Anybody seen this story? Does it affect anybody here? It would be a f**king disaster if something similar happened to this website!
http://www.irishtimes.com/news/crime...cked-1.2291065
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Anybody seen this story? Does it affect anybody here? It would be a f**king disaster if something similar happened to this website!
http://www.irishtimes.com/news/crime...cked-1.2291065
Story broke yesterday.
40,000 Irish users claimed (The Sun says 125,000)
And a million or so registered in Britain.
Same owners have a site "Established Men" (wealthy males /younger women) which may also be affected.
And another site for "cougars" in search of younger men which the owners say is not affected (a lot less activity on this site presumably :-)
Do you think a similar thing could happen to this website?
Could I suppose.
Here I presume you don't have personal details.
The problem on the A.M. site is credit card details. ..They had to pay something like £149 to register.
The hackers have stated some ideology against "cheaters/adultery"(if it is not some outright attempt at criminality).
It's comical, meeting escorts on line is one thing, but to use a website to seek out an affair is so much worse, your making a conscious decision to have an affair, it didn't just happen, fuck them
who is going to have the time or care enough to wade through hundreds/thousands of pages of names to find if they know someone though
fnaar fnaar, you could say affairs are too, each trading their pleasures for each other (during an affair)
affairs are like free punting.......ish
both are equally bad in my eyes (and most non deluded peoples)
.....but hey ho carry on clinging to that raft as it heads for the falls :D
dont confuse this as judgement, for obvious reasons I couldnt give a toss what other people do with their lives
it just amazes me that people can actually believe this level of lie they tell themselves, which means deep down they KNOW its delusion but decide to believe it. which is fine too :lmao:
in summary/TLDR; :dance:
Tltr. ....ffs.
Fair point but punting is a business, and I'm sure very few if any lads have had unwanted txts from escorts wondering when they'll see them again, I suppose the point I'm tryna make is that theres a much much higher chance of becoming emotionally invested in an affair...and people go looking for it online!
I'm not saying punting isn't cheating but it's something I do when I've a bit of extra cash n I feel like treating myself and hopefully my chances of getting a bunny boiler are alot lower with our ladies here :)
Everytime you visit an escort your privacy is compromised ,I dont understand the whinging here?
Every time you pass a CCTV camera your privacy is compromised.I don't understand no whinging about these.The bloody things are becoming ubiquitous.
Saw somewhere today, some fellow who was supposed to have stopped smoking, was caught smoking by his wife due to a Google Street view picture.
Actually Kenton, in the much the same way that escorts and clients are often mis-understood by the general public and media, the same applies to members of AM!
And yes, I am a member and have been for a number of years now.
Its not just married people on there, there's single people looking for something uncomplicated as well, wannabe sugar babes seeking sugar daddies, hell I've even seen the odd TV advertise.
There is a fair amount of cougars looking for buff young men, but also just lonely people, lonely people in marriages looking for some attention and warmth.
Theres a fair few nutters as well, divas, and weirdos.
In over 2 years, Ive met only 2 nice and normal ladies.
But these people would never contemplate hiring an escort in the same way you wouldn't join AM! Everyone has their own "moral hierarchy"
For me, escorts are a much safer bet of physical comfort, certainly cleaner, cheaper and more straight to the point! No messing around, endless "dates" Escorts are also by far much better looking and nicer people.
Some on AM like to play games and just want free drinks and meals, and they think they are god's gift
Luckily, my CC details expired ages ago :D
It just boils down to are you worth it ??
there isnt though, the point of an affair is to get your leg over with another other than your partner, not leave them or become emotionally involved outside of the fling, Id say very few affairs end up in the partner who was having one ending it with their partner, so that reasoning is never gonna fly.
stick to the first and 3rd points, much more pragmatic and realistic approach, and credible, and doesn't require delusion to believe it either :D escorting is the definition of no strings attached fun
Scaremonger :-(
My definition is quite different. The essence of an affair is emotional involvement. I would feel guilty about having an affair, but have no sense of betrayal when visiting escorts.
Sorry, I don't agree with your other sentence either - I have seen lots of affairs lead to break-ups.
Wait till some hacks face book and that's when the fun will start
Absolutely zero sympathy for any of the members of Ashley Madison who are exposed for what they are. Same goes if something similar ever happened on this site or a similar one.
Can never understand why people stay in relationships where they feel compelled to cheat. Either fix it or fuck off. And even more confusing to me is the way they try to justify it. I'd love to see the faces of some of the guys on this site if their wives/partners used the same pathetic excuses for cheating that they do.