Are you more or less inclined to book an appointment with a lady that regularly posts and interacts on the forums? Or do you prefer to just find nice pics and reviews that appeal physically?
I really want it to be more, but all my meets have been with those that do not post. There are some really sound ladies who post and aside from their very obvious physical attractions, they are clearly good company. However for some reason, I don't visit.
Probably due to subconsciously keeping 'business' and the emotional side of the forum piece apart, but interested in others thoughts??
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18-02-11, 00:51JohnsonMore or less?
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18-02-11, 01:12ForrestQuote:
Originally Posted by Johnson
I have made a few appointments as a direct result of having a bit of banter with some of the ladies that post here.
I have found that it helps to make the encounter a bit more relaxing, as feel as if you know each other a bit more before actually meeting. -
18-02-11, 06:38hornylimerick
i would be more inclined to visit girls who post in forum as it's good to get to know each other a bit first, makes the encounter more relaxed.
Unfortunately very few post :( i think i've only met a few who post and they were all good experiences :) -
18-02-11, 08:48Johnson
Thanks guys, above makes 100% sense. Though I don't do it that way, probably cause I'm an idiot.
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18-02-11, 08:59VioletteI wouldn't say you were an idiot, but it could me more an issue of perception. You may worry that you may not live up to the expectations, and you too may also be disappointed when you meet the lady. This way, the image you have in your head will hold fast and true. And let's be honest here, Irish men are some truly shy creatures. Can you face freely chatting to some who has seen you naked with your socks on, nads swinging in the breeze, and hairy bits? Perish the thought.Quote:
Originally Posted by Johnson
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18-02-11, 09:06MorpheusIt doesn't really matter to me. Only a fraction of girls post anyway. I love the banter than can develop on the message boards with an escort (especially when its all of us boys desperately trying to get a lady's attention...e.g. Ciara, Nikky, Lucy).Quote:
Originally Posted by Johnson
However, often the said ladies who do post may not be in my town.
Apart from posting on the boards, there are some ladies willing to have a bit of chat on PM before meeting . This is nice as it allows me to get to know her a little before we actually meet. However, from an escorts point of view, I understand there are a lot of time wasters who just chat and never make the effort to meet them....hence many girls don't do the PM chat thing.
So I just usually choose a girl based on pics and reviews. I look meeting a girl for the first time as an opportunity. There is always good that can be taken out of any experience. My real aim is to find girls that I would like to see repeatedly.
I have a few 'regulars' and the experience and relationship is totally different. Granted the novelty is lost, but the upsides and benefits (familiarity, GFE, banter, guaranteed favourites enjoyed) outweigh this. Hence the whole meeting on the boards or by PM is less important when this happens. -
18-02-11, 10:19ForrestViolette, I have no shame, so that is not a problem for me. :p :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Violette
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18-02-11, 10:28ForrestI doubt you are an idiot Johnson. Everyone has their preferred method, each to their own. What works for me might not work for you, and vice-versa. The most important thing to remember is to show each other respect and have fun. ;)Quote:
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18-02-11, 12:19warmcomethats how it seems to be for me too, what i typically seekQuote:
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from an escort is different to what i seek from a non-escort. -
18-02-11, 13:28mellors
The escorts who post on here deserve the credit because they obviously open up alot more than the girls who you contact through their profile. I've been made aware of some fantastic escorts through their posts, which probably wouldn't of popped up on my radar other wise. It's only geographical distance that stops me making an appt unfortunately. List provided if your interested !!