Christy, I doubt you're gay......
Quote:
Originally Posted by
christy b
hi all ,im a member here with a good bit,love looking at the girls,never managed to get the confidence to meet any of them,im also a virgin ,im 25,but the last few nights ive found myself looking at gay websites,and gay datiing websites,i dont want to be gay no way but im starting to look at guys and think about being with a guy,has any other guy experienced this :confused:
I doubt you're even bi, your lack of confidence with the ladies is just leading you to believe that you would be more confident talking to men, and that it would be easier...........
And even if you are, I still don't see the problem.......
Best of luck, but it's all about the confidence I'd say, all about who you feel more comfortable around and talking to at the moment.............
Take a dip in the river of lady love and see how you feel. Don't be dipping a toe in to test the water, just jump in..........