Submissive - as a favourite

Many ladies have submissive as a favourite.

What does an escort understand this service to mean as part of the booking ? What should the client understand by this service, so that he knows what is acceptable behaviour ?

But the truth is the lady who puts this up don't really know what the word means because in my estimation may well take severe spanking Leathering or caning!!

Being submissive doesn't necessarily mean that you'll have the sh*t kicked out of you but there's no option on our profile for mild, extreme, etc. I am naturally submissive but would only do it with guys i have met before and feel comfortable with. We are all different so better ring the girl and ask what does she understand by submissive ;)

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Originally Posted by Avanti

But the truth is the lady who puts this up don't really know what the word means because in my estimation may well take severe spanking Leathering or caning!!

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I would think that would be listed as domination.

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Originally Posted by bootboy

Many ladies have submissive as a favourite.

What does an escort understand this service to mean as part of the booking ? What should the client understand by this service, so that he knows what is acceptable behaviour ?

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Originally Posted by Avanti

But the truth is the lady who puts this up don't really know what the word means because in my estimation may well take severe spanking Leathering or caning!!

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I've always looked upon the favourites list as a list of services that are available at the Escorts discretion. Just because an Escort provides a particular service to one client does not necessarily mean she will provide it to all. Factors such as cleanliness and trust/ comfort will determine whether a particular favourite is available or not.

I think with being submissive there needs to be a discussion beforehand about how far the Escort is willing to go and what her understanding of being submissive is. The client can then decide whether this fits in with his needs. This will ensure that there are no misunderstandings and both parties can have an enjoyable experience.

However, even if you are playing a dominant role with a submissive Escort the same rules should apply as do to a regular meeting i.e. treat the lady with the utmost of respect and always ask before doing anything she may find uncomfortable.

Just my opinion.

Any submissives that I have met,,can get an orgasm from being submissive.., If you are good, each repeat visit gets better.

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Originally Posted by bollocks

Any submissives that I have met,,can get an orgasm from being submissive.., If you are good, each repeat visit gets better.

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Who have you met like that so ?

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Originally Posted by sara26

Being submissive doesn't necessarily mean that you'll have the sh*t kicked out of you but there's no option on our profile for mild, extreme, etc. I am naturally submissive but would only do it with guys i have met before and feel comfortable with. We are all different so better ring the girl and ask what does she understand by submissive ;)

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I can just imagine how long that conversation would last !

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Originally Posted by bootboy

Who have you met like that so ?

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There is an amazing place in Berlin, which always has a variety of ladies and the times and dates that they work.. Some have sub as a speciality.

I suspect that there may well be a hidden camera in the room, just in case.

Submission like domination has many different levels to it and many different ways of exploring it, so if its something you would be interested in doing then a Pm or phone call is definitely needed. Submission/Domination isn't about tieing up or beating someone, tho these things could be included if both parties are happy with that, its about a state of mind and losing control