do men live a lie?

in reality, men are designed to want to fuck lots of women.
'society' doesn't accept this and has created marraige to harness men.

many married men will tell you that they don't get enough sex from their wives
or worse, their wives/girlfriends use sex as some sort of weapon/bargaining tool
against them.

the great thing about the sex industry is it's the most honest exchange
between any man or woman IMO.

client: "i want to give you one" x

escort: "thats fine, €x will do nicely" x

That's why I've opted for the singles life. If I feel the need for an intimate encounter once in a while, I'll arrange to meet one of the ladies :) This way I'm free and am living an honest life. Am I hurting anyone by meeting escorts? Nope :D Singles life is awesome.

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Originally Posted by warmcome

in reality, men are designed to want to fuck lots of women.
'society' doesn't accept this and has created marraige to harness men.

many married men will tell you that they don't get enough sex from their wives
or worse, their wives/girlfriends use sex as some sort of weapon/bargaining tool
against them.

the great thing about the sex industry is it's the most honest exchange
between any man or woman IMO.

client: "i want to give you one" x

escort: "thats fine, €x will do nicely" x

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I am divorced a long time, and having to current partner, means I am not living a lie.
I do agree about the honesty and the “fair-trade” economic parts though, but it’s not all about just “wanting to give somebody one”. I’m on a search for that one in a million, although I think it’s more like one in a billion at this stage.
There has to be a connection beyond the physical, otherwise you could just play with yourself instead or worse, go kerb crawling.

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Originally Posted by warmcome

in reality, men are designed to want to fuck lots of women.
'society' doesn't accept this and has created marraige to harness men.

many married men will tell you that they don't get enough sex from their wives
or worse, their wives/girlfriends use sex as some sort of weapon/bargaining tool
against them.

the great thing about the sex industry is it's the most honest exchange
between any man or woman IMO.

client: "i want to give you one" x

escort: "thats fine, €x will do nicely" x

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A man does not have to get married. It isnt the law. He does so of his own free will. Why - I'll never understand.:confused:

Thank god for EI .: doc

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Originally Posted by warmcome

in reality, men are designed to want to fuck lots of women.
'society' doesn't accept this and has created marraige to harness men.
many married men will tell you that they don't get enough sex from their wives
or worse, their wives/girlfriends use sex as some sort of weapon/bargaining tool
against them.
the great thing about the sex industry is it's the most honest exchange
between any man or woman IMO.

client: "i want to give you one" x
escort: "thats fine, €x will do nicely" x

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No, I don't believe the above for an instant, infact I would go further to say that the statement is a sad reflection and view on the state of marriage between a man and woman.

I married quite young at 23 and always work 65+ hours a week from an early age.
So having been married for 23 years, I decided to visit an escort for the first time.

Yes, I was unfaithful and the escort I visited was only the third lady I had ever had sex with.
My weakness and being unfaithful to my wife should not cast distain on the state of marriage.
I believe there are many men around with the fortitude and loving I do not possess,
so we should not cast judgements on men in general.
It is my belief that men who remain true and love their partner,
will experience something the rest of us will always long for.

Do I think that men are designed just to want to 'fuck ladies'? Of course not!
Such men are designed as I am - with a flaw in their personality!
A true man with always remain true to their lady, and respect, care and love their lady for eternity!
So never judge marriage as you do in a forum such as this, but with the strength, bearing and fortitude that others possess rather than a person like me.

Marriage is a beautiful state to encounter and experience,
I for one wish I deserved it's grace!

Mark, thanks for your impassioned response.
i think fete has not led me to meet many trustworthy women
and you have been lucky to have avoided bad women.