I have been thinking about this a while and wondering is it better to have a regular escort or visit a new girl each time. Some of my opnions of the positive and negative of this are as follows.....
Regular Escort Positive Points; Expectations met, Security, Value, Health, Emotional Attachment, Reliable, Comfortable, Relaxing,
The negative points; Boredom, Emotional Attachment, No Challenge, Taken for granted,
The positive for 1 off Visits; Exciting, Lucky Dip, Surprising, New Challenges, No emotional attachment,
Against 1 off visits; Security, Value, Health, Comfort, Reliablabilty,
Regular seems to win out here with me.
Regular Escort or Not.
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08-03-10, 11:03RockmanRegular Escort or Not.
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08-03-10, 12:51anon361
For me if I wanted to see the same escort on a regular basis I'd just get a girlfriend (mistress:o) as it would tick all your positive reasons for seeing the same lady with the added benefit of not costing as much (still a cost factor with any lady whether direct or indirect).
Variety is the spice of life and that is my only reason for seeing escorts, and sorry if this sounds harsh but I pay an escort so that there is no emotional attachment!! -
08-03-10, 13:38Taylor of ManchesterWhy restrict yourself to one ? Why not have a regular and then see different girls too.....?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rockman
I don't understand your negative points for a regular lady though, are these things that you imagine are to be negatives?
You list emotional attachment as a negative AND a positive aspect of seeing a regular girl......how does that work ?
Just curious
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08-03-10, 14:21Rockman
Anon , The girlfriend (mistress) idea is definitely not the same as a lot more than just sex can be involved here.
Taylor, I haven't restricted myself to one but the positive aspects of seeing a regular girl are good, as for the emotional aspect lets face it sure I could have some attachment to a regular and would need it to return and sex with someone where you have emotional attachment can be better at times. The negitive side of emotional attachment is knowing just where the bounderies are and as a customer not getting attached.
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08-03-10, 14:21pablo_23
I prefer seeing regulars. Dont earn much so can't afford to visit escprts too often...Dont have time and money to waste on experiments...Maybe I'll try in the future some other girl with good reputation on the webside...
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08-03-10, 14:31littlebrud
I also prefer regulars...as you know what to expect and don't get disappointed by trying somone new who doesn't provide a good service and waster your money. I understand the emotional issue though, if you see someone regularly, you can get emotional attached but yet you are only a customer.
A question I have on this is....how many visits is considered regular? -
08-03-10, 15:25WestsidexWell just my opinion i think it would be wiser in the long run anyway not to have a regular escort for emotional reasons. You see if you keep going back to the same escort its because you have become fond of her. Make no mistake about it, otherwise you would go to anyone. Now i dont think that this is a good way to be emotionally. Personally i would never go back to the same girl ,in fact when i did visit escorts it was an agency and whoever opened the door i was fine with it. If an escort i saw before opened the door then fine but i would never go back to the same girl again if i could help it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rockman
screw your head up in the long run,
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08-03-10, 16:00pablo_23I think you are right that some people might emocionally attach to escorts..But thats for people with emotional problems (anyone remember GodFather)??, normal people dont think they have problem with that...Quote:
Originally Posted by Westsidex
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08-03-10, 16:25jackpot
You need a third option in this poll which is a mixture of both.
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08-03-10, 17:44topcat2010
i like to move around, go and see different escorts, as it was mentioned its the spice of life, only ever been back to see 2 escorts a 2nd time