Never fall for an escort lads, best bit of advice I can give you...
Only ends up one way for sure... heart break!!!
Tired of lies, false attitudes and all the rest of the bullshit too...
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Never fall for an escort lads, best bit of advice I can give you...
Only ends up one way for sure... heart break!!!
Tired of lies, false attitudes and all the rest of the bullshit too...
ahhhh goooo on out of that.
I think love can come from it, on both sides, to be honest i dont see how one can respect the other by dating while working at this but it isnt for us to judge. maybe if u really loved them u might be able to look past it.........i dont know but what i do know is, it can happen.
whats ur problem anyway, u talk about this a lot.....its as if u would rather escorts to be robots and just have sex with no buzz.....they do genuinley enjoy some of their clients and they have feelings too......would ya believe.
Cant speak for your sitch Dreamer, but metinks you are living up to your name a bit...lol
These girls are priofessional lovers, girlfriends & friends. they are actresses. They learn quite fast the right things to say & the right things to do to keep you interested. Of course they will act out more with the guys they prefer as clients, its human nature. But bear in mind a regul;ar client is regular cash, its business. I have been there a number of times. But having learned the Client/Escort ropes now it amuses me when I get the ol' cliches... "You are my Favorite"... "I dont kiss the other guys the way I kiss you"... "I love you too"... etc...etc...
Its easy to get caught up in the game, and usually if you are not smart, get hurt financially and emotionally in the end... I could give you many examples of our fellow punters that have been caught, some quite seriously...
Its just a game guys... just a game...
Jimmy don't mention my name.... It's a secret
Oh and when I saw the title I thaught it being 12july that it was going to be an Ian Pasily joke "never never never never"
Escorts are humans remember. Emotions, feelings, heartbreak- we feel them too.
More than likely yes, it is a lady trying to make you feel good. Doing her job well. But it is total bollox to think love can never happen from an escort client situation. It can. However know that any woman saying she loves you but still charging you for sex is taking the mick out of you.
The issue is whether it is mutual or not.
you all have very cynical attitudes, of course it unlikey....they need to work and earn money. im sure most close them selves off while they work. but its also a pretty unsociable job....clients are their life, they spend more time with u men then their own friends on some occasions.
if you all do consider yourself but normal decent blokes why couldnt an escort break the mould once in a while?
I've pretty much got rid of my page as best I can,
Its an awkward situation and I won't go into details too much...
I know escorts have feelings TCD.. Its when escorts give us "the lines" that JC mentioned..thats when it crosses the line.. I've visited plenty of escorts but playing games with someones emotions is different!!
There is a fine line of making someone feel special and then falling for them...
Reality is I fell for things she said that obviously were not true so yeah I'll be fine in a day or two but sucks all the same because it isn't fantasy, fun or a release when it crosses the line...
Those are human traits not necessarily escort traits. You get this with both sexes and yep people get burnt. They get burnt because they cant call a spade a spade because their ego wont let them. Remember one thing and a lot of guys egos cant handle this either. Plenty women like a one night stand and if a guy is helping them, wining and dining them, then all the better. This is the guys fault not the womans. There is a big difference between a casual friendship or dating and a serious relationship with long term hopes for both people but guys again just dont get it and think there is something there that doesnt exist outside of his own mind.
One thing, a bit of future advice for you. Never do all the running. Let the woman sweat it a bit from time to time.
Well said escorts tell little porkys like your so big etc. That's all about making us feel good and if you dident you wouldn't get repeats but that's what sex is all about you make everone feel good, but I do agree about the lies escorts are straight up you see what you get and when your with an escort you are yourself no barriers as in real life. Now you all know how I feel anlbout someone but I'm going in with my eyes wide open and I'm under no illusion but hay if you don't try you don't get and I think the kid is wise enough to get over it but I can see his frustration
What do you expect them to do? Tell everyone they are an escort? Common ffs its not like your everyday job. You lot are quick enough to review them quick enough to call in and ask for stuff yet you think they are liars and bad people because they dont tell the whole place about their jobs??????? You lot are comical.
Oh yea we lie also we say we don't punt to others etc. And I have customers that are arseholes and think they own you but the pay the bills so when they call it " great no prob your very kind " so where do you draw the line
How is this true JC?
What I meant is in terms of matters of the heart it is unfair to say that once you are an escort you will lie. No. We lie as women the fact that we may be escorts will of course make it more complex.
Not everyone lives a lie in this job you know. A lot of ladies (myself included as of late) have friends and family who are aware of what they do. In work I will never go all gooey with the whole "your so big thing" thats silly. I may have a fake name and accept money for services but I am not a liar day in and day out.
Relax bud... the fact that they cannot tell family and friends means they are forced to live a lie...no one considers them liars or bad people, its like being a mysterios spy... you cant divulge your true identity cos its part of the job...
And whatsmore ... more often than not we are comical... stick arounf and you will see... welcome aboard bud..
Whats an ecsort but a business woman and whats the purpose of business? To make repeat customers to make more money for a better living. How does an escort get repeat business? By making the guys feel special and how does she do that? By making him feel different or better or whatever and its emptional but who does the falling? The escort? Nope the guy does. I have called to escorts and have dated escorts and i can tell you the difference between the two is like ice and fire. If a guy cant seperate them then pack up pinting because he will be in for a lifetime of emotional turmoil created bu himself.
james having seen both sides of this, i can only say i agree in part with you and amber, BOTH sides lie to a degree, but think of it does a punter walking out his halldoor say" oh yes dear,just off to see jenny the escort" like wise some escorts are born liars, believe i met some, just as in normal live i met them there too.
the real point is this just as in real life good and bad are to be found, so too in the world of escorting,trick is know which one is lying
Well its a 50/50 deal with me. Plenty of women around. If a woman wont meet half way then she is looking for a doormat not me. Im all for listening, protecting, caring and providing for a woman when she is past the finish line and we are a solid item period. Until then its a two way deal like a probationary period. If she acts the asshole im gone. I have a life to live ,not a puzzle to solve :-)
Only point I would make is escorts are humans, and for every punter who gets emotionally hurt there is an escort who is hurting too. Her decision is very often between commercial reality and emotional reality. Not a choice I for one would want to make.
Ok this is getting into a moral discussion where its not intended to be... There are liars and there are honest people... we are not talking about a individuals moral standing on honesty here. An escort could be a very honest person but still is forced to live a lie because of her chosen profession. She tells white lies to ugly mugs like me to make me feel good. She acts out little white lies when she moans and groans when I am giving her a good batin... But we all should realise that these lies are expected as part of the game... it has no bearing on the true HONESTY of the escort....
Hi, the best relationship to have with an escort is a business relationship, sure there are some girls who make u feel more special than others but that's just them being good at their job. Of course many know how to play the game n keep u comin back for more but lets face it they must like u a tiny bit, coz say u were turnin up every week n being a feckin ignorant cunt n treatin dem like shit and still handin over da cash.....wud they still c u? I'm guessin prob not. Of course escorts are going to be more friendly towards nice safe, respectful clients who treat them well during their appointtment....thats just human nature n yeah they want u to come back coz u got cash n r a nice guy.....just like women in the real world:)
TT
Jeasus Angi you certainly no actress I found you very open and honest we never met a 2nd time but when we talked you were straight, so I agree about escorts they ain't liars, were the ones leading the lie so don't kid yourselfs you think I could talk the crap that I post on this site in real life??? Well some of it I do
I am sorry to hear this KK -- dont worry , time is a great healer I can promise you that.
You are very circumspect about the type of lies and false attitude though. Perhaps, without naming the escort, you could give some better detail to help others not get caught in the web as you .
No don't do that too much info send it by pm to us but don't implicate anyone cos a lot of us can read between the lines
BTW, I think the article on Helen Wood should be made compulsory reading for any guy planning on punting. It is certainly at the rough end of things but its not all BS.