Flirt Messages?

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27-01-11, 16:08
anon361

Flirt Messages?

I got an email this morning from another site alerting me to a flirt message I recieved, I thought it a novel thing. Instead of a regular PM, genuine escorts can send flirts alerting you to when they are in your area..
I have to say it worked because sure enough off I went to their profile page to have a look at them. Do you think it would be a good idea?
27-01-11, 16:10
JAMESCORK

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Originally Posted by anon361

I got an email this morning from another site alerting me to a flirt message I recieved, I thought it a novel thing. Instead of a regular PM, genuine escorts can send flirts alerting you to when they are in your area..
I have to say it worked because sure enough off I went to their profile page to have a look at them. Do you think it would be a good idea?

How many feckin sites to you lurk on FFS...

(pervert...)
27-01-11, 16:11
Lucy Chambers

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Originally Posted by anon361

I got an email this morning from another site alerting me to a flirt message I recieved, I thought it a novel thing. Instead of a regular PM, genuine escorts can send flirts alerting you to when they are in your area..
I have to say it worked because sure enough off I went to their profile page to have a look at them. Do you think it would be a good idea?

Hi you

I know the site that does it, and I know how to do it, but I have to be really honest and say I think it is glorified touting. I would feel as though I was coercing a client into seeing me. Much better to be chased than to chase :)
27-01-11, 16:13
JAMESCORK

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Hi you

I know the site that does it, and I know how to do it, but I have to be really honest and say I think it is glorified touting. I would feel as though I was coercing a client into seeing me. Much better to be chased than to chase :)

It works though Luce... I have met girls that I would never have even found only for their toutin PMs.
27-01-11, 16:15
anon361

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Hi you

I know the site that does it, and I know how to do it, but I have to be really honest and say I think it is glorified touting. I would feel as though I was coercing a client into seeing me. Much better to be chased than to chase :)

I know lucy but surely using the same medium you use to advertise yourself isn't as bad as say sending out text messages, I wouldn't really consider it tauting as you are essentially as you say in the business of promoting your name Lucy Chambers and any way you can do that surely is a good thing, besides, if you did have the option and did decide to use it I have no doubt it would be tastefully worded and nothing short of enticing..
27-01-11, 16:16
mellors

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Hi you

I know the site that does it, and I know how to do it, but I have to be really honest and say I think it is glorified touting. I would feel as though I was coercing a client into seeing me. Much better to be chased than to chase :)

Girl I see fairly regularly just sends a smiley face when shes in town, no pressure on me one way or another
27-01-11, 16:17
anon361

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Originally Posted by mellors

Girl I see fairly regularly just sends a smiley face when shes in town, no pressure on me one way or another

That's the type of message I am talking about, simple yet effective..
27-01-11, 16:19
Lucy Chambers

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Originally Posted by anon361

I know lucy but surely using the same medium you use to advertise yourself isn't as bad as say sending out text messages, I wouldn't really consider it tauting as you are essentially as you say in the business of promoting your name Lucy Chambers and any way you can do that surely is a good thing, besides, if you did have the option and did decide to use it I have no doubt it would be tastefully worded and nothing short of enticing..

Mmm. Maybe I am hyper sensitive about it, I am not sure. I guess it stems from the idea that I should only really contact clients if requested to. Do me a favour? Replicate the message you got? So we can have a think?

Before JamesCork jumps in to say that I send him salacious PM's whenever I am in town, that is different :)
27-01-11, 16:25
Sensual Delights

I never done that, not that I tour too much anyway.
Unless it will become a common practice, I don't think I will ever do it either.
That would make me feel like I am forcing or begging someone to see me.
Not to mention, I would be mortified that some guys may not use punting SIMS and actually my text (even a smiley icon) would lead to some trouble in their families.

But it's great if it's working for some of you, perhaps if you agree in advance that's how you do it, it should be perfectly fine.
27-01-11, 16:28
anon361

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Do me a favour? Replicate the message you got? So we can have a think?

Example 1:

anon361
Dropping you a line in case you had thought about contacting me,but didn't want to disclose your telephone number.
It that is the case then I can be contacted through the DirectChat link on my Profile Page.
tanyababe34

Example 2:

You look like someone who enjoys a challenge. (on this one clicking on the word "challenge" brought me to her ad profile)
27-01-11, 16:29
anon361

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Originally Posted by Sensual Delights

I never done that, not that I tour too much anyway.
Unless it will become a common practice, I don't think I will ever do it either.
That would make me feel like I am forcing or begging someone to see me.
Not to mention, I would be mortified that some guys may not use punting SIMS and actually my text (even a smiley icon) would lead to some trouble in their families.

But it's great if it's working for some of you, perhaps if you agree in advance that's how you do it, it should be perfectly fine.

That's the point I'm making, instead of a text which I thing is really risky sending a little flirt within this forum to the members profile would be just as effective and safe..
27-01-11, 16:31
mellors

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Originally Posted by anon361

That's the type of message I am talking about, simple yet effective..

Obviously the escort would have to check with the client first that it was ok to txt them,it's just a simple,subtle way of her letting me know she's around
27-01-11, 16:34
anon361

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Originally Posted by mellors

Obviously the escort would have to check with the client first that it was ok to txt them,it's just a simple,subtle way of her letting me know she's around

O sorry, I mistook you, I assumed it was a PM with a smiley face, I don't agree with unsolicited texts of any kind especially from an escort unless prior agreement is reached which wouldn't really be possible unless she has actually met you..
27-01-11, 16:40
mellors

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Originally Posted by anon361

O sorry, I mistook you, I assumed it was a PM with a smiley face, I don't agree with unsolicited texts of any kind especially from an escort unless prior agreement is reached which wouldn't really be possible unless she has actually met you..

Sorry at cross wires, i agree wouldn't want any unsolicited txts from girls I hadn;t meet. I;d say you would be inundated with unsolicited PMs instead
27-01-11, 16:41
dave1dave

I wouldn't agree in just getting random flirt messages.

I think it would be a great idea if it was linked with the profiles in the "My Favourites" section.

So by putting someones profile there you allow the flirt message to be sent to you to inform you they are coming to your area.Or you are willing to recieve these messages.

In essence it wouldn't be unsolicited as by putting their profile there you are showing an intrest in that escort.
27-01-11, 16:43
anon361

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Originally Posted by mellors

Sorry at cross wires, i agree wouldn't want any unsolicited txts from girls I hadn;t meet. I;d say you would be inundated with unsolicited PMs instead

I wouldn't mind that, at least it's private and secure and maybe even have the option to not allow them.. Currently ladies aren't allowed send spam PM's so maybe a flirt can be restricted to a certain amount of characters.
27-01-11, 16:44
Lou Cefer

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Hi you

I know the site that does it, and I know how to do it, but I have to be really honest and say I think it is glorified touting. I would feel as though I was coercing a client into seeing me. Much better to be chased than to chase :)

Agreed I think it would be cheap and nasty.
27-01-11, 16:49
Lou Cefer

It might appeal to some of the guys here who need their ego stroked on a regular basis.
27-01-11, 16:55
warmcome

i would require a tailor made flirt message. some specific stuff to my life
and pets etc?
27-01-11, 17:01
JAMESCORK

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Originally Posted by dave1dave

I wouldn't agree in just getting random flirt messages.

I think it would be a great idea if it was linked with the profiles in the "My Favourites" section.

So by putting someones profile there you allow the flirt message to be sent to you to inform you they are coming to your area.Or you are willing to recieve these messages.

In essence it wouldn't be unsolicited as by putting their profile there you are showing an intrest in that escort.

Jaysus I was just going to suggest this. This would be the only way to make it work. I wouldnt mind if the girls in 'My Favoritres' let me know when they are in town..

They say great minds think alike Dave... But knowing you you probably just got lucky this time...lol.
27-01-11, 17:03
monster_monster

if you were able to decide from escorts favourites which escorts you could get a flirt from, i.e. must have verified pics, reviews and allows A. Or as dave1dave says sync it with the "My Favourites" section
27-01-11, 17:07
JAMESCORK

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Originally Posted by monster_monster

if you were able to decide from escorts favourites which escorts you could get a flirt from, i.e. must have verified pics, reviews and allows A. Or as dave1dave says sync it with the "My Favourites" section

And of course charges only €80, you forgot the price thing Monster..tch..
27-01-11, 17:11
monster_monster

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Originally Posted by JAMESCORK

And of course charges only €80, you forgot the price thing Monster..tch..

where do you think you are going with those extortionate prices, you mush have that pimp hat on again ;)

remember the girls are flirting with me, so obviously they are interested in me and not my money, I expect this to be free :D
27-01-11, 17:11
ThomasJ

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Hi you

I know the site that does it, and I know how to do it, but I have to be really honest and say I think it is glorified touting. I would feel as though I was coercing a client into seeing me. Much better to be chased than to chase :)

To me it makes good business sense - There is one escort I often see who sends me a text when she is coming to my area - I don't see any harm and it has often led to me seeing her.
27-01-11, 17:29
anon361

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Originally Posted by Lou Cefer

It might appeal to some of the guys here who need their ego stroked on a regular basis.

Sorry, MrF has left the building;)

This is nothing to do with ego's, for me it's a safe way for ladies to announce to guys on the boards what area they are in.
27-01-11, 17:34
Sensual Delights

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Originally Posted by anon361

That's the point I'm making, instead of a text which I thing is really risky sending a little flirt within this forum to the members profile would be just as effective and safe..

I got you now, Annon, yeah, that would certainly be a great idea.
27-01-11, 17:35
Sensual Delights

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Originally Posted by dave1dave

I wouldn't agree in just getting random flirt messages.

I think it would be a great idea if it was linked with the profiles in the "My Favourites" section.

So by putting someones profile there you allow the flirt message to be sent to you to inform you they are coming to your area.Or you are willing to recieve these messages.

In essence it wouldn't be unsolicited as by putting their profile there you are showing an intrest in that escort.

Of course, as per my above post to Annon, great idea !
27-01-11, 17:36
Sensual Delights

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Originally Posted by monster_monster

where do you think you are going with those extortionate prices, you mush have that pimp hat on again ;)

remember the girls are flirting with me, so obviously they are interested in me and not my money, I expect this to be free :D

Haha, good one. Perhaps even give you some nice gifts at departure :) ?
27-01-11, 17:40
warmcome

i believe there are systems which send texts to customers on the high st as they pass
Foot Locker etc. "Hi Customer, new Nike range now available"

this is the way businesses have to compete now that such technology is available.
it could get scary though.
27-01-11, 20:27
monster_monster

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Originally Posted by Sensual Delights

Haha, good one. Perhaps even give you some nice gifts at departure :) ?

finally, an escort who gets this whole business ;)
27-01-11, 22:34
Morpheus

Yeah, I don't know. I'm going to have to say no to flirt messages. It sounds a bit like junk mail being sent to my email address (no offence intended to any escorts using this). I would hate logging in to EI and then having to wade through tons of Flirt messages.

Then again if I signed up for it I probably be really upset if I got no messages!

I think the current system on EI of Escorts 'new or back in town' is just fine for my needs.
27-01-11, 22:41
anon361

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Originally Posted by Morpheus

Yeah, I don't know. I'm going to have to say no to flirt messages. It sounds a bit like junk mail being sent to my email address (no offence intended to any escorts using this). I would hate logging in to EI and then having to wade through tons of Flirt messages.

Then again if I signed up for it I probably be really upset if I got no messages!

I think the current system on EI of Escorts 'new or back in town' is just fine for my needs.

I can see why some guys wouldn't like this, maybe like others have mentioned when you add a lady to your favourites it gives you a question would you like to notify xyz that you have added her same way it does when you befriend someone, that way she can now monitor guys who are interested in her and only send them flirts?
27-01-11, 22:43
Morpheus

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Originally Posted by anon361

I can see why some guys wouldn't like this, maybe like others have mentioned when you add a lady to your favourites it gives you a question would you like to notify xyz that you have added her same way it does when you befriend someone, that way she can now monitor guys who are interested in her and only send them flirts?

Yeah I'd definitely go for it if it was someone I had in my favourites. Although in that case I'd like to have the favourites memory storage increased!
27-01-11, 22:55
El Gordo

I really don't like unsolicited advertising. I travel a lot, and sometimes have flexibility in the dates, so if there's a touring escort I really want to see then I will occasionally ask her to let me know her tour dates when they are decided. That's fine, because I've specifically asked for that pm. But anything else would just put me off seeing the lady.

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