do women watch much porn on ther own and get off on it like us men, wen u just hav to blow a bit of steem, am sure day do as well
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do women watch much porn on ther own and get off on it like us men, wen u just hav to blow a bit of steem, am sure day do as well
It must depend on your age and point of view of porn.
When I was in my teens, 20's and perhaps even in my 30's, I always loved to look at porn.
Now I'm in my 40's I still enjoy the visual aspect of porn but would never go out of my way to find it.
Porn for me is only a simplistic illusion of beauty, its the person however that shows the true beauty of the individual and their true sexuality.
Do I watch porn now?
Never!
Personally I think myself more grown up and find the personal encounters much more satisying than simple graphic illusions and images of what could be.
I have watched porn in the past, but always left me feeling empty so don't bother anymore. I enjoy the real thing!
I think women view porn very differently to men. Most porn is geared/made for men's fantasies (not women's). So I suspect most women will not have the same obsession with it as men.
Wow... I thought when I came in here Lucy would be talking about how she was a mad porn fanatic, how wrong was I? :rolleyes: *checks back to see if she was being sarcastic* ....
How can you NOT watch porn? What if you want to wank, what are you going to do? Wank to yourself?
It is because it takes something quite beautiful and twists it into something quite sick. Animal farm? Deep throat? Two women one cup? All extreme examples but I dont see much respect for the beauty of life in them. If a man watches that and starts to believe in it then slowly those boundaries will be pushed aside, until all we have is a female as a semen depositary.
i must say i quite like porn but never watched it on my own just in the background while i was getting the real thing but think i would engoy it on my own with my vibe only way to know for sure is try i quess lol
I agree with you it does dehumanise it, much prefer the real thing, i actually find it boring.Dara O'brien joke - young couple go to doctors saying they can't concieve, Doc says well what are you doing, guy says well were shagging away until I'm ready to cum then I whip it out and cum on her tits...bom bom
I prefer to be honest about myself. I feel sorry for you if you manipulate your behaviour to maintain your "image". If it damages my image in some people's eyes well those people I don't really care for anyway. It's funny how the truth has a way of working itself out.
I don't know about Lucy, but personally I would be worried about anyone who would obtain sexual gratification from any person, male or female who was hurt or harmed in any way.
If anyone really liked such pain inflicted on others I would suggest they seek help before its too late.
I can watch a good romantic movie and I can watch porno also. Depends in the mood I am and with the person I am with. Porno can be intersting in learning new stuff.
Womens fantasies tend to be different to mens. Yer average bloke when looking for porn or fantasy thinks, blonde- check, big tits - check - etc whereas a woman will pay attention to the setting and more cereberal things rather than straight up shagging.
So while some watch and enjoy it they would generally tend to view it differently to men.
Personally I am happy in myself and the way I treat others.
Whenever I visit escorts I know how lucky I am.
I know I am paying for the privilege, but I know its a privilege and the pleasure I receive from these visits is unparalleled to anything else I can experience.
How do I treat my escorts?
As I would with anyone I love - with my heart and sole.
I don't care about "image", as no one knows me here.
What I do care about is showing my escort the love, care and attention as they would do from any lover.
If you cannot grasp that, then I am truly sorry for you.
My hope is that you find love and comport sometime in the future, preferably sooner than later.
My best wishes,
Mark
Appreciate your opinion as always Lucy.
However, there is a spectrum to porn, ranging from softcore(playboy style - solo girls stripping etc), to hardcore , to fetish , to outright sadistic.
I don't think its fair to taint the whole industry with the same brush. However, I do take your points above. But men and women do view porn differently.
I actually learned how to go down on a girl by watching lesbian porn (I know its lipstick lesbian fake stuff for us silly men) - but it certainly taught me a thing or two, watching how a girl would do it to a fellow woman. Afterall women know best how they want to be pleasured. So even from a female perspective there might be that tiniest of benefits to porn?
I don't want attention, I really do have that type of porn and like it. It's not for attention I do.
Lots of people have S&M porn and love it. Just like how lots of people like S&M in reality. There's nothing unusual or strange about this.
Are some people here really still in the fire and brimestone age of a person should and shouldn't view? :rolleyes:
I agree, in part. However since the start of the nineties when legislation cleared the way for hardcore porn, I have felt increasingly uneasy. It seems you can start with Debbie does Dallas and graduate to god knows what.
However, you are right that generalisations dont help.
I agree that whipping is something unnatural, but I still don't see much harm in watching it if it's consensual. It's only rarely that I watch that anyway.
I would also agree that drawn porn is unnatural, and that is why I tried to give it up at one point, but I didn't last long.... :o
Are you making a pass at me DannyBoy? :rolleyes:
Lads c'mon keep it civil and less of the nastiness please
No one wants to read it
Depends I suppose whether you are talking about proper controlled and concensual S&M activities or violent/rough mistreatment of women as you see in some supposedly more "mainstream" hardcore porn. S&m is not my thing at all but I would have more tolerance for it than I would for some of the other stuff.