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Question for everyone but the ladies in particular. From the Escorts I have visited and girls I have been with the common consensus is that a lady can only orgasm if she is in a totally relaxed state of mind. Also more women climax through oral rather than normal sex. This is not a scientific example however so I would appreciate other people sharing their views.:confused::confused:
All women are different in my experience. Once had a girlfriend who could cum in minutes with straight sex ..... then had another who had to work alot harder. The oral thing ? Only once ever have I had a girl cum on that alone. Usually it serves as a very big part of a variety show.
Women can start the build up to an orgasm days before it happens. They absorb how you treat them and retain it. It's a much more mental exercise. For us men - well you know the score ... spur of the moment is as good as anything.
I only ever used to orgasm when enjoying anal, or even giving a blowjob, but since becoming an escort I have orgasmed vaginally. My clit is really sensitive and needs a very light touch, most guys are too rough and it becomes desensitised or painful quite quickly. I think the trick is to read the girl's body, sometimes the signs are quite subtle but you should be able to tell if she is responding and enjoying herself.
For me it's not so important if I have an orgasm, I don't expect them. I'd rather concentrate on giving the guy a mind-blowing time.