References from Escorts

If following a booking, an escort doesn't give you a reference, is that a sort of black mark against you or a sign of indifference by the registered escort ?

Some Escorts don't get involved in any form of contact with other Escorts and just get on with their job. It doesn't matter how your booking went, they just won't do it. There are also some Escorts that fall out, so they won't contact the person given, as they would rather not contact them, so it's a little more complex than just assuming they didn't like you or gave you a black mark. Also, if the Escort is not working or visiting family etc, etc, she may not reply.

I certainly wouldn't take it personally, it's just unfortunate if your nominated lady doesn't reply to the lady you wanted to see.

I would also say in your case where you have reviews, it is actually worth passing on your EI contact and sending her a message here, so she can check them out, as 9 times out of 10 that would ensure the booking goes ahead. You would only need to do this if the reference didn't come through though, although I'm happy to accept a reviewer as a guarantee of a genuine booking being made, as long as they are not ratted.

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Originally Posted by zilch

It means you were a failure in the bedroom and she's not too pushed about seeing you again :lmao:

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maybe she doesn't know the facility exists.
Maybe she doesn't give this type of reference to anyone .
Maybe she will but just hasn't got round to it.

Or and this is my fav :)
Maybe she wants to keep you to herself .

Maybe summit else but don't be losing sleep over it. :)
I have actually heard that some lads pm the lady to ask them. I shake my head at that one.

Ps. A reference is always a nice little touch whether is giving or receiving .

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That's obviously the position in my case so. Thanks for the explanation.:)

And no, I haven't needed the sleeping tabs for this one !

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Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

Some Escorts don't get involved in any form of contact with other Escorts and just get on with their job. It doesn't matter how your booking went, they just won't do it. There are also some Escorts that fall out, so they won't contact the person given, as they would rather not contact them, so it's a little more complex than just assuming they didn't like you or gave you a black mark. Also, if the Escort is not working or visiting family etc, etc, she may not reply.

I certainly wouldn't take it personally, it's just unfortunate if your nominated lady doesn't reply to the lady you wanted to see.

I would also say in your case where you have reviews, it is actually worth passing on your EI contact and sending her a message here, so she can check them out, as 9 times out of 10 that would ensure the booking goes ahead. You would only need to do this if the reference didn't come through though, although I'm happy to accept a reviewer as a guarantee of a genuine booking being made, as long as they are not ratted.

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I think I have only been asked for a reference only once over the years. Its a hurdle very easily gotten over. Some sensible communication would do the trick. Personally, I think the profile references are unnecessary.

When I started this some girls asked me for a reference as I did not leave reviews at the time- other than that some girls do give a reference here and there and I give references to girls I like

Don't think I've ever gave a reference as I didn't know how to do it at the time and only realised I had a reference when I was looking to do something on my profile.

I don't think it's the be all and end all if a girl gives a reference or not.

I take it you mean the references that appear on your message board?

I have never asked for a reference, nor has anybody ever asked me for one. It is something I have never thought much about.
I have been given a few, and I have also given references to a few escorts. I should, of course,have given references to more escorts.

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Originally Posted by SteveB

I take it you mean the refrences that appear on your message board?

I have never asked for a reference, nor has anybody ever asked me for one. It is something I have never thought much about.
I have been given a few, and I have also given references to a few escorts. I should, of course,have given references to more escorts.

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Originally Posted by TonyStark

Don't think I've ever gave a reference as I didn't know how to do it at the time and only realised I had a reference when I was looking to do something on my profile.

I don't think it's the be all and end all if a girl gives a reference or not.

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Just found out how to reply to multiple posts at the one time.
Never knew what the "icon" in the lower right hand corner was for before now.
References (giving and receiving:-) are nice but probably not overly important.:)

I think it just depends on the escort some give you a reference some don't but to fair I don't review as much now because just being a bit paranoid if my reviews go up i'm more noticeable but it doesn't mean anything but it is nice to get one

if I was an escort,i would be reluctant to give a reference to a good returning client.I think they would prefer if he came back to them.

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Originally Posted by SteveB

I take it you mean the references that appear on your message board?

I have never asked for a reference, nor has anybody ever asked me for one. It is something I have never thought much about.
I have been given a few, and I have also given references to a few escorts. I should, of course,have given references to more escorts.

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I didn't realise he meant that, do'h. They don't really matter unless you don't do reviews, then it can be useful.

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Originally Posted by spur

Would you not check to see if a new client has any.I have been told by a few girls that this is part of their safety search.
I ask how does it make a difference if you can't see who left the reference but was told it makes them feel better about taking a booking.

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Most of the clients I get call me by phone and many of them can't even tell me where they found me other than 'on the net'. If they want to pre book, then I will ask for a form of identity, that is to show they are a 'real' client and not a time waster. This generally can be via review system, being vouched for by another lady I know or a reference on here, but as yet, it has never been via a reference on here. I always check to see reviews, as they also give me some insight into the client as well.

i think some girls are just safety concerned and if they see you don't have many reviews or you have never contacted them before they can ask for a name of a girl you may have seen just to confirm your ok to see and not a nutjob.:confused:

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Originally Posted by spur

Although i have given and have gotten reference's on here don't get me wrong i am grateful for to the ladies who have given me one. I don't really see how they work.I don't mind that as a client i can't see who has given one for some else but i think it would be good if you girls could see them.

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It's simple. Say I see you have met a lady that I know well, I can text her and ask her if you were a good client or not. Or, I will know her well enough to know that she would only leave a reference for a chap that she thought was good and a safe bet for anyone else thinking of seeing them. It's kind of an endorsement.

I forget to give them quite often and I always forget to look and see if someone has given me one. You don't necessarily need to have had a booking to leave a reference on here either, just to have met.

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Originally Posted by spur

Would you not check to see if a new client has any.I have been told by a few girls that this is part of their safety search.
I ask how does it make a difference if you can't see who left the reference but was told it makes them feel better about taking a booking.

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I keep forgetting. I tend to rely on reviews. A new client I tend to ask them to call me 30 mins before they want to meet and if I'm available I will take the booking. That system has worked quite well for me in the past, but I will likely not be using that system come June.

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Originally Posted by spur

If you go onto my profile can you see which girls left a reference?This is what don't get because as far as I know you can't only I can. So if that is true I don't see the point in the reference's. I totally get you calling a girl that I have seen to check and I have absolutely no problem in that or evening asking me to provide you with a name of a girl so you can check.

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Good point, you are right. As I said, I've never used that system and forget it exists.

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Originally Posted by bootboy

If following a booking, an escort doesn't give you a reference, is that a sort of black mark against you or a sign of indifference by the registered escort ?

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References on your profile are just more "please let me know I'm more special than the other clients" bollox.
Make a phone call. Be polite cheerful and to the point and you'll never have any problems getting a booking, even if a lady asks for references a small conversation will easily change her mind.
But if all that references look at my reviews and messages crap helps you feel better about your online profile thats great. It's just not my bag.

Two dogs talking
First dog: do you want to hear a joke
Second dog: ok yeah go on
First dog: knock kn...
Second dog: completely loses his shit

REFERENCES...easily manipulated as drop her an extra score and your sorted are you not

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Originally Posted by themanofwar

REFERENCES...easily manipulated as drop her an extra score and your sorted are you not

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Most would not give a reference to a bad client, as it will come back and bite her on the bum. Surely if you had the booking and behaved you wouldn't have to pay for the reference?

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Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

Most would not give a reference to a bad client, as it will come back and bite her on the bum. Surely if you had the booking and behaved you wouldn't have to pay for the reference?

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Well said young lady, if you just respect any lady that you see on here then you will have no problem getting in any apartment door in the future.:rolleyes:

Sorry for bumping an old thread, but I've only noticed I have one on my profile. Didn't have a clue they existed, and from the above I can see both the need and the lack of need for them. I do have a question, are they similar to the format of the review system, Like does the escort leave a comment, Or is it more just like a rubber stamp?

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Originally Posted by CaptainApollo

Sorry for bumping an old thread, but I've only noticed I have one on my profile. Didn't have a clue they existed, and from the above I can see both the need and the lack of need for them. I do have a question, are they similar to the format of the review system, Like does the escort leave a comment, Or is it more just like a rubber stamp?

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Try leaving one and you will see how it works x

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Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate

Try leaving one and you will see how it works x

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How do you leave one? I can't seem to find the option?

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Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate

Try leaving one and you will see how it works x

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Registered users cant leave one.

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Originally Posted by 69patrick69

Registered users cant leave one.

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Ah I see, ah well.
Cheers anyway

Who really cares I don't, I ring the lady ask for appointment get to her place have a good time leave a review end of story.

I think most escorts dont know about the function. Its not really a big deal . Dont worry about it x

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Originally Posted by Liberty Love

I think most escorts dont know about the function. Its not really a big deal . Dont worry about it x

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I just seen I have references,had no fucking idea they were there or about the function,lol

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Originally Posted by bettercallsaul

I just seen I have references,had no fucking idea they were there or about the function,lol

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I don't believe someone gave Sally the Slut a reference. Holy shit!
What next

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Originally Posted by Liberty Love

I don't believe someone gave Sally the Slut a reference. Holy shit!
What next

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7 someones actually,Sally is such a popular slut :p

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Originally Posted by CaptainApollo

How do you leave one? I can't seem to find the option?

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"Established members "only can give references to an escort.
To become an Established Member used to require 269 posts and probably to be active on the 'boards" for some minimum period.

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Originally Posted by bootboy

If following a booking, an escort doesn't give you a reference, is that a sort of black mark against you or a sign of indifference by the registered escort ?

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Uh no...good lord...why would you think that? Usually if someone tells me their username I give references. If not...welllllllll...I don't it's as simple as that

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Originally Posted by dragonjay

Who really cares I don't, I ring the lady ask for appointment get to her place have a good time leave a review end of story.

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Same plan as me ,works every time 👍👍

These references are no big deal but it probably does no harm for "cuter" (Irish sense;-) escorts to leave one for a client they found half tolerable.
Or for so called Established Members to leave one for an escort that they particularly appreciated.