy Needs (not only Sex , but even just touching , and closeness)
were not met , hence he came to us.
Long story short , he was found out , which gave them the opportunity to have a frank discussion on each of their
personal needs and boundaries .
Their relationship and commitment to each other is stronger than ever , much closer and more satisfying than before xx
I'm happy for him , for her , and I'm grateful I could play a small part in bettering a couple's life :
: They will grow old together in some many years , and it makes me happy :) xxx
*edit : Autocorrect -- my bane