"Moral" question??

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05-03-11, 16:56
wanderingstar

"Moral" question??

This doesn't relate to Ireland specifically, but the Scotland site doesn't seem to have many members, and I guess it's something that anyone can have an opinion on.

I met a girl fairly recently in Glasgow, had a good time, everything was ok. However, I have my suspicions that she's a drug user. Her prices are very reasonable, i.e. cheap, and I've just noticed that she's offering special rates for "quickies" now. I'm not about to take the moral high ground and judge someone on whether or not they take drugs - it's not for me personally, but like I say, it's not my place to judge others.

My question for the good people of the EI Community is should I see her again? We had a good time (well, I did, I hope she did too!) but am I just giving her the ammo to potentially kill herself? I've been tossing this one round (no pun intended...) for a while, and my initial thoughts are yes, see her again, but I'm not sure if I'm just being selfish?

At the end of the day I'll make my own mind up, but I'd be interested to hear what others think, especially if you've been in this situation yourselves.
05-03-11, 17:05
Forrest

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Originally Posted by wanderingstar

This doesn't relate to Ireland specifically, but the Scotland site doesn't seem to have many members, and I guess it's something that anyone can have an opinion on.

I met a girl fairly recently in Glasgow, had a good time, everything was ok. However, I have my suspicions that she's a drug user. Her prices are very reasonable, i.e. cheap, and I've just noticed that she's offering special rates for "quickies" now. I'm not about to take the moral high ground and judge someone on whether or not they take drugs - it's not for me personally, but like I say, it's not my place to judge others.

My question for the good people of the EI Community is should I see her again? We had a good time (well, I did, I hope she did too!) but am I just giving her the ammo to potentially kill herself? I've been tossing this one round (no pun intended...) for a while, and my initial thoughts are yes, see her again, but I'm not sure if I'm just being selfish?

At the end of the day I'll make my own mind up, but I'd be interested to hear what others think, especially if you've been in this situation yourselves.

What other suspicions have you that the lady is a drug user other than that her prices are reasonable(cheap) and she is offering a 'quickie' special.
What was the apartment she was using like, what was she like to communicate with, and how was her physical appearance?
If there is physical evidence of drug use, then you have to consider more than 'giving her ammo to potentially kill herself'.
There are health risks for you also, if the lady is a drug user.
If you got on well, go visit again, and give her the benefit of the doubt.
05-03-11, 17:52
Bruno69

Sounds like you like her. Have a chat with her about it.
05-03-11, 18:05
wanted the best 69

Quote:

Originally Posted by wanderingstar

This doesn't relate to Ireland specifically, but the Scotland site doesn't seem to have many members, and I guess it's something that anyone can have an opinion on.

I met a girl fairly recently in Glasgow, had a good time, everything was ok. However, I have my suspicions that she's a drug user. Her prices are very reasonable, i.e. cheap, and I've just noticed that she's offering special rates for "quickies" now. I'm not about to take the moral high ground and judge someone on whether or not they take drugs - it's not for me personally, but like I say, it's not my place to judge others.

My question for the good people of the EI Community is should I see her again? We had a good time (well, I did, I hope she did too!) but am I just giving her the ammo to potentially kill herself? I've been tossing this one round (no pun intended...) for a while, and my initial thoughts are yes, see her again, but I'm not sure if I'm just being selfish?

At the end of the day I'll make my own mind up, but I'd be interested to hear what others think, especially if you've been in this situation yourselves.

i think i go with forrest on this, if you know, big if that, then forget the girl worry about you own health
05-03-11, 20:25
Amy Alison

Quote:

Originally Posted by wanderingstar

I met a girl fairly recently in Glasgow, had a good time, everything was ok. However, I have my suspicions that she's a drug user. Her prices are very reasonable, i.e. cheap, and I've just noticed that she's offering special rates for "quickies" now. I'm not about to take the moral high ground and judge someone on whether or not they take drugs - it's not for me personally, but like I say, it's not my place to judge others.

Cheap fees are not always an indication of poor habits or poor quality. If I may use myself as an example, I do offer this time of the year quickies, massages beside the escorting services, but I have never in my life took drugs and hell will freeze over until I'll try them. My drugs of choice are cigs, caffee and Pepsi Max ;)

If you have seen her wasted, if you seen marks on her body etc ... have a talk to her first and see if she is willing to get any help. If she is cooperant, stick with her and support her as much as you can. If she is not ... well, I don't want to sound cruel but I don't think you can change much and better look for someone else.

Just an oppinion.