When does a fantasy stop beind a fantasy???......Or does it ever........

I was asked recently by a lovely young lady while in bed to tell her about my fantasies. Then, something happened, that doesn't aften happen. I was lost for words. I actually didn't know what to say to her. I wasn't sure if I couldn't think of a fantasy that could be fulfilled with her at that time and place, or I couldn't think of one at all...........It played on my mind a little bit. Now there's not much that I have an interest in doing, sexually, that I haven't already done, so maybe that was it.......

My question is this.........

When does a fantasy stop being a fantasy???

When it's fulfilled???

Is it then reality, and you think of it then only as a memory???

Or even after you've done it is it still a fantasy to you???

Or are some fantasies best left never being made a reality, and thus always remaining a fantasy???

The fantasy usually ends for me when I wake up :(:(

I don't think a fantasy necessarily stops being one once you've fulfilled it. After all, you can dream of doing it again sometime in the future either with the same person or with someone new.

As regards some fantasies best left not becoming reality: I suppose that depends on the particular girl you're with. Some people's fantasies are straightforward enough, but there are some that are downright weird. Some girls may not be very comfortable with the weird ones.

revealing your fantasies to the right girl is ok but some girls take it too seriously I was seeing a girl few years ago & after giving her a good spanking we were lying in bed talking few minutes later I asked her could I use a belt the next time for a few gentle whacks on her bum she was disgusted the fantasy ended:o...

Then, something happened, that doesn't aften happen. I was lost for words.

You got a ride?

When does a fantasy stop being a fantasy??

Once you've done it.

Luther the Mighty,
Westside.

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Originally Posted by experienced punter

revealing your fantasies to the right girl is ok but some girls take it too seriously I was seeing a girl few years ago & after giving her a good spanking we were lying in bed talking few minutes later I asked her could I use a belt the next time for a few gentle whacks on her bum she was disgusted the fantasy ended:o...

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Sincerely,
Westside.

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Originally Posted by Westsidex

Then, something happened, that doesn't aften happen. I was lost for words.

You got a ride?

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It was bound to happen sooner or later.......

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Originally Posted by Westsidex

When does a fantasy stop being a fantasy??

Once you've done it.

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So perhaps once you fulfill a fantasy it then becomes reality and a memory and maybe you replace it with another one???

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Originally Posted by Westsidex

Luther the Mighty,
Westside.

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Correct again...........You're on a roll...........:D