Cuckold (watching your wife or girlfriend sleep with another man)

Hi all....Now I know some lads are gonna think how the heck could any guy even contemplate what I'm about to write but please remember we all have our own fetish and fantasies!!! I'm with my girlfiend now 4 years, we get on great and yeah 'love' each other. We're relatively young (mid 20's)! For the last year or so, I've been wondering what it would be like to see my girlfriend with another guy. Gradually, this fantasy has grown where I would love to see it become a reality. For the last six months, my girlfriend has know about this and she even plays on it when we're having sex. We have talked thoroughly about it and she has agreed to meet another guy while I watch. Of course I'm a little apprenhisive and nervous but on the other hand excitied as this would be the ultimate buzz. Please understand, I have in no way forced my girlfriend to go through with this, it has been agreed between consenting adults and we have agreed that if she feels uncomfortable at any stage then we pull the plug straight away. So I have a few questions that hopefully escorts, punters, cuckold couples or anybody that has been involved in this could answer. Thanks and any feedback would be helpful as I'm still 50-50 to go through with this or not.......

Any guys(punters) ever have the same fantasy with their wife/girlfriend?
Are there any escorts that are married or in a cuckold relationship, do u think this is a good idea for me and my girlfriend?
Any guys(punters) been the single male and been asked by a couple to do this, what was the experience like?
Does anyone know any websites
where couples do this or where I can get some feedback from couples and their experineces?
Any cuckold couples in Ireland? Do u think me and my girlfriend's situation would be a good idea?

Sorry if the questions look a bit 'police- like' but really struggling to find info on this or any good websites and I haven't seen a thread on escort-ireland about the subject before. As i say any feedback would be really appreciated. Thanks:)

Some fantasies are best left as such . If you go ahead and let another man into the sexual side of you and your girlfriends relationship , then pal you can never take it back again . Let's say you are watchin your chick and the other guy fuckin , the initial buzz you may get may be worth it in the very short term . But what if she REALLY enjoys fuckin this other guy , she's makin noises and cummin harder than when she does with you , he may last longer than you , she may be thinkin why can't my fella do this to me .
Now i don't know jack about you and hers relationship , but imagining her gettin fucked silly by someone else and actually seeing it are 2 totally different sports so tread very cautiously . In her mind she may be really up for some different cock and you my cyber friend are to blame for that in my eyes . Will you be able to trust her not to secretly go behind your back for some more sexual thrills ? Will it in a week , or months later be the cause of your breakup with her ?
I'm guessing that she does not have any desire to see you screwing another girl the way you do her another guy . Ask her if she has ever fantasised about seeing you bang another chick , i bet she would be sick to the bottom of her stomach with such an idea if she really loves you , and i'm not doubting your love for each other but i think that the availability of every type of porn at the click of a mouse has disturbed the way you view sex between you and her in your mind .

I was going to say something, but rimmerguy has just about said it all. You are asking for trouble here and I doubt if the trust between you would ever be the same afterwards. A fantasy is all well and good, but if it actually happened, it could be a completely different story.

Would have to agree with RG, (though I'll admit to having similar thoughts). Like satisfying any fantasy you will need to push the boundries each time... whats next different guy? more than one guy? It will only end in tears:(

i done it with a couple....the guy watched me with his girl....and then he joined in,we done 3/4 times last year....she loved my biggish cock :D wel bigger than his :D and he loved wathing us....he only joined in once so he prefered watching

i would love to watch a guy fuck my girl....only prob i have to get a girl :cool:

there was an escort here that i seen few times that said to me that if i got a guy she would pretend to be my girl,so i would have my fantasy ....

Maybe you and your girlfriend could go to a swingers club first. You get to see her with another bloke and she gets to see you with another woman. I agree with Rimmer that fantasy and reality can be miles apart and jealousy, envy etc come creeping in. I would only like to see my partner being f**ked by another guy if I was doing the same to another woman and even then Im not sure how I would feel afterwards. Think long and hard before you go ahead with it.

You have been given some good advice about the dangers of doing this but I sense that the desire to do this is so strong with u that u are going to do this eventually whatever anyone says, I think its a very strong fantasy to realize so much so that I think u should go ahead & do it.....

Never mind the lads - Fire away and take some photos and post them to your album.:D:D:D


P.S. Are you from Monaghan ?

I also have to agree with Rimmerguy. Some fantasies are best left as fantasies. why risk a good relationship for a thrill lasting minutes. as RG pointed out, it could pose difficulties for both partners. I engaged in something similar years ago with a close friend and her partner. Thankfully they have a strong relationship and enjoyed the experience as did I. think long and hard before going down this road. If you do , pick some one you like but not a friend and not someone you folks will bump into again. but again I personally would leave it as a fantasy

Thanks for all the feedback lads, it has been noted and really appreciated. I really am at a crossroads on this one, I personelly believe that me and my girlfriend are strong enough to go through with it and come out the other side with no negative feelings. Rimmerguy, thanks for ur reply but here's the thing.....it would be more of a turn-on if the guy she was with satisfied her sexually and she enjoyed the experience. I know it's weird but it really does appeal to me. Sometimes I think I'm I alone with this fantasy, is there any other guys that have the same fantasy about their wife/girlfriend? Oh and it would definitely be with a stranger, would never bring one of my mates into the equation sure I won't even tell them about it.