I've lost my bottle......HELP!

I've been a regular punter for about 15 years and a member of this site (with various user names) for about 5 years.
I would have considered myself to be a good client and punted say 1 or 2 times per month with various ladies, tv sand ts girls in whatever town or city it happened to be in.

All was fine until about 9 months ago I had a bad experience when after leaving an appointment I was followed by a Garda who tailed me to the edge of town before lighting up the blues and pulling me in. Basically he asked where I had been etc and I know I had done nothing wrong but there was a strongly implied threat that if he wanted to he could fuck me up a bit 'bring me in to the station'. Basically in the end I didn't admit to anything tell him enough to get him off my back and I was sent on my way.

Thing is I have been totally fucked up since this and cannot get the nerve up to visit any girls, not even my old favourites. This is shit, I want to get back punting, can anyone help me?????

Come on FFS help me, some words of reassurance

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Originally Posted by SophieX

Visit hotels, less likely to be Garda hanging round.... :biggthumpup:

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Yep I agree,I used to love hotels but even with the familiar ones which I have used many times I now feel nervous.

Your overthinking this and now it's seems that you are getting paranoid about it .
You have done nothing illegal.
Btw the gardai must have legitimate reasons to question you in the first place , let alone bring you to the station.: doc

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Originally Posted by SophieX

Then find a new hobby :D

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This isn't a hobby- it's a way of life and once you start I think it might be impossible to stop!,,

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Originally Posted by dr love

Your overthinking this and now it's seems that you are getting paranoid about it .
You have done nothing illegal.
Btw the gardai must have legitimate reasons to question you in the first place , let alone bring you to the station.: doc

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You are the voice of reason but I can't shake this and when I pointed out to the gard that I had do e nothing wrong in visiting a lady as I had, he was quick to start asking questions about 'was I collecting money or anything like that' I thought that was him setting himself up to be able to pretty much do what he wanted on suspicion that I was a pimp. bTW if you meet me you'd know I ain't no pimp looking type!

OK, you say you travel a lot, and that's when you meet the escorts, well you must be staying in a hotel yourself, so do a callout to your hotel, or if you are not in a hotel, then instead of seeing two a month see one a month and book a hotel Rome and do a callout, I do understand your feelings I am the same way,
Use you head, only you can find the way around it, think about where you go and stay, try stay along once a month somewhere and do the callout,

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

I've been a regular punter for about 15 years and a member of this site (with various user names) for about 5 years.
I would have considered myself to be a good client and punted say 1 or 2 times per month with various ladies, tv sand ts girls in whatever town or city it happened to be in.

All was fine until about 9 months ago I had a bad experience when after leaving an appointment I was followed by a Garda who tailed me to the edge of town before lighting up the blues and pulling me in. Basically he asked where I had been etc and I know I had done nothing wrong but there was a strongly implied threat that if he wanted to he could fuck me up a bit 'bring me in to the station'. Basically in the end I didn't admit to anything tell him enough to get him off my back and I was sent on my way.

Thing is I have been totally fucked up since this and cannot get the nerve up to visit any girls, not even my old favourites. This is shit, I want to get back punting, can anyone help me?????

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

Come on FFS help me, some words of reassurance

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Hi Iusedtobesomeonelse (Jjjeeessuuss thats a long one) all I can say is get Ur "Plan B"/story in Ur head straight to "spit out" to the "Boys-In-Blue" IF something like that happens, because as far as Im aware this is not illegal "Par-Say" & only becomes a Garda issue IF its a Public place or U knowingly are with a trafficked Gaaalll etc otherwise it not anything he/she can do unless U "Faulter" & say something, & if its convienent "Call his Bluff" & say ok take me to the station & make sure U get his ID/No. & name, so IF he/she takes U to the station what is he/she going to say PROVE, U were in a PRIVATE APPARTMENT, so the F..k what whats illegal about that & unless he has a "Cast Iron" case (Proof, witnesed, etc etc) his/her Sarg will "Clip his/her" ear as IF "push came to shuve" ANY HALF ARSED phone conversation with a solicitor would "Mop the Floor" with him/her & they know it so the thing is put the "Be Jabors In U" & see what U Spit Out.

Anyway having said that I wouldent like to experience it myself .... hope I was of some help :)

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

You are the voice of reason but I can't shake this and when I pointed out to the gard that I had do e nothing wrong in visiting a lady as I had, he was quick to start asking questions about 'was I collecting money or anything like that' I thought that was him setting himself up to be able to pretty much do what he wanted on suspicion that I was a pimp. bTW if you meet me you'd know I ain't no pimp looking type!

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I won't go into my high and lows of punting;),but put this experience behind you and travel more to see the ladies.: doc

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Originally Posted by Me4711

Hi Iusedtobesomeonelse (Jjjeeessuuss thats a long one) all I can say is get Ur "Plan B"/story in Ur head straight to "spit out" to the "Boys-In-Blue" IF something like that happens, because as far as Im aware this is not illegal "Par-Say" & only becomes a Garda issue IF its a Public place or U knowingly are with a trafficked Gaaalll etc otherwise it not anything he/she can do unless U "Faulter" & say something, & if its convienent "Call his Bluff" & say ok take me to the station & make sure U get his ID/No. & name, so IF he/she takes U to the station what is he/she going to say PROVE, U were in a PRIVATE APPARTMENT, so the F..k what whats illegal about that & unless he has a "Cast Iron" case (Proof, witnesed, etc etc) his/her Sarg will "Clip his/her" ear as IF "push came to shuve" ANY HALF ARSED phone conversation with a solicitor would "Mop the Floor" with him/her & they know it so the thing is put the "Be Jabors In U" & see what U Spit Out.

Anyway having said that I wouldent like to experience it myself .... hope I was of some help :)

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I had a plan B storey which I dully spat out but it fell apart at the first strange look from the guard!

So go on, tell me you plan storey?

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

I had a plan B storey which I dully spat out but it fell apart at the first strange look from the guard!

So go on, tell me you plan storey?

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Why do you need a story? Just dont say anything

Ask why you were stopped.
You only have to give him your name.
if he persists in asking questions, ask for his name, rank, and number.

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Originally Posted by NoBrain2

Why do you need a story? Just dont say anything

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That's easy to say when you sitting here now talking about it, not so easy in real life IMHO

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Originally Posted by 69patrick69

Ask why you were stopped.
You only have to give him your name.
if he persists in asking questions, ask for his name, rank, and number.

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You guys are all so full of big ideas and big talk but I promise you if you are pulled in with blue light flashing etc you will shit your boxers! No disrespect at all intended but it's different in real life

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

You guys are all so full of big ideas and big talk but I promise you if you are pulled in with blue light flashing etc you will shit your boxers! No disrespect at all intended but it's different in real life

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Been there Mate

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

You guys are all so full of big ideas and big talk but I promise you if you are pulled in with blue light flashing etc you will shit your boxers! No disrespect at all intended but it's different in real life

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Yeah you're right, glad it didn't happen to me.

Once something bad happens, it is difficult to overcome the fear and I understand your concern.

Words are easy.

What you need to do is to reduce the "fear" /(which gets worse everytime you think and relive the incident).. The fear of this become public is making it even more scary..

Focus on the pleasure and fun aspect of a date rather than the the incident.

To reduce this, maybe you can start with something a little less stressful, eg do a date in another country...

This way the "potential consequence is reduced

Then as has been suggest, try an outcall to a hotel in a different city...

Hope this gives you something you can work with...

Otherwise it may just be you have outgrown your hobby and the event was your moment of ephinany...

Good luck and all the best

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

I've been a regular punter for about 15 years and a member of this site (with various user names) for about 5 years.
I would have considered myself to be a good client and punted say 1 or 2 times per month with various ladies, tv sand ts girls in whatever town or city it happened to be in.

All was fine until about 9 months ago I had a bad experience when after leaving an appointment I was followed by a Garda who tailed me to the edge of town before lighting up the blues and pulling me in. Basically he asked where I had been etc and I know I had done nothing wrong but there was a strongly implied threat that if he wanted to he could fuck me up a bit 'bring me in to the station'. Basically in the end I didn't admit to anything tell him enough to get him off my back and I was sent on my way.

Thing is I have been totally fucked up since this and cannot get the nerve up to visit any girls, not even my old favourites. This is shit, I want to get back punting, can anyone help me?????

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

I've been a regular punter for about 15 years and a member of this site (with various user names) for about 5 years.
I would have considered myself to be a good client and punted say 1 or 2 times per month with various ladies, tv sand ts girls in whatever town or city it happened to be in.

All was fine until about 9 months ago I had a bad experience when after leaving an appointment I was followed by a Garda who tailed me to the edge of town before lighting up the blues and pulling me in. Basically he asked where I had been etc and I know I had done nothing wrong but there was a strongly implied threat that if he wanted to he could fuck me up a bit 'bring me in to the station'. Basically in the end I didn't admit to anything tell him enough to get him off my back and I was sent on my way.

Thing is I have been totally fucked up since this and cannot get the nerve up to visit any girls, not even my old favourites. This is shit, I want to get back punting, can anyone help me?????

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Ok.. first of all.. relax... It is not illegal to visit an escort. It is also not illegal to be found on in a premises where more than one escort is working, its illegal for them, not you. So you have NOTHING to fear from the Gardaí.

It sounds to me that you were unfortunate to have been in the wrong place at the wrong time, as in, visiting a premises the Gardaí were actively watching for whatever reason. They know they have no case if you were just visiting an escort... the reason they followed you and pulled you in was they suspected you were a pimp and had just called in to collect the earnings from your girls.... cos if you were... now they may have further "icing" on their case to compliment the brothel bust, cos they have caught the pimp as well... makes them look better in court.... As an honest punter John you are worthless... They were more than likely more pissed off that you actually were said "honest John", than you were at being pulled.

Buddy... You need paranoia therapy... Here's what you need to do...

Pick an independent & established escort and make a booking. On your way there, call your local Garda station and tell them what you are about to do and where you are about to do it. On approaching the entrance to your beauty's apartment put your phone on speaker as she calls out the keycode so all passer-by's can hear it... go in and have wonderful sex with the girl of your dreams. As you exit, stop the first person you see and point out to them that you have done nothing illegal.... with a skip to your step pop in to your local for a well deserved pint and happily smell her perfume as you take each sip..... Keep repeating to yourself ... "Its good to be the king.."

You'll be grand... :D

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Originally Posted by JAMESCORK

Ok.. first of all.. relax... It is not illegal to visit an escort. It is also not illegal to be found on in a premises where more than one escort is working, its illegal for them, not you. So you have NOTHING to fear from the Gardaí.

It sounds to me that you were unfortunate to have been in the wrong place at the wrong time, as in, visiting a premises the Gardaí were actively watching for whatever reason. They know they have no case if you were just visiting an escort... the reason they followed you and pulled you in was they suspected you were a pimp and had just called in to collect the earnings from your girls.... cos if you were... now they may have further "icing" on their case to compliment the brothel bust, cos they have caught the pimp as well... makes them look better in court.... As an honest punter John you are worthless... They were more than likely more pissed off that you actually were said "honest John", than you were at being pulled.

Buddy... You need paranoia therapy... Here's what you need to do...

Pick an independent & established escort and make a booking. On your way there, call your local Garda station and tell them what you are about to do and where you are about to do it. On approaching the entrance to your beauty's apartment put your phone on speaker as she calls out the keycode so all passer-by's can hear it... go in and have wonderful sex with the girl of your dreams. As you exit, stop the first person you see and point out to them that you have done nothing illegal.... with a skip to your step pop in to your local for a well deserved pint and happily smell her perfume as you take each sip..... Keep repeating to yourself ... "Its good to be the king.."

You'll be grand... :D

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Best response yet, I can't see me acting on your advice but it was a great read!

You are legend..................................wait for it......................................ary!

If I were you, I'd get in touch with one of my regulars and tell her what has happened. Work out a plan to meet with her before the appointment in a coffee shop and then back to your hotel room for an outcall.

My guess is that you visited premises under survelance on more than one occasion and that they felt an identity check was appropriate. On 2 occasions I have noticed Gardai cars behind me after a punt, might just be coincidence but I dont continue to drive nerviously in front of them, my policy is to pull in to make a phone call asap.

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

I had a plan B storey which I dully spat out but it fell apart at the first strange look from the guard!

So go on, tell me you plan storey?

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They "Key Prob." DONT FALL APART .... A Garda, Det. Sol. or a Judge can THINK WHAT THEY LIKE but its only what they can PROVE that counts, stick to Ur story & keep it a simple a short with loads of variables as U can as with any of those its a case of if no proof "Stoke him out until he Spits Something out", as far as I know a Garda has ONLY the wright to ask Ur name address & were U are going to & coming from FULL STOP ... anything else requires "Intent, Proof etc etc" & lets face it IF they had any of that he/she wouldent even entertain a conversation it just "Im arresting U Under Section Bla Bla Bla of the Tricky Micky Act" ... without that he/she has F..k all ... only the "Fear Factor" for U ....

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

I've been a regular punter for about 15 years and a member of this site (with various user names) for about 5 years.
I would have considered myself to be a good client and punted say 1 or 2 times per month with various ladies, tv sand ts girls in whatever town or city it happened to be in.

All was fine until about 9 months ago I had a bad experience when after leaving an appointment I was followed by a Garda who tailed me to the edge of town before lighting up the blues and pulling me in. Basically he asked where I had been etc and I know I had done nothing wrong but there was a strongly implied threat that if he wanted to he could fuck me up a bit 'bring me in to the station'. Basically in the end I didn't admit to anything tell him enough to get him off my back and I was sent on my way.

Thing is I have been totally fucked up since this and cannot get the nerve up to visit any girls, not even my old favourites. This is shit, I want to get back punting, can anyone help me?????

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do not HESITATE to call me ! :D

if you hesitate then your fucked.......

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Originally Posted by ana massage

do not HESITATE to call me ! :D

if you hesitate then your fucked.......

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As the saying goes ana ... "He who hesitates MASTURBATES" :) :)

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

I've been a regular punter for about 15 years and a member of this site (with various user names) for about 5 years.
I would have considered myself to be a good client and punted say 1 or 2 times per month with various ladies, tv sand ts girls in whatever town or city it happened to be in.

All was fine until about 9 months ago I had a bad experience when after leaving an appointment I was followed by a Garda who tailed me to the edge of town before lighting up the blues and pulling me in. Basically he asked where I had been etc and I know I had done nothing wrong but there was a strongly implied threat that if he wanted to he could fuck me up a bit 'bring me in to the station'. Basically in the end I didn't admit to anything tell him enough to get him off my back and I was sent on my way.

Thing is I have been totally fucked up since this and cannot get the nerve up to visit any girls, not even my old favourites. This is shit, I want to get back punting, can anyone help me?????

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You see this why I only communicate with the ladies on this page directly true private messaging first as it saves all the bullshit, good communication is the key to a successful punt and the PM service on this website is an invaluable service and contributes to an encounter with legitimate person and this is what I like. In short if the ladies communicate I communicate :)

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Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce

The amount of times I have been questioned by Gardai to or from my favorite hobby pffff! Tell them nothing, none of there business. Give it a week or so and you will be back on form I'm sure. God/ nature only gave us enough blood to run one thing at a tine our brains or our dicks! I know which one I think with.

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As a matter of interest irishdeltaforce if a Garda stops U coming from seeing an Escort can U realy (legaly) tell them nothing other than Ur name & address, & anything beyond this is a right to U to say NOTHING AT ALL ?.

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Originally Posted by Me4711

As a matter of interest irishdeltaforce if a Garda stops U coming from seeing an Escort can U realy (legaly) tell them nothing other than Ur name & address, & anything beyond this is a right to U to say NOTHING AT ALL ?.

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Yes... this is true... You actually can say that you just had sex with an escort if you like... same difference in the end..:D

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Originally Posted by Iusedtobesomeonelse

Come on FFS help me, some words of reassurance

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The man who gets knocked down will win another day,
the man who never gets back up will never win.