How important it is sex in ur relationship??!!!
(I am confused and I need some help,please!):(
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How important it is sex in ur relationship??!!!
(I am confused and I need some help,please!):(
Sexual compatibility in a relationship is very important.
You dont have to be having or giving screaming orgasms every time but you must both like the same things.
I always thought it was very important but my partner has MS and can't have sex and it's absolutely no problem between us!!
But then I guess if it was out of choice that your partner wasn't having sex with u it would be a completely diff story , my foot would be rammed up his ass and I'd be calling on one of u lunatics for sexual consolation lol ;)
I think sex itself is not as important as people tend to make it.
you can have sex with a number of random strangers and it can mean nothing and is forgotten as quick as it happened sometimes,however,having a sensual,maybe sexual,experience where you feel truly happy with the person your with and truly connected with that person is extremely important in a relationship imo.
that experience doesnt have to be sex,it could be a nice massage or just cuddling up having a chat but whats important is that at that moment your truly happy and loving the fact your with that person.......................................................................all that said id pass out if i didnt have a wild, rampant,no holes barred sex session at least once a month!!!!!
If you're looking for a male point of view your probably asking the wrong set of guys,although i realise we all see escorts for different reasons,i would imagine sex is at the heart of it. My two cents worth,yes it is important in a relationship but not necessarily the most important
sex is important in the beginning, but i think it's just as important as time goes by, if sex is missing it says something about the the relationship you have both mentally and physically, as sex reduces boredom increases, you might still love someone but you end up drifting appart as that special connection you get when having sex is no longer there. sex isn't everything in a relationship but it's a big part of it. most people who have been married for a long time will describe their relationship by saying it's like we're best friends.
how many men would be here if they were getting it 7 days a week at home???
All this talk of sex is making me horny lol
I know what you mean but I still believe that the best friend part of a marriage is its most important aspect. A best friend that knows you and loves you anyway is a little more real than I have the best orgasm with you. Marriage can go really wrong, or it can go really right. Sometimes the things married men do with us help their marriage fit...The problem with Ireland is no one was really allowed a trial run first, imo. Thank god its changing.
i think some good sex is essential, clearly a lot of attached and married guys here feel so, as they are not fulfilled at home; but i dont think its a case of having great sex every day and night, the laughs together the intimacy and feelings, the rest that goes into a relationship is more importasnt and a better glue to keep ppl together...
Rachel you are someone I would love to meet, just because of your posts.
How important is sex? The sad fact is that sex is quite immaterial.
For me, it is the feeling of being joined, coupled, being together and loving each other which creates the greatest satisfaction.
Question for the men.
If you remember the love of your life, what was the sex like?
Was it the sex or the experience of holding and looking after your loved one?
I remember a time in the distant past where i truly loved someone. She was gorgeous, a part-time model who had a fantastic body many men longed after. The problem of course was my low self-esteme.
I was young, good job with the usual trappings but at the time but I didn't go the extra distance to secure this lady.
So what happen? She married her photographer neighbour, and later divorced and remarried an artichect.
Do I regret this experience? Of course not, I thank God for the pleasure and experience this gave me.
I try to remember what it would have been like not to have experienced this lady in the first place.
The sad thing is, this lady popped into my place of business some 20 years later, and my heart still twisted!
True love of another never truly diminishes!!!!!
I was confused after a chat with somebody, who said sex it is very important for him. :)
My opinion, in a long relationship sex it is important at the start, as the phisical atraccion it is hight. Over time, will remain respect, good understanding,loyalty,etc..
In a short relationship, of course it is important (4 me), if I dont have good sex, I wont be with him 4 his intelligence...lol
unnatural or supernatural, my minds racing now :)
sex to me is vital in a relationship.
basic building block
guys are not big on talking and need to feel a physical connection
problem is once you get bogged down in day to day living people tend to forget about each other and sex becomes less frequent
if people worked on the physical side more there would be a lot less problems in relationships.
but i guess why the lovely ladies on this site are so busy
I could pretend to be all gentlemanly and cool but I think the truth will suffice. Sex is very, very, very important in a relationship to me.
Its not the be all and end all but it is what divides that exclusive 1 to 1 relationship from all other close relationtionships e.g. family & friends.