After numerous calls and no answer/call back I am left assuming business is booming and you have to book 2 weeks ahead! What recession ?!
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After numerous calls and no answer/call back I am left assuming business is booming and you have to book 2 weeks ahead! What recession ?!
I'll be honest Stephanie, I don't think that is a good idea for ladies to do that. Fair enough if it is within a very short time-frame but any longer than 30 mins I think is risky. As you probably know a lot of guys don't use separate phones so getting strange 1 ring calls or even a short no descriptive text can raise suspicions of a weary partner. I have read 1 too many threads of guys geting caught out because a lady sent them an unsolicited txt out of hours..
What anon361 just said!
If you get back sharpish then fair enough but if it's going to be a considerable time later then it's not a great idea. Some of us have to strategically pick and choose our moments to nip out for a phonecall to arrange meeting up. Phonecalls are likely to cause more strife than texts IMO!
That said I don't think a text back with something innocuous like 'were you trying to ring me?' is too harmful. I don't save any ladies numbers in my phone so I could always fob it off as a wrong number if someone I don't want to see it manages to lay eyes on it!
Agree with Anon that if a call or text is returned should be within 30mins to avoid any problems.
I have a separate punting phone to be safe. Definitely the way to go.
Personally I'd prefer
'Were you trying to contact/call me?'
because it's easier to say you didn't ring that number and it's a wrong number texting you.
To get a text saying 'I missed your call' kind of nails you for the fact that you definitely rang the number.
Just my own standpoint on that one!
I'll be honest, I don't know, I don't approve of any contact outside of 30mins or so, no matter what is texted if a partner is already suspicious or in the habit of answering their partners phone, say if they were in the loo or shower then no matter what you put in it could land them in the shit should the partner choose to call you back. You may get an extra client or feel you are doing them a favour and probably in 99% of cases you would be but is it worth possibly ruining that 1% guy?
I appreciate the call back but then again I'm on my own so its not like its gonna get me in any sort of trouble. I've noticed many girls call your phone and let it ring literally once to let you know you are available. I'm presuming most of the married or with partners punters use a separate phone or SIM and have the sim or phone off or indisposed when not out punting so I guess that ain't a major problem.
I'm very much in favour of the girls acknowledging your calls.
I always leave a message or text specifically saying it is OK to text me or call me back. And as Lincoln says a quick ring to let you know they are available is all it needs
In my experience very few escorts return calls either by phoning or by text.
Only happened me once.
My punting phone is only on when I am organizing an appointment and then again before the appointment to confirm and get directions.
After I leave I always then delete all numbers phoned and ant texts.
Phone then switched off and stored away until I need it again.
Think this is a foolproof method.
:) Thank you Anon,
As you know, I don't need the one extra client, but I thought it just plain polite to aknowedge a call/text..
I was under the impression that all men pursuing this Hobby of ours would have a separate sim/phone..
It just seems common sense.
But you are absolutely right, no single life should be ruined by this bit of fun..
So, Gentlemen, please take responsibility for your own fate and be smart about your phones/calls/texts... :)
The best thing to do is send a text asking the lady to call you when free. No call, no enchilada I guess. For the reasons mentioned, it isnt really appropriate to just return missed calls.
This is why I make all enquiries and bookings via PM. Plus, I can flirt with the ladies too :D
I've only been called back on 2 occasions tht I can recall, and possibly one other, but they were all nearly immediate call-backs, under 10 minutes from when I originally tried to ring. I'd say that actually ringing back, if that's what the lady decides to do, should probably happen in even less time than Anon advises, say within 15-20 minutes maximum. Anything after that should be returned as a non-specific text which won't get anyone in trouble, and even then there should be some kind of outer maximum limit to when a text back is considered appropriate.
Chances are a punter who's in the mood right then and there will have also tried to ring another escort after not getting through to their first-choice lady-- I myself once punted with a girl who was EIGHTH on my list of ladies I would try to ring that day! And besides, if a punter really has his mind set on seeing a specific lady, he'll try again in another hour or so anyway, or at some other time in the future.
I really don't have an issue with an escort contacting me. If i try to set up an appointment, it's because I want to see that person and I appreciate them taking the effort to get back to me.
A text is better than a call - and PMs really are the best. But, as a married guy, i feel we, the punter, are responsible for looking after our own phones and our own safety. A girl returning our call is just being polite. Make the call from a punting phone and turn it off when you need to. So you might miss her text, but at least she had the decency to be in touch.
Wot 'e said.
I dont know about others but I do get tired of generally having to abide by rules and conventions that are imposed on the 95 % but exist in order to protect the tiny few who refuse to take responsibility for their own actions or who dont give a fook.
Any guy who has to be ultra careful in this hobby and who doesnt use a dedicated punting phone is acting stupidly and irresponsibly. And if he cant take responsibility for himself, he shouldnt be engaged in this. I always appreciate when an escort replies to a missed call or text, no matter when. So many dont bother their barney. PM is the way to go and escorts should be encouraged to register and use this system IMHO.
I would have thought that figure would be the other way around, according to the general consensus the majority of clients don't visit these boards, most of them are probably one hit wonders or first timers that may not realise a lady may call them back as it is supposed to be a very discreet transaction and calling a guy back not knowing from where they are calling from or who they are now with is not being discreet. Yes we on these boards know this but putting yourself in the shoes of a guy deciding to call a lady for the first time, would you have used a seperate phone for that first call, I know I didn't, in fact I know I didn't for the first few..
Just to rub salt into the wound,*for fellas who are at risk*,lol..won't you be better off, not punting?:D..Just bang the missus,lol
*SR71 flies to the highest altitude now to avoid the missiles that will be launched*:p
A Lady should NOT call back.. That would be indiscreet.. But a short text to aknowledge the call I think is common courtesy x
This thread started with a poster complaining that he could not reach anyone/his calls weren't returned.. Clearly he is ONE that
would be thrilled if the called party took the trouble to respond..
I thought we have moved onto the personal responibility bit.. :)
There is no argument that a guy should take personal responsibility when calling a lady but it really is an area where ladies shouldn't take it for granted he has, a person wouldn't be wrong in saying bigger fool him but that doesn't help the situation nor justify the risk of landing him in it?
Just do a search on this site for the word unsolicited and see how many hits it returns, and those are just the ones that used that term.
I have my rule regarding this: I never call or text back after more than 10 min I got a missed call!! Unless I get a text asking to reply anytime.. That's the way I use to act, I'm not ignoring but I wouldn't like to mess with guy's private life as I believe they could be not available anymore when I see their missed calls...
I agree with you Anon, the potential for disaster is always just around the corner for some of the guys... That is why extra
caution is needed, and perhaps extra steps should be taken to ensure that they don't get 'caught'. (sims/phones)
And I do think that unsolicited calls/texts are absolutely out of line..
So, I think we are mostly in agreement :)
BTW, you can see in this thread why I am so interested in this subject due to first hand experience how silly some ladies can be.