Listening to the late night radio now here in Dublin...... the topic
People who are married / in relationship and if they are having difficulties. Should you allow your spouse to go visit a escort (but not the term they are using)
Would you be happy your husband or wife to use a escort............to save the relationship. If you found out your partner was visiting a escort (male or female) how would you feel. Sorry if this topic has been up here before i did not know. I have been away for a long time before my recent return here. This will be a very short thread. Topic is on the radio now.
You discover your partner is using escorts-how do you react.
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24-02-16, 22:08F-DubYou discover your partner is using escorts-how do you react.
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24-02-16, 22:11F-Dub
Callers coming in saying they visit escorts but don't tell their partners
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24-02-16, 22:13bootboyAnyone who 'allows' ' their partner to visit an escort needs their head examined. No, is the answer. Don't allow it .Quote:
Originally Posted by F-Dub
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24-02-16, 22:17F-Dub
Some guy paul on the radio now saying he coming from work.........and is on his way to visit escort now tempted to quip a username here but i wont :D
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24-02-16, 22:19MidlifeCrisisEvery partner relationship is unique, and most are complicated. This sort of generalisation makes no sense.Quote:
Originally Posted by bootboy
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24-02-16, 22:23Curvaceous Kate
Sadly 'normal' people think we are riddled with decease and take risks on a daily basis as we do not value our lives. They do not just see infidelity but they see sexual risks being taken that you might take home to your partner. What you then get is a situation where the wife who likely is already refusing the man sex now feeling even more vindicated to not have sex with her husband, which means the relationship is dead, but now you are being held by the short and curlies.
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24-02-16, 22:26alcatel
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Paulsontheball?:dunno:Quote:
Originally Posted by F-Dub
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24-02-16, 22:28F-Dub
Yes kate that myth just mentioned.....people thinking escorts riddled with disease. When it fact escorts are very safe...they are always getting STD tests done for themselves every three months or so.
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24-02-16, 22:31F-Dub
Curveballl some woman called jenny on now ......saying she is a escort.....saying it is a business. Do you have any morals another caller is asking her. Jenny getting abuse for opening her legs......texts coming in - (all escorts are slags and dirty) awful trolls texting in rubbish
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24-02-16, 22:48F-Dub
Conor on the phone.......says escorts are just regular normal people. Hi Conor :wave:
Woman texting in who use male escorts. Other woman complaining oh if the wife is pleasing a husband he wont go to a escort -
24-02-16, 22:59isthereanybodyoutthere
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24-02-16, 23:03F-Dub
Citywest and IFSC cited on radio as areas where escorts have apartments rented to meet people, Sandyford , Gardner street.
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24-02-16, 23:05F-DubI am not sure the EI website wants the radio show to be publicly revealed......or i could be wrongQuote:
Originally Posted by isthereanybodyoutthere
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24-02-16, 23:08isthereanybodyoutthereI would imagine that the EI community would like the opportunity to listen to it. Doesn't matter, it's over now.Quote:
Originally Posted by F-Dub
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24-02-16, 23:10F-DubYes indeed winding down now......good nightQuote:
Originally Posted by isthereanybodyoutthere
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25-02-16, 03:34dobSpelling lesson for todayQuote:
Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate
Decease: death
Disease: illness -
25-02-16, 08:39Curvaceous KateLol thanks I never knew that and have been tripped up with it before. I can't even blame tiredness on that one, just didn't know the difference so I am actually glad you wrote it. I really have no problem with constructive help like that :)Quote:
Originally Posted by dob
Sounds like the show went in the usual way to other shows. I take it Mary didn't make an appearance?
One thing I would be worried about is that if these places are being named on the radio as known places where sex workers work from, that means they may not be safe to go to when the law changes. Keep your eyes and ears open and don't take undue risks. -
25-02-16, 08:50themanofwartrue, even the medical profession think escorts are high riskQuote:
Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate
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25-02-16, 09:40Barney RubbleQuote:
Originally Posted by dob
Ah Kate ,even I knew that but I didn't correct u on it. I will in future .:) -
25-02-16, 09:47CassandraWell now hold on, we are a high risk group - that's why we're so meticulous about health and hygiene lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by themanofwar
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25-02-16, 10:09Curvaceous KateThe nature of the beast! It really depends on which category you are working within. As in, working on impulse because you're starving and don't have a condom, working for someone else who doesn't give you a choice, working out of self-destruction to try and bury your own demons or working as a profession with minimal risk because it is what you want to do in order to make money.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cassandra
It's all about motivation and circumstance.
Ireland is notorious for having guys ask to go bareback as for many wearing a condom is a sensation they are not used to and have problems with. Northern Ireland is much less like that, so where people have been having problems over here since the law change, that is not one of them.
It is the responsibility of both the sex worker and the client to play safe. We are ALL responsible for our own well being and some have no choice. -
25-02-16, 11:31ford pefectNot that accurate though , as no escorts in Gardiner Street for a long timeQuote:
Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate