Can we REALLY leave our escorting life behind and go back to how we were before?

I was reading a blog yesteday and I have been wondering if it really is possible to not be "hardened" from escorting and to resume a life with a "normal" job and regain relationships without my last job effecting me?????

This is what the blog said-

"I am hardened from working. I am not exactly sure how to explain the feeling, but it is an awareness that i wish i didn't have. The knowledge of what its really like inside the world of prostitution is not pretty.
Yes, you can make it, you can pay your bills and get what you need, but you are going to walk away ( if your lucky enough to) feeling terrible. You've sold a part of yourself and you cant buy it back"

I know my view......but whats yours?

I think that the first few months/years after the job are going to be the hardest, in terms of money and emotions. You might end up missing people that used to visit you regularly, who says that you don't?

And falling in love will always happen, I think, it's just the way love works. If you find that special someone, you're gonna know it, regardless of the job you've been doing.

It's definitely gonna be harder, because you might have lost your trust in men and humanity as a whole. It's gonna be in the back of your head.

But if you find that someone who does not care about things that happened in the past, that loves you with all his heart for the person that you are, not the way you look like or what you did in the past, it might happen.

Hope this helps. :)

I have experience of 2 girls working as escorts who tried to move away without success they had become so ''hardened'' like u said they had trouble with moving into 'normal' r/ships' have to say too they admitted the lure of the monies they could make from escorting influenced their decisions to move back to escorting they had little trust in men which was a big thing too
Tell u this much too clients can become 'hardened' in a way too when u no longer visit escorts(like me!) your expectations looks wise with women is high & the sex without commitment thing u can have with escorts is something I certainly miss.......

Can only give my view here as not an escort. I believe we all sell part of ourselves every single day of life whether it be through work and most other things. The only difference here is the sex element but even looking at that do married people or people who are engaged or in relationships not sell themselves to one another? I believe we do in one way or another through courtship and attempting to impress the other partner and in particular the sex element in many relationships where the male sells himself by being particularly nice to the female in an attempt to get her to bed. Yes I do realise this is not always the case but it does happpen. When I go for a job interview it is not just my talents qualifications and skils I am selling but also my appearance so we are really in a sales orientated world. I am not missing the point here I believe as I do understand that emotions and feelings play a vital role in any persons well being but I am saying it really depends on the person doing the selling and their own perspective of things. I guess the term 'hardened from working' applies to many of us as I have had suffered emotional effects from some jobs I have worked in and seen the damage psychological abuse can do but continued for the same reason in that I had to pay the bills and survive. I also think that whilst I have sold part of myself and can't buy it back it's also a learning experience and I have come to realise that it is work end of story which I separate from the rest of my life wherever possible. Once again I am not in a position to say how any escort feels but the to answer the question I do not believe it is possible to 'resume a normal life' without being affected as life experiences affect us all and carry on throughout our lives.

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Originally Posted by robijntje

I think that the first few months/years after the job are going to be the hardest, in terms of money and emotions. You might end up missing people that used to visit you regularly, who says that you don't?

And falling in love will always happen, I think, it's just the way love works. If you find that special someone, you're gonna know it, regardless of the job you've been doing.

It's definitely gonna be harder, because you might have lost your trust in men and humanity as a whole. It's gonna be in the back of your head.

But if you find that someone who does not care about things that happened in the past, that loves you with all his heart for the person that you are, not the way you look like or what you did in the past, it might happen.

Hope this helps. :)

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I have just been on a research programme for a University and these questions came up. It was really interesting.....

People on "the outside" of punting have very biased and rigid opinions about us, and presume we are so "damaged" through escorting that we can never intergrate back into a happy fulfilling life.......

I am now looking at it from the punters side too.....

When I first started punting, I talked to my best friend about it. He does not judge me or any of the escorts, but he warned me however.

Not that I would fall in love with one particular lady and that she would take advantage of that, he trusts my judgement enough.

However, for long time punters it's as hard to get into a normal relationship after punting, since you've had the lifestyle of just going to a lady whenever you felt like it, just sex without commitment, as Experienced Punter stated earlier. In a relationship, you have to commit to making the relationship work, and that is way harder than just making a call and putting some money on the table to get what you want...

He just warned me that if I would stick to punting for too long, I may never have a normal relationship again, because I'm used to not committing. We'll see what happens though :).

I've tried, what is a normal life after escorting? "It's not easy! ....( To go to look for work in their town where everyone probably knows what they are doing or just a part of them) to get up every morning to go to work at the same time, the same carried out in time to go home and watch TV or make dinner. Calculated each month, what amount of money u need to pay the bills, to buy food, etc. ...
Is also very difficult to prevail in the world. Especially if you were an escort in the past.
If a normal life would be easy if I had not come back probably! But then .... I hate to lead a normal life! And I'm crazy too! :)

Only love can help! A love which can be trusted, which is supported! We can not just trust the men's which I think is understandable! :) Only the selfless love .... and here's the next questions ..... If you find someone you love and He loves ....
U will stop the escorting?

You will never forget it,you can only bury the memories, but does he?
He will be able to forget and start a new life with you?
Or will all just come up at every fight?
hmmmm ..... interesting, complex things are!

Anyone knows the answers?

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

i also think punting when one is young is a bad idea
as when your young thats when you develop social skills, learning how to pick up wemon etc etc if you dont get theese skills how do you manage to get a wife when your older

also i dont like the idea of a young person visiting stunning ho's and then how his he in the future going to be satisfied with a bog standard wife

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Ehm... I don't mean to be rude or anything, but where do I state that I'm young? And also, let's just say that I am indeed quite young, who says that young people do not have any life experience at all?

Let's define young maybe. Young purely based on age would probably be 17-22 or something like that? Or up to 25? And what if you deal with a client who acts like he's 27-28 but in truth is only 21 or 22? Is that still young? Does the age which is presented on the passport matter, or is it truly the way his mind works?

And you visit stunning ho's... But always keep it in the back of your mind that what they do is what they do, putting up an act on most occasions... they pretend like they are in love with you at best but they aren't... If you can't see that, you better not punt, or you're in for a lot of trouble.

Learning to pick up women... I just hate that phrase. It's like you pick them up, shag them and then throw them out like a piece of garbage. That's just so disrespectful :s.

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

i really want a normal life nornal job boyfriend etc etc
but its so hard
im finding it really difficult to date at the mo, how do you trust someone,
when im working i get used to the whole getting a text after saying how fantastic i am (its good as it helps to know your doing a good job) but when you date you see someone for a few weeks then you sleep with them then they dont ring text or anything till the following week, its bloody head wrecking
if you working in a normal job you boos wont send messages saying your good at your job, how will i coupe, id be a nervous ass all the time

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I think you will meet the right person. You just haven't yet. I gave up escorting for four years, surprisingly it is easy to do. It was very hard to come back, however.

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Originally Posted by robijntje

Ehm... I don't mean to be rude or anything, but where do I state that I'm young? And also, let's just say that I am indeed quite young, who says that young people do not have any life experience at all?

Let's define young maybe. Young purely based on age would probably be 17-22 or something like that? Or up to 25? And what if you deal with a client who acts like he's 27-28 but in truth is only 21 or 22? Is that still young? Does the age which is presented on the passport matter, or is it truly the way his mind works?

And you visit stunning ho's... But always keep it in the back of your mind that what they do is what they do, putting up an act on most occasions... they pretend like they are in love with you at best but they aren't... If you can't see that, you better not punt, or you're in for a lot of trouble.

Learning to pick up women... I just hate that phrase. It's like you pick them up, shag them and then throw them out like a piece of garbage. That's just so disrespectful :s.

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I think what she is saying is that young people tend not to have had enough time to develope socaily. They should be trying to get gfs and be able to develop relationships rather than just seeing an escort for sex.

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Originally Posted by Doozer

I think what she is saying is that young people tend not to have had enough time to develope socaily. They should be trying to get gfs and be able to develop relationships rather than just seeing an escort for sex.

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We all have our own reasons to start punting, so young people have that as well ;)

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Originally Posted by robijntje

We all have our own reasons to start punting, so young people have that as well ;)

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I am not saying young people dont have a right to start punting. Im sure they have their own reasons. What I am saying and this is only my own opinion, that young people should be trying to see regular women not escorts for their own personal growth

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Originally Posted by Bustybronte

I was reading a blog yesteday and I have been wondering if it really is possible to not be "hardened" from escorting and to resume a life with a "normal" job and regain relationships without my last job effecting me?????

This is what the blog said-

"I am hardened from working. I am not exactly sure how to explain the feeling, but it is an awareness that i wish i didn't have. The knowledge of what its really like inside the world of prostitution is not pretty.
Yes, you can make it, you can pay your bills and get what you need, but you are going to walk away ( if your lucky enough to) feeling terrible. You've sold a part of yourself and you cant buy it back"

I know my view......but whats yours?

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I know a few girls who have stopped escorting and gone on to be fine and doing very well. I said it before that the whole trick (bills or otehrwise) and this goes with anything in life ,is if it starts going against you, get out. This goes for anything.

I think the part about giving a part of yourself away comes down to a girls perception of the job and her own self esteem. I think a girl with natural higher self esteem will find it easier than a girl with naturally lower self esteem.Doesnt mean that a girl has low self esteem but some have higher.

If you built a wall and a block fell out what do you do? You can leave it as it is or fill the hole with another block or similar. This is the way an escort should look at it. How does she fill that void or in your own words that part you give away? Find someone to put it back.

If an escort is giving up escorting then give it up. No taling to punters you saw or knew. No hanging around places you worked etc. If your out then your out. This way along with simply seeing it as the beginning of a new phase of life ,i believe any escort can do well and very well too as she would have learned quite abit from her experience of being an escort. The trouble is ,is if you half do it. You half stop, half go around ppl that you met through it. Then its like a halfway house. Neither coming or going.

I think the danger for an escort is thinking all guys will see them as just someone for sex and this simply isnt true at all. I spent two bloody hours of my life trying to drill this into a girls mind one night. Oh all men just want sex, no such thing as love. Bullshit. Men need to be loved just as much as women and any guy that says otherwise is talking through his ass.

So if a girl is out she is out, make a fresh start, dont think all men just see you as someone for sex and more importantly understand that the past is just the past and only happened because its what you needed or had to do at that time.It has no further relevance to the future.

Westside.

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Originally Posted by Bustybronte

I was reading a blog yesteday and I have been wondering if it really is possible to not be "hardened" from escorting and to resume a life with a "normal" job and regain relationships without my last job effecting me?????

This is what the blog said-

"I am hardened from working. I am not exactly sure how to explain the feeling, but it is an awareness that i wish i didn't have. The knowledge of what its really like inside the world of prostitution is not pretty.
Yes, you can make it, you can pay your bills and get what you need, but you are going to walk away ( if your lucky enough to) feeling terrible. You've sold a part of yourself and you cant buy it back"

I know my view......but whats yours?

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I'm sure it's difficult to adjust, particularly at first. But one thing to keep in mind is that no one is going to write a blog about how they've had no problems. Why would they? On the internet you're always going to find the ones who are finding it hardest.

It's not just escorts, by the way. I saw this recently:

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I left A&E because all I wanted to do was torture the patients - this is not healthy.

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Originally Posted by Doozer

I am not saying young people dont have a right to start punting. Im sure they have their own reasons. What I am saying and this is only my own opinion, that young people should be trying to see regular women not escorts for their own personal growth

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Does this opinion also work the other way around?

That young escorts should not be escorting but trying to meet regular men and doing a regular job, for their own personal growth?

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Originally Posted by Prophylactic

Does this opinion also work the other way around?

That young escorts should not be escorting but trying to meet regular men and doing a regular job, for their own personal growth?

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Yes. But escorting tends to be driven by financial need.

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Originally Posted by Westsidex

I know a few girls who have stopped escorting and gone on to be fine and doing very well. I said it before that the whole trick (bills or otehrwise) and this goes with anything in life ,is if it starts going against you, get out. This goes for anything.

I think the part about giving a part of yourself away comes down to a girls perception of the job and her own self esteem. I think a girl with natural higher self esteem will find it easier than a girl with naturally lower self esteem.Doesnt mean that a girl has low self esteem but some have higher.

If you built a wall and a block fell out what do you do? You can leave it as it is or fill the hole with another block or similar. This is the way an escort should look at it. How does she fill that void or in your own words that part you give away? Find someone to put it back.

If an escort is giving up escorting then give it up. No taling to punters you saw or knew. No hanging around places you worked etc. If your out then your out. This way along with simply seeing it as the beginning of a new phase of life ,i believe any escort can do well and very well too as she would have learned quite abit from her experience of being an escort. The trouble is ,is if you half do it. You half stop, half go around ppl that you met through it. Then its like a halfway house. Neither coming or going.

I think the danger for an escort is thinking all guys will see them as just someone for sex and this simply isnt true at all. I spent two bloody hours of my life trying to drill this into a girls mind one night. Oh all men just want sex, no such thing as love. Bullshit. Men need to be loved just as much as women and any guy that says otherwise is talking through his ass.

So if a girl is out she is out, make a fresh start, dont think all men just see you as someone for sex and more importantly understand that the past is just the past and only happened because its what you needed or had to do at that time.It has no further relevance to the future.

Westside.

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I definitely see your point here, West, and I agree with you.

However, severing all ties with the past, and also past clients... I'm not saying everyone should or shouldn't, that's your own choice, but what if you developed a friendship with one of your clients? Should you also give that up?

I know that is maybe very rare, but it happens, we're people in the first place.

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Yes. But escorting tends to be driven by financial need.

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Im not trying to be obstinate here, but there are thousands upon thousands of young women, some just after leaving college, uni etc who have no jobs, low or no income, ladies who have been made unemployed, maybe some even have young families, mortgages etc but they make do, they survive, they live and 99% of them dont ever think, escorting is the answer to my problems, it doesnt even enter their mind, so im finding it hard, that financial reasons are the reasons why young, if any, escorts start in the profession

That is not a discussion I will be drawn on, i'm afraid. If I could sit down and explain the realities to every young escort I meet then I would. But people make decisions- sometimes before they have much clue where those decisions can lead.

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

i really want a normal life nornal job boyfriend etc etc
but its so hard
im finding it really difficult to date at the mo, how do you trust someone,
when im working i get used to the whole getting a text after saying how fantastic i am (its good as it helps to know your doing a good job) but when you date you see someone for a few weeks then you sleep with them then they dont ring text or anything till the following week, its bloody head wrecking
if you working in a normal job you boos wont send messages saying your good at your job, how will i coupe, id be a nervous ass all the time

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So whats harder? Not getting texts from a boss saying you are good at your job or sitting in a hotel room or an apt waiting for someone who never saw or knew knocking at the door to come in? Wouldnt this be harder than going to work, doing your work and going home again and who cares what this boss thinks as you think you did your best? In a job your work standard is the bosses problem, not yours. Just do your best and thats that.

If you go along the road of how can i trust anyone then you will only do everything in your life once and that would be all.Is that worth the risk? Is it really worth the risk? Remember when you dont trust someone you give off a false sense that the other person might pick up on and may be thinking the same thing that you are.

At the end of the day doesnt enough come along in life to try to kick us in the ass besides kicking ourselves in it?

Westside.

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Originally Posted by Prophylactic

Im not trying to be obstinate here, but there are thousands upon thousands of young women, some just after leaving college, uni etc who have no jobs, low or no income, ladies who have been made unemployed, maybe some even have young families, mortgages etc but they make do, they survive, they live and 99% of them dont ever think, escorting is the answer to my problems, it doesnt even enter their mind, so im finding it hard, that financial reasons are the reasons why young, if any, escorts start in the profession

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If you don't think they are doing it for financial reasons then why are they doing it? :confused:

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Originally Posted by Prophylactic

Does this opinion also work the other way around?

That young escorts should not be escorting but trying to meet regular men and doing a regular job, for their own personal growth?

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It should but there is less chance of a younger escort seeing this as anything less than a business transaction. But yes In my opinion younger escorts should not be working untill they are older, but as Lucy says tehy are driven by financila need rather than a biological drive

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

maybe im strange but i love that part of my job i find it exciting and a rush

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I don't find that strange. Superquinn does seem a little boring after you have wandered around a few five star hotels. I think we all have our own reasons.

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Originally Posted by El Gordo

If you don't think they are doing it for financial reasons then why are they doing it? :confused:

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The thrill, the rush that comes with it, the lifetsyle, the things that the money it brings can get you

I know from one lady that these are the reasons

She quite matter-of-factly told me that after only a year she had made ten times what she needed to pay off student loans etc but that she got such a buzz, she couldnt give it up.

IMO, if it were purely down to financial troubles that women entered the escorting business, then given the present state of the economy etc, 50% of the female population would be escorting but they dont

Lets not kid ourselves by saying financial reasons are the main or only reasons why women do this job

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

maybe im strange but i love that part of my job i find it exciting and a rush

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Nothing at all wrong with that but im telling you that you love the hardest part of your job thats nothing compared to other jobs so you wont have a problem in any other job unless your a hairdresser trying to perform open heart surgery.

The part of your job you dont like is actually the easiest part to sort out if, your willing to let the past be ,the good ,the bad and the inbetweens. Escorts can trust guys but obviously would find it harder to trust guys that punt.

I think its very important for an escort to be around guys that dont punt. Likewise i think its very important that punters are around girls that arent escorts. I dont think its healthy to be otherwise.

Westside.

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Originally Posted by Prophylactic

The thrill, the rush that comes with it, the lifetsyle, the things that the money it brings can get you

I know from one lady that these are the reasons

She quite matter-of-factly told me that after only a year she had made ten times what she needed to pay off student loans etc but that she got such a buzz, she couldnt give it up.

IMO, if it were purely down to financial troubles that women entered the escorting business, then given the present state of the economy etc, 50% of the female population would be escorting but they dont

Lets not kid ourselves by saying financial reasons are the main or only reasons why women do this job

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Interesting. But weren't we discussing young escorts? Also I think in England we have noticed a substantial rise in new escorts since the start of the recession.

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

when i worked in the north a year ago there was only 14 escorts on adult work i checked adult work yesterday and in norther ireland it has jumped from 14 to 420

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That's incredible. Are they finding clients? I don't believe that the number of punters has risen 2900% in a year.

from earning 200e and hour to 10e an hour thats def not going to be an easy transition!!!
im not really one to have much of an opinion here as im only 20 and only been working hor a year and half
but will say havnt been able to have a relationship really, i love my job and i do truely love the sex :P but then at the end of the day u kinda get sick of it :S .... then u go to bed n wake up horny lol again lol

but i find it hard to be genuinely emotional with someone and when im not working def dont want someone cuddling up to me or anything, time off is my bodys time off .. meaning no1 can touch, my space ur space lol
hence for me relationships at the moment are off the card

see how things change when im older but for now im happy :)

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

but as soon as i applied for a assistant managers position in one to the stores branches i was brought up told how crap i was told how much things i had done wrong (might add the things they said were down to other supervisors not me as i wasnt even in the store when they occured ) and when i tried to stand up for my self and explain the examples given were nothing to do with me but down to other suspervisors decissions or the managers dessions, i wasnt allowed to speak, so i littery handed in my notice the next day, i dont think i could go through something like that again

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I mentioned this before. I was walking a dog one time and my old fella was with me. A couple were walking up towards us and i could see they were right snobby shitheads. My old fella said hi to them and they walked straight past and said nothing. I turned around to him and said why did you say hi when you could see they were shitheads. He said that for every 10 ppl he would say hi to maube 2 would say hi back and those 2 would turn out to be ppl that he would know and talk to everytime he saw them. Yet if he did it my way , he would never know. The same goes for what happened you here. This sort of thing happens but every now and then you might find a boss that will let you speak and will listen and you end up going further in the job. but if you let this one eg stop you from ever doing any job other than escorting again ,would it be worth the risk? Thats assuming you want to do something different. If you dont then nothign wrong with that.

At times in life you need to loose a few times in order to develope the know how and experience to win at times. Not trying based on previous experiences is the greatets tragedy of all. then you never know if you could have done it or not. This is fine until you are on your death bed. Do you want to look back at a life of trying and winning some or a life of winning nothing because you let a persons actions damage what you wanted? Nothing is worth that to me anyway.

Westside.

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Originally Posted by El Gordo

That's incredible. Are they finding clients? I don't believe that the number of punters has risen 2900% in a year.

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There will always be clients for new escorts. Unfortunately it will also mean a rise in other incidents.

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Originally Posted by ciara

from earning 200e and hour to 10e an hour thats def not going to be an easy transition!!!
im not really one to have much of an opinion here as im only 20 and only been working hor a year and half
but will say havnt been able to have a relationship really, i love my job and i do truely love the sex :P but then at the end of the day u kinda get sick of it :S .... then u go to bed n wake up horny lol again lol

but i find it hard to be genuinely emotional with someone and when im not working def dont want someone cuddling up to me or anything, time off is my bodys time off .. meaning no1 can touch, my space ur space lol
hence for me relationships at the moment are off the card

see how things change when im older but for now im happy :)

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One thing i would think an escort would have big trouble with is working for somebody else and not being her own boss. This is understandable. Also working set hours would also be a hard thing to adapt to.

I guess it all boils down to how badly an escort wants something and how happy she is in her current position.

westside.

Although age plays a part, everyone is different. The most important thing for an escort is to be very strong minded and to be able to detach themselves emotionally from their clients. Obviously with age you become more mature and know more about yourself. But who is to say that a girl who is 18, 19, 20 can not cope with this. But at the end of the day everyone is a human with feelings and who knows how it will impact in the future.

It's very easy to say why don't more women do it, and earn 200euro/hr rather than 10euro/hr. But it takes a very special type of person to be able to do this, to be able to handle all the different types of clients and not to be affected.


From a clients perspective, again it is not for me to say that young lads should wait. But once you get into it, imo it could be very difficult to stop. For me personally it is all about having fun, the thrill of doing it is exciting, and my best experiences have not been about the sex, that's important of course, but the best times i've had are where the chemistry has been good.

This leads me to another point. as a client I have this dilemna of whether to go back to the same 2 or 3 escorts where I know I will really enjoy myself, but then I may become emotionally attached and it wouldn't be fun any more. Or always go for someone new to avoid that.

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

this job i get a little pat on the the bum a text a repeat visit flowers etc etc and by thoose little thing i know ive done a good job and it makes me feel forfilled to know that i have helped that person wot ever it may be

but a normal job id really need a boss thats willing to give me a bum pat every now and again
im so nervous about a normal job i really want one but for example in one of my periovous jobs i was a suppervisor doing the lazy managers job as well as my own i felt i was doing a fantastic job as every9one would come to me if there was a problem including the manager, i would never leave the lace my over time hours was sky high due to other supervisors not being able to stick it

but as soon as i applied for a assistant managers position in one to the stores branches i was brought up told how crap i was told how much things i had done wrong (might add the things they said were down to other supervisors not me as i wasnt even in the store when they occured ) and when i tried to stand up for my self and explain the examples given were nothing to do with me but down to other suspervisors decissions or the managers dessions, i wasnt allowed to speak, so i littery handed in my notice the next day, i dont think i could go through something like that again

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That sounds like bad management to me. Each person needs to be treated differently in all aspects of life. A good manager will know his/her employees and know that employee needs an arm around the shoulder sometimes, whereas another employee prefer to be left on his own etc. That is just how a good manager gets the best of of the employees.

Sorry to hear you were treated badly in this aspect of life, unfortunately with being a manager comes responsibility and quite a few managers don't do that too well. This however should not deter you from trying it again. There is also good managers out there.

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

That is not a discussion I will be drawn on, i'm afraid. If I could sit down and explain the realities to every young escort I meet then I would. But people make decisions- sometimes before they have much clue where those decisions can lead.

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Your second point is true for everything in life. How many times have you heard, if only I could go back being 20 but with the experiences of a 30 or 40 or 50 year old. You live and learn, sometimes you take stupid risks, you make stupid choices, based on the experiences you have had so far in your life. But this is life.

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Yes. But escorting tends to be driven by financial need.

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a very silly post plenty of jobs where women can make money in other jobs without having to do escorting dont give me that...

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Originally Posted by Experienced Punter esq

a very silly post plenty of jobs where women can make money in other jobs without having to do escorting dont give me that...

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Ah but would they earn as much with little or no experience

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Originally Posted by Doozer

Ah but would they earn as much with little or no experience

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A bad escort will earn as little as a bad employee...

So Gentleman,


The person will b able to forget the past?
Can U forget it or u will say:-U were a hore so just shut ur self down!-?
Any chance to have a normal life after this?

Do not get me wrong!

I love my job! I meet many interesting people. I love sex as I like to speak with lot of intelligent people. Only wonder what could be restarted? I am 21 years old and now I'm in the business for 3 years! I started very young, because my family needed the money! Then I'm stuck here, I do not mind. I'm still only 21 has already lived a lot of things in life and from that I became so strong! What does not kill you makes stronger! I still enjoy life and wanna be somebody later! :)
I do not want to do this forever!:p;):D
Watch out! I'll be famous! famous hairdresser:):p
Wish me good luck and a lot of guests that I can pay for the course! :o:D:p:):):)

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Originally Posted by Heidi Baby

So Gentleman,


The person will b able to forget the past?
Can U forget it or u will say:-U were a hore so just shut ur self down!-?
Any chance to have a normal life after this?

Do not get me wrong!

I love my job! I meet many interesting people. I love sex as I like to speak with lot of intelligent people. Only wonder what could be restarted? I am 21 years old and now I'm in the business for 3 years! I started very young, because my family needed the money! Then I'm stuck here, I do not mind. I'm still only 21 has already lived a lot of things in life and from that I became so strong! What does not kill you makes stronger! I still enjoy life and wanna be somebody later! :)
I do not want to do this forever!:p;):D
Watch out! I'll be famous! famous hairdresser:):p
Wish me good luck and a lot of guests that I can pay for the course! :o:D:p:):):)

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Good luck Heidi, One day you will run your own hairdressing business, if you put your mind to it. and that way you are still your own boss.

You should never try to forget the past, its part of your life, part of you. Never forget who you are that doesn't mean never move on. We should always remember the journey we took to get to where we are, we can learn from it. At the end of the day all we are is a sum of our actions.