Right Ladies.
For get the wheres and the mights and maybes for a sec and answer this. To me the backbone of any relationship is based on honesty,trust and respect and they are all interlinked to one another in varying degrees.
Your working as an escort and you meet a guy you really like (could be anywhere).
Bottom line do you tell him the truth or not bearing in mind that the values i mentioned above ,as far as im concerned should be the basis of everything a relationship is worth.
Sincerely,
Westside.
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06-09-07, 20:21westsideQ for the Escorts.......................................
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06-09-07, 21:33claudia xoxnope!!!
nope we could never tell until we know that we can compleatly trust the guy we are with... this is a very big thing to turn around and say...
every1 has something to hide and this would definitly be 1 thing...
put your self in our postion... wat would you do???
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06-09-07, 22:08westsideWell love...................................................................trust ,honesty and respect are huge with me.Manners and a nice smile are two others that hit it off. Cute eyes are another.Quote:
Originally Posted by claudia xox
If i was an escort, based on the above values i would be honest and tell the truth but only when im certain that i can trust him to a degree, if ah fuck it sweetie im starting to feel like a homo....how are you love??
One thing that i do is test a woman out by saying certain things or acting a certain way just to see how she reacts. It pays for a guy to ignore her a bit (it makes her more curious) but not to the point of overdoing it. Theres a happy medium.
another thing that guys screw up big time is in a pub when they go over to a girl and get blown away.then over to another girl blown away ,then another.Get my drift.these girls arent no 1 they are no two or three.One of many, nothing speicial.
Here is a tip for guys that works. At least to the point of getting her attention. Your in a pub and obviously drink in hand.Get a girls attention without staring he rdown. Just when she looks again take a drink from the bottle and give her eye contact and dont break it until your finished taking the sup from the drink.She wont look away. Look away and keep an eye on her discretly.If she looks back more than once ,get over there.I won many a bet on this tip. Only thing is i drank it again.
Eye contact is everthing,
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07-09-07, 10:09Dub Lad
jesus fagobag giving out advice there what a full filled life you have.
Well I must get back to work you know what I mean work not just sittin on me hole giving out advice
Westie your 2 sandwhiches short of a picnic ow yeahhh -
07-09-07, 10:10Dub Lad
also if your with a prostitute and shes ridin loads of lads its still DOING the dirt like hello
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07-09-07, 12:12westsideLaadddoooooooooooooooooooooooo!!Hey Laadddoooooooooo, hows the form with you? Yes, i fully understand your work. Your arse must have perminant seat marks on its checks. hey Laddoooo i have a job for you ,go a check out the poll on "the Sweetie" and then check the views and ask yourself, why the hell dont they vote when they are quick enough to complain.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dub Lad
How is the promotion ladoooo? Still counting shit stains on toilet bowels? There are 30042 number of shit stains in Galway city center so we need 5467 lts of cleaner for them. Heart rendering stuff ladoooooo.
Hey ,you still saving that lituanian woman??You still a hero ladooooooo?How about gropping the lapdancers??
Oh yes, he is the face of modern Ireland as we know it, he is the LLLLLLaaaaaaaaaadddddddddoooooooooooo.
Im Emigrating!,
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07-09-07, 15:03girlfriend10 Pence Worth!
Hi Gina here, Im new but I wish to put in my 10 Pence worth. I agree with you Westside. Trust and Honesty for me is everything. Offering your services as an escort is no different than any other service provider, and lets face it sex as a service to a client is not the same as something special you have with your own partner. I would have no problem is telling someone I liked the truth and hopefully if they are as open about the whole escort scene or anything in the sex industry as I am then they will understand. In addition they will probably be grateful for the honesty and actually trust you all the more.
Everyone is different but for me anyway I would dread the thought of getting close to someone and everything be going great and then break the news say a year down the line.
Being an escort shouldnt be likened to having an affair or cheating, If your up front and honest about what you do then both of you know where you stand and each other can accept it and move on or not.
Honesty is the best policy (just my personal opinion guys)
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08-09-07, 10:14silo
but when the hubbys at work and the wife (former escort) needs a few bob for the new kitchen, how many scums (like you and me) be calling over to the house?! "darling!, I only did it for us!".
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08-09-07, 11:36diverMale paraanoia
Typical male paranoia. If men spent as much time treating their wives and girlfriends as they did worrying about them being faithful then they would never have anything to worry about. I know that it is a generalisation but women tend to be faithful whereas men tend to be unfaithful.
Men, who are intellectually challenged, automatically assume that everyone elses brain functions the same as theirs. Therefor if they they have a tendency to be unfaithful, or untrustworthy or whatever, they assume that everyone else is the same.
I have had a number of long term relationships with girls who I met as escorts. If anything, their experiences make them less inclined to be unfaithful. Unfortunately, it can also make them more inclined to be possessive and paranoid. They know how easily men wander. -
08-09-07, 16:36westsideWhat??Women tend to be faithful and men tend to be unfaithful?? How do you know? You know everyone or something? I have being approached at weddings ,21sts, parties, work etc by various women who "WERE ATTACHED". Either married or in a relationship and i can think of three off the top of my head who were actually pregnant when they tried their luck. Just for the record i did nothing with them because people like that dont impress me.Quote:
Originally Posted by diver
Bottom line a person is either nice or not. They either cheat or not. I can see your point though but its not applicable to all men.
I have never cheated on a woman once, never and i had plenty chances. Its cheap, its shitty and i wouldnt like it done to me.If im with an escort (so far this year not one) i am single. I control me and not some vice etc.
On your last point join the club although mine were around the six month mark on average. Again escorts are humans and humans vary. We get confident escorts, nasty escorts, nice escorts, you get my drift. Nope most escorts are no more possessive or paranoid than the average woman but i can say two things.
Escorts on average are way tougher in a life sense than your average woman and i find that escorts on average have a far higher emphasis on trust in a relationship too. Only thing i would be cagey about with most escorts is that they are money minded people to a very high degree. Money is a high, high value to them and at the end of the day ,in a conflict, the job or money will come before the bf if neccessary. (if nesscessary).
Sincerely,
Westside.
PS why are lads answering this and ignoring their own q as in below?? Beats me.