An embarrassing problem

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14-10-16, 18:37
ghostshadow

An embarrassing problem

Hey everyone,
First off a note to admins, I apologize if this is posted in the wrong place, and understand if this needs to be taken down for obvious reasons.. Advice from the wonderful folks at E-I is my last hope..

I'm having that most embarrassing of performance issues, it's happened a few times now and it's becoming a mental issue for me.
I love punting and there's always amazing escorts in my area, but when I visit it just doesnt work for me! It's a problem I have with condoms themselves, so I know it's mental and not medical.
That said, if anyone could get in contact with me to let me know where i might be able to get some *ahem* advice to give me the first few successful punts I need, I'd be forever grateful!!

Regards,
GS
14-10-16, 18:55
Clubcard

I generally only book girls that offer OWO and this gets the little lad sorted for the main event. If it was cover oral first it would probably not proform for the entire meeting
14-10-16, 18:57
ghostshadow

I would feel the same, but safety issues would kinda freak me out!
14-10-16, 19:09
thumbles

Go back too one of your regulars
14-10-16, 19:10
willie wacker

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Originally Posted by Clubcard

I generally only book girls that offer OWO and this gets the little lad sorted for the main event. If it was cover oral first it would probably not proform for the entire meeting

Ya I concur there , :)
14-10-16, 19:17
ghostshadow

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Originally Posted by Irish Josephine

Have you tried Latex free condoms?
Not all allergies are all out destruct, some are slight sensitivity which can cause problems.

Thanks for the tip :) its more the mental block that kicks in once I see the condom come out that causes the problem, I've worn them before in relationships without issue, or as clubcard said wearing them after owo is no problem, but it's worth a try!
14-10-16, 19:19
ghostshadow

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Originally Posted by thumbles

Go back too one of your regulars

I don't really have a regular, I'm not able to travel far and my area seems to be a bit of a revolving door, there's no regular escorts based there :(
14-10-16, 19:21
ghostshadow

Basically if anyone could talk to me about some little blue advice in PM's, I'd be really really grateful :)
14-10-16, 19:24
ghostshadow

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Originally Posted by Irish Josephine

You need a lady who can put them on hands free ;)
Just don't ask questions when she is about to perform lol

*** Remembered what a weird lot you lot are, talking about putting on with the mouth, god knows what you lot would imagine :wizard:

Well that certainly sounds interesting, if you're passing my area I'll be sure to call ;)
14-10-16, 19:31
Playitsam

Go for a regular 1 hour massage first to get you in the zone . Then rock off to your appointment, all will be good
14-10-16, 20:01
thumbles

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Originally Posted by ghostshadow

I don't really have a regular, I'm not able to travel far and my area seems to be a bit of a revolving door, there's no regular escorts based there :(

Ah I see well maybe the other advice wille and clubcard posted will work wish you look
14-10-16, 20:21
Sanlad

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Originally Posted by ghostshadow

Basically if anyone could talk to me about some little blue advice in PM's, I'd be really really grateful :)

Be careful as lots of places on the net sell fake stuff and you don't know what's in it. If you go to your doctor you will probably get a prescription and get the safe stuff. I prefer cialis to viagra it feels more natural.
14-10-16, 21:06
circumcised guy

Quote:

Originally Posted by Clubcard

I generally only book girls that offer OWO and this gets the little lad sorted for the main event. If it was cover oral first it would probably not proform for the entire meeting

Yes I would go along with that advice as it has worked for me on a few occasions when I have had a similar problem as the op. But it's not always necessary as I have found out on occasion when i felt a little anxious about it if your with the right lady they can do wonders to help you relax and the little guy comes back to life even with a condom it can be a mental thing.
14-10-16, 22:12
f1 away

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Originally Posted by Irish Josephine

You need a lady who can put them on hands free ;)
Just don't ask questions when she is about to perform lol

*** Remembered what a weird lot you lot are, talking about putting on with the mouth, god knows what you lot would imagine :wizard:

Yes know a lady that still here
That could talk to you with the condom in here mouth
Put it on head free and take it off hand free
Never seen any other lady do this
15-10-16, 00:45
philipkntz

That rings a bell.
15-10-16, 09:03
ghostshadow

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Originally Posted by Sanlad

Be careful as lots of places on the net sell fake stuff and you don't know what's in it. If you go to your doctor you will probably get a prescription and get the safe stuff. I prefer cialis to viagra it feels more natural.

Thanks Sanlad, yeah I feel pretty wary about the internet alright. I guess I might just have to go down to the doc!
15-10-16, 09:52
bigmango

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Originally Posted by Sanlad

Be careful as lots of places on the net sell fake stuff and you don't know what's in it. If you go to your doctor you will probably get a prescription and get the safe stuff. I prefer cialis to viagra it feels more natural.

Sound advice here.

I prefer Cialis to Viagra the effect lasts longer - upto 48 hours.
15-10-16, 09:57
Sanlad

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Originally Posted by bigmango

Sound advice here.

I prefer Cialis to Viagra the effect lasts longer - upto 48 hours.

Yes it lasts longer and it stimulates your desire more too but it probably depends on the user. I find viagra just feels like an unnatural hard on that you have to find somewhere to put lol
I have yet to try kamagra....
15-10-16, 12:53
anon361

Hate condoms and hate them even more when the lady can't put it on without a fuss, always a damper to the mood and unfortunately with me once the mood is gone its very hard to get it back as I get it into my head, here we go again.....
15-10-16, 13:07
ghostshadow

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Originally Posted by anon361

Hate condoms and hate them even more when the lady can't put it on without a fuss, always a damper to the mood and unfortunately with me once the mood is gone its very hard to get it back as I get it into my head, here we go again.....

That's exactly it for me! It's downhill from there, ends up in me finishing the job and leaving, embarrassed :/
15-10-16, 18:08
bollocks

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Originally Posted by anon361

Hate condoms and hate them even more when the lady can't put it on without a fuss, always a damper to the mood and unfortunately with me once the mood is gone its very hard to get it back as I get it into my head, here we go again.....

So it really comes down to not using condoms, and for me a good sexual massage and happy ending is pretty good...............you get most if not all the sensations.
15-10-16, 18:30
Curvaceous Kate

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Originally Posted by ghostshadow

That's exactly it for me! It's downhill from there, ends up in me finishing the job and leaving, embarrassed :/

It's possible that you are so busy worrying about catching something you are not able to relax and enjoy the experience. Personally it wouldn't work for me if I had to do oral with all the time either as I don't enjoy it and it puts a damper on things for me. If I am worrying that the client might have something (as I've seen something I'm not happy with), it kind of puts a damper on the whole thing anyway and I would rather tell them and let them leave.

I expect you don't go down on the lady either as you are far likely to catch something that way. It must be very hard for you (no pun intended).
15-10-16, 19:16
whambamdan

I wouldn't advise rushing down the Cialis/Viagra route too fast, you can build up a resistance to them after time. Cialis just doesn't work for me anymore after taking it for 2 years
I have been there done that so my advice is

Keep fit, overweight\bad fitness affects the bloodflow and affects your confidence. Start walking\swimming etc
Stop watching porn and wanking so much, you become attuned to it and your expectations become based on it.
When seeing a lady, don't swap positions so much, stick to one or two, too much messing about will affect you
Try a cock ring, there are lots out there and they are cheap
go talk to your doctor and don't be embarrassed
eat heathy, change your diet...energy low fat etc
If you still get erections easily or wake up with one then you are not suffering with anything physical, its more likely mental
Age can make a difference, you didn't say what age range you are.
Certain health supplements like well for men containing zinc can help

find a lady or two you are really happy with and stick with them for a while

don't buy horny goat weed etc etc

best of luck
15-10-16, 19:20
Wolverine

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Originally Posted by whambamdan

don't buy horny goat weed

Why , what's the story with that ?
15-10-16, 19:30
whambamdan

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Originally Posted by Wolverine

Why , what's the story with that ?

its a con, like Spanish fly etc
15-10-16, 19:50
anon361

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Originally Posted by Irish Josephine

You need a lady who can put them on hands free ;)
Just don't ask questions when she is about to perform lol

*** Remembered what a weird lot you lot are, talking about putting on with the mouth, god knows what you lot would imagine :wizard:

I've yet to meet a lady that can do that successfully and I've been with more than 1 or 2 that's tried..