Escort As A Girlfriend ????.

As a punter for the last six years or so I have met some very nice girls from all aroond the world , some I became very friendly with but on a business level only, I paid they delivered the goods and after a few weeks I move to some one new or they would go back to their home country.
Now I have been seeing this escort for the last 6 months or so and we have become great friends avd the sex is the best I ever had ( and I have been around a lot) and I am very happy with this sitution,but just before christmas she told me that she liked me so much that she like to see me as a normal girlfriend and go out on normal dates etc . I was a bit surprise at first the old addage " never get involved" sprung to mind . to make a long story short we have gone out for a meal twice and both times had a good time . the sex is still fantastic and free i have offered to pay but she got offended by this as she says I am her boyfrient not a customer .
My problem is that I now realise that I like more than a lot and we do get on so well together but where do we go from here, she wants to keep on escorting I am not sure how I feel about this because if she had not been escorting I would not have met her .
I would like the opion or other punters who may have had a similar experience and also the opion of escorts .

Little Willie,
I have been there so i will do my best here to help you out. I have dated a few escorts. Willie its the same as any other relationship in that it all boils down to trust.Escorts are the same as any other women. Some are nasty,some are nice, individuals like you and i.
A few things.You must honestly ask yourself can you deal with other guys having sex with your girlfriend.I knows its just buisiness but if you cant deal with this aspect of it mentally then the relationship wont work.Can you block it out and keep it in perspective?Otherwise its just going to cause problems down the line. It sounds like you can.
Another important aspect of it ,is does she kiss clients? If she does then im not sure if its a good idea to date because if she does everything then whats speicial to hold the relationship together? All the girls i dated (three to be exact )didnt kiss clients. I think that the kiss is a real way of showing true love to your lover along with small emotional things like holding hands, putting the arm, around her alot ,whispering into the ear.You know its these small little things at the end of the day that make or break a relationship.The thing is how many of these small little things does she do in her job? The kiss is a very emotional expression and i dont agree with it being used with clients.
You answered your own question when you said that you like her more than alot so the the love is there and she asked you out which explains alot. It sounds like you know that you want to go ahead and date her.
If i were you i would go ahead and go out with the girl. You sound like you get on well together and respect and love each other. Its too much of an opportunity to blow because because its not everyday we meet someone thats gets along so well.
Remember she said a normal relationship so if i were you id stop punting completely.It shows her that she is that much speicial.Treat her properly ,make her feel good about herself and if things work out im sure she will draw the line somewhere and stop escorting when she is well and ready.
Go ahead and date her and maintain an honest ,open , and loving relationship based on trust. I see no reason why it wouldnt work out.
At the end of the day people are more important than jobs. I wouldnt hold the job against her but if there are any things bugging your mind ,talk honestly and genuinely to her about them now, not in six months time. They may be just in your own mind and nowhere else.
Again the relationship should be based on the same things as any other relationship, Respect, trust, honesty ,loyalty and love.They all sound like they are in place here for you both.
Hey i hope that you can make sense of this. Its always nice to see this happening and you will make the girls day by making an effort. Hope all works out for both of you.There is no reason why it wouldnt. Have a great one and dont forget my wedding invite.

ET made me cry,
Dr, Westside. :)

Go for it! I think the kissing is not a very big issue there to be honest. There are plenty of other things, which count! I know where my heart is, what I feel and who I care for, which are more important then kissing. There are still plenty of intimate things I wouldn't do with a client myself.

You better think about it now weather you can deal with her job, which is a job, nohing else! If you are in any doubts about it, talk to her- how she deals with it within herself as we all look at it and handel our emotions differently- I would advise you against it myself though in that case.

xxx

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Originally Posted by Kat

Go for it! I think the kissing is not a very big issue there to be honest. There are plenty of other things, which count! I know where my heart is, what I feel and who I care for, which are more important then kissing. There are still plenty of intimate things I wouldn't do with a client myself.

You better think about it now weather you can deal with her job, which is a job, nohing else! If you are in any doubts about it, talk to her- how she deals with it within herself as we all look at it and handel our emotions differently- I would advise you against it myself though in that case.

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Oh sweet lordy Kat......you are hot!!!

Armanidublin

The only thing that would be a problem really is can you deal with it psychologicly i dont know if thats spelt rite anywho back to the point, if you want to take your gf out and she says she cant shes with a client and you can take it and deal with the thoughts going thru ur had at that moment then ur all alright go for it mate

hi there
well this is a classis, like pretty woman. but remember she asked YOU out. you said she was offended when you offered her money, were you testing the water?
It sounds as if this girl really does like you. how long has she been escorting? for all you know she may care for you enough to give it up. you like her from what it sounds like but if she does carry on escorting dont throw it in her face every 2 minutes, she may have been with another man but her mind would have been with you trust me x

hope everything goes ok goodluck
roxanne
xxx

all i can say is go for it. just take it slow. THE BEST FRIENDSHIPS ARE FORMED IN THE MOST UNUSUAL WAYS.
best of luck

Hi Willie, I know exactly where you are coming from. I have been there. I think it is dangerous on an emotional level but on a physical level you know there is something special when you feel that you are not fucking her but making love to her.

I say go for it.......

Real love only comes along once in a while, and as Kat said, from a ladies point of view it really is just a job.

Just give it a go, what do you have to lose? And the fact she asked you out is a big deal to an escort, we have the same rule not to get involved with clients personally.

Try, see what happens it can only be good or bad just like anyother relationship.......;)