Being a Regular...

I have seen here on many occasions punters and ladies mentioning having a regular lady or visitor.

What's the benefit to calling back to the same lady over and over? Do you not find things repetitive? Do ladies try to change up a session with guys they've seen before?

Just curious as one lady I revisited wore the exact same outfit, started the same routine etc until I swayed it in a different direction.

I would have thought that with such an abundance of beautiful ladies to choose from that guys would want to see a different lady each time. Is there any chance that the punter holds more than a sexual interest in a regular visit?

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Originally Posted by liger79

I have seen here on many occasions punters and ladies mentioning having a regular lady or visitor.

What's the benefit to calling back to the same lady over and over? Do you not find things repetitive? Do ladies try to change up a session with guys they've seen before?

Just curious as one lady I revisited wore the exact same outfit, started the same routine etc until I swayed it in a different direction.

I would have thought that with such an abundance of beautiful ladies to choose from that guys would want to see a different lady each time. Is there any chance that the punter holds more than a sexual interest in a regular visit?

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People visit the ladies for a variety of reasons, and sometimes more than sex, yes, companionship may be part of it. Some people are lonely.

And some people click well. Shocker, while of course this is a business relationship on both sides there is no reason not to make friends.

On a practical level, on both sides, there is the security for both of knowing what to expect.

How old you are, your marital status, martial happiness, are all factors, so your notion of needing to see a different lady each time is not necessarily the same as everyone else's.

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Originally Posted by Irish Josephine

Should a newbie and a regular both ask for an appointment at the same time my regular will have priority, I trust my regs.

I have seen some men for over a year and never got caught in the same outfit yet, there are ways of doing things.

Keep it fresh is easy if you have imagination.

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I have regular ladies I would not mind if she had the same outfit on sometimes, and it nice to have her as a friend to,

This is sort of a two way street. Being a regular means that you get to know the person a lot better. While some men prefer the company of the same lady other men have a wider selection of girls they visit.

Being a regular has its own perks, once you have established a relationship of friendship and trust between you and the girl you are visiting. A girl would more likely book you at short notice, because she knows she can trust you not to be late or just mess up her schedule. It's also an advantage for the lady as well, if by any chance she is caught on a bad day or isn't ready she knows she can open the door without the fear of her client leaving on the excuse that she doesn't have her makeup on or something else.

It's nice to share some aspects of your life or something that you wouldn't share with someone else, with a lady because you know you won't be judged or frowned upon.

It's a nice relationship that builds in time, but as I said before men have a variety of tastes. Lucky for them there are a lot of pretty ladies out there who can satisfy their tastes xx

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Originally Posted by CurvyNina

This is sort of a two way street. Being a regular means that you get to know the person a lot better. While some men prefer the company of the same lady other men have a wider selection of girls they visit.

Being a regular has its own perks, once you have established a relationship of friendship and trust between you and the girl you are visiting. A girl would more likely book you at short notice, because she knows she can trust you not to be late or just mess up her schedule. It's also an advantage for the lady as well, if by any chance she is caught on a bad day or isn't ready she knows she can open the door without the fear of her client leaving on the excuse that she doesn't have her makeup on or something else.

It's nice to share some aspects of your life or something that you wouldn't share with someone else, with a lady because you know you won't be judged or frowned upon.

It's a nice relationship that builds in time, but as I said before men have a variety of tastes. Lucky for them there are a lot of pretty ladies out there who can satisfy their tastes xx

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And a lot of the ladies feel safer with a regular and for the client is safer to,so all around it all good,

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Originally Posted by liger79

I have seen here on many occasions punters and ladies mentioning having a regular lady or visitor.

What's the benefit to calling back to the same lady over and over? Do you not find things repetitive? Do ladies try to change up a session with guys they've seen before?

Just curious as one lady I revisited wore the exact same outfit, started the same routine etc until I swayed it in a different direction.

I would have thought that with such an abundance of beautiful ladies to choose from that guys would want to see a different lady each time. Is there any chance that the punter holds more than a sexual interest in a regular visit?

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Yeah the lady should have Club cards from punters now isn't that an idea ?

The are some ladies I see as much as I can,as I am much closer to them we keep in contact,as we would say a special friend, and I have made a lot off friends here, it is good to have a lady you can trust,

Some people react with cynicism to any notion of friendship between escort and clients.

I go for longer appointments for a few reasons, but a big part of it is that I have no interest in a quick sexual encounter with no sense that you are both people. Most escorts I have seen more than once are willing to chat a bit about life, sometimes sharing things about their family, their past or their future plans. You can't be succesful as an independent escort without being smart and strong, and I have found them to be very interesting people.

I have no illusions of any friendship to compare with those in their everyday life, but the experience is much better for me when I feel that we know a little bit about each other. There is an excitement about a first appointment with someone new - especially if their reviews and profile are amazing - but there is a different excitement when you know what is behind the door!

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Originally Posted by MidlifeCrisis

Some people react with cynicism to any notion of friendship between escort and clients.

I go for longer appointments for a few reasons, but a big part of it is that I have no interest in a quick sexual encounter with no sense that you are both people. Most escorts I have seen more than once are willing to chat a bit about life, sometimes sharing things about their family, their past or their future plans. You can't be succesful as an independent escort without being smart and strong, and I have found them to be very interesting people.

I have no illusions of any friendship to compare with those in their everyday life, but the experience is much better for me when I feel that we know a little bit about each other. There is an excitement about a first appointment with someone new - especially if their reviews and profile are amazing - but there is a different excitement when you know what is behind the door!

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I have no illusions of falling in love with a escort,but after saying that the are people like us and can't see why we can't be friends to,

I lik two mak reguler wit gurl €50 for mont

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Originally Posted by tom rambo

I have no illusions of falling in love with a escort,but after saying that the are people like us and can't see why we can't be friends to,

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Other punters hate to hear this and I can't understand why. I am in regular contact with girls I used to see years ago who are long gone. Even enjoyed dinner with one in Berlin last month. I have made loads of really good friends here.

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Originally Posted by sixfourblond

Other punters hate to hear this and I can't understand why. I am in regular contact with girls I used to see years ago who are long gone. Even enjoyed dinner with one in Berlin last month. I have made loads of really good friends here.

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You is gud mans dat is why dey mak freinds I tink

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Originally Posted by PabloAbels

You is gud mans dat is why dey mak freinds I tink

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Not sure. I just never judge people.

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Originally Posted by sixfourblond

Not sure. I just never judge people.

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Is obvoius sirs two meny peoples juge me

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Originally Posted by PabloAbels

Is obvoius sirs two meny peoples juge me

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It might be the predictive text on your foreign phone!!!

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Originally Posted by sixfourblond

Other punters hate to hear this and I can't understand why. I am in regular contact with girls I used to see years ago who are long gone. Even enjoyed dinner with one in Berlin last month. I have made loads of really good friends here.

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I would not worry about what other punters think about me,I have ladies here friends it good to talk to them go for a meal or whatever,only this morning I was chatted to one off them,

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Originally Posted by tom rambo

I have ladies here friends it good to talk to them go for a meal or whatever,only this morning I was chatted to one off them,

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Thats nice that you can develop a friendship with some of them. Does it not make it awkward when say today you are chatting with someone and tomorrow you are paying for the companionship?

Not trying to judge anyone, guys or ladies, I am genuinely interested in how people get on in these situations.

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Originally Posted by liger79

Thats nice that you can develop a friendship with some of them. Does it not make it awkward when say today you are chatting with someone and tomorrow you are paying for the companionship?

Not trying to judge anyone, guys or ladies, I am genuinely interested in how people get on in these situations.

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one way or another you will be paying, let it be your wife girlfriend or escort, it works well for me,

I'd like a regular lady. It's great when there is a spark and a comfortable chat afterwards.
It would be nice to actually feel like you have a friend, even if it's paid for.
I've had this in the past, and seek it again.

Obviously she wouldn't want to allow foreign guys to visit, or I couldn't be a regular.

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Originally Posted by Irish Josephine

My client friends and I know it is a professional relationship.

Sure I could fall for a few of them but I am naughty and always remind them we are professional friends or they mention the fact lol after a while it can be cosy but must be kept fresh.

My client friends are not looking a girlfriend, they pay me for a professional service.

One funny thing did happen which was a bit strange,

A client friend handed me money before he left and I forgot he was supposed to pay, wondered why he was handing me money - very surreal moment.

I always ask for the paperwork before playtime now, funny world.

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Do Escorts find it difficult to maintain a private relationship with a guy? As in do the ladies here have other halves??

With regular ladies you get the best of two worlds,plus safer for you and her,

You know where to go, and what to expect, and after a couple of sessions longer times, depending on the time of day.

Oh and the tay and pink biscuits, you'd be lost entirely without them. :D

I'm like a tiger roaming the Serengeti. Wild and free.
Ain't no piece of ass goin to tie me down.
Ride it and forget about it is my motto.
Wild and free.

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Originally Posted by WatWatWat

I'm like a tiger roaming the Serengeti. Wild and free.
Ain't no piece of ass goin to tie me down.
Ride it and forget about it is my motto.
Wild and free.

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My god you sound like a very basic primitive type of character. I think you can visit a lady multiple times without having to be or feel tied down. Personally a balanced approach is probably best i.e. have your regulars but be willing to experiment from time to time.

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Originally Posted by liger79

I have seen here on many occasions punters and ladies mentioning having a regular lady or visitor.

What's the benefit to calling back to the same lady over and over? Do you not find things repetitive? Do ladies try to change up a session with guys they've seen before?

Just curious as one lady I revisited wore the exact same outfit, started the same routine etc until I swayed it in a different direction.

I would have thought that with such an abundance of beautiful ladies to choose from that guys would want to see a different lady each time. Is there any chance that the punter holds more than a sexual interest in a regular visit?

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Being a regular can be relaxing and comfortable for both people. They know what each person likes or dislikes. The nervousness and awkwardness gets less and less as time progresses. Some people may like repetition. They may like the way the lady interacts with them, her personality etc. It doesn't always have to be about sex.

It probably depends on the mindset of the person.

I suppose at the end of the day ,we are all human , some people ya like, some ya don't, but once people are treated with respect , an Friendship could develop i suppose
its much easier to make that call when you know the other person at the end of the line!!

How often do you have to visit a lady to be considered a regular

I think for me seeing a regular lady just makes for a more chilled out atmosphere and once you feel relaxed with someone it just makes the whole experience more enjoyable. Plus you know that your not going to be disappointed when she opens the door and i have to say I've known my regular lady for a while now and she has never worn the same outfit twice and she always goes out of her way to make each visit more enjoyable than the last which always amazes me. And another plus for seeing a regular lady (god i hate that fraze regular lady i prefer favourite) is that you get to know each other little likes and dislikes i have to say i don't have any dislikes when it comes to what she does to me:D I'm not to confident that goes the other way though:D

And as far as getting too attached i know where to draw the line although i probably crossed it on occasion but was swiftly told to back over it:D And i have to say I'm not as regular as i would love to be lately due to personal reasons but i'll make up for lost time.

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Originally Posted by WatWatWat

I'm like a tiger roaming the Serengeti. Wild and free.
Ain't no piece of ass goin to tie me down.
Ride it and forget about it is my motto.
Wild and free.

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Womens is no meet four tiger you must respackt and be gantle.

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Originally Posted by liger79

How often do you have to visit a lady to be considered a regular

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Not as much as I should,but soon it will be only my regular Ladies,But first I have to make my list shorter, lol

But I am thinking my list off regular ladies is a bit long,so I will have to cut back but who,??

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Originally Posted by tom rambo

Not as much as I should,but soon it will be only my regular Ladies,But first I have to make my list shorter, lol

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Thats sounds like an awful dilemma to be in!!!

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Originally Posted by WatWatWat

I'm like a tiger roaming the Serengeti. Wild and free.
Ain't no piece of ass goin to tie me down.
Ride it and forget about it is my motto.
Wild and free.

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Didn't know there were any tigers there.:confused:

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Originally Posted by WatWatWat

I'm like a tiger roaming the Serengeti. Wild and free.
Ain't no piece of ass goin to tie me down.
Ride it and forget about it is my motto.
Wild and free.

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That's lions/leopards/cheetahs ya fecking eejit. Ain't no indigenous tigers in Africa.

Operative word: indigenous.