Opting out ???

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14-11-10, 17:54
n73

Opting out ???

Should escorts be allowed opt out of reviews just because of a bad or mediocre one ?
I recently wrote a girls first review, it certainly wasn't damning or insulting but it was truthful by saying she was a big girl. BBW isn't my thing but I did say if it was someones idea of fun they should give her a try. It was her only review and now I notice she's opted out of reviews.
I just feel if a girl is willing to take reviews they should be willing to take criticism and that once a review has been posted they shouldn't be allowed opt out. Anyone got an opinion ?
14-11-10, 18:02
dave1dave

I think she has every right to opt out, but I think its rather a rash decision to opt out if it wasn't a negative.
Opting out of reviews will have its own concequences on her business. I would say more so than a negative review.
14-11-10, 18:37
Sam Spade

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Originally Posted by n73

Should escorts be allowed opt out of reviews just because of a bad or mediocre one ?
I recently wrote a girls first review, it certainly wasn't damning or insulting but it was truthful by saying she was a big girl. BBW isn't my thing but I did say if it was someones idea of fun they should give her a try. It was her only review and now I notice she's opted out of reviews.
I just feel if a girl is willing to take reviews they should be willing to take criticism and that once a review has been posted they shouldn't be allowed opt out. Anyone got an opinion ?

I was looking forward to a return to Belfast of an escort who had mixed reviews to her age - advertised 39, reviewers stated around 45. Did this put me off - no, I was looking forward to a gorgeous lady no matter what her age.

Have I booked her - sadly no, as I cannot book a lady who does not accept reviews - perhaps my loss but its what I hold too.

I believe an escort should not automatically opt out because of a bad review, as opting out may affect her business more than a single bad review. I am never put off by a single bad review, only by consistent ones which show a pattern.

In conclusion should an escort be allowed to opt out or reviews - yes.
Should she - NO

There are many punters who will not make a booking with an escort who opts out.
Many punters as I am, are concerned that escorts will not care once the money exchanges hands.

I will always make appointments with escorts who allow reviews as I believe she will alway try to provide the best service available.
14-11-10, 18:59
ThomasJ

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Originally Posted by n73

Should escorts be allowed opt out of reviews just because of a bad or mediocre one ?
I recently wrote a girls first review, it certainly wasn't damning or insulting but it was truthful by saying she was a big girl. BBW isn't my thing but I did say if it was someones idea of fun they should give her a try. It was her only review and now I notice she's opted out of reviews.
I just feel if a girl is willing to take reviews they should be willing to take criticism and that once a review has been posted they shouldn't be allowed opt out. Anyone got an opinion ?

An escort should be free to choose whether to allow reviews or not - cannot be very nice to read a nasty review of yourself or indeed have people you know reading about you.

The downside of not allowing reviews is that you limit the number of punters who will call you - still the escort should have the choice.
14-11-10, 19:27
n73

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Originally Posted by ThomasJ

An escort should be free to choose whether to allow reviews or not - cannot be very nice to read a nasty review of yourself or indeed have people you know reading about you.

The downside of not allowing reviews is that you limit the number of punters who will call you - still the escort should have the choice.

It wasn't a nasty review, it was factual and if anything, complementary, even going as far as to recommend her to people who are into BBW.
14-11-10, 19:40
mathsteacher

I feel opting out should not be an option
1. a punter should be able to evaulate before having to part with cash when its too late, it is a service after all
2. it takes away from all the good experiences when u feel ur after getting ripped off, if they want to opt out go to another place to advertise.
14-11-10, 20:36
n73

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Originally Posted by mathsteacher

I feel opting out should not be an option
1. a punter should be able to evaulate before having to part with cash when its too late, it is a service after all
2. it takes away from all the good experiences when u feel ur after getting ripped off, if they want to opt out go to another place to advertise.

Not my point really. I think what I'm trying to say is that, yes, an escort should have the right to opt out but if a review has been placed before the escort opts out the prior reviews should be left up. The reason I believe this is the opt out facility can be used by bad escorts, who were hoping for good reviews, to cover up negative critique.
14-11-10, 20:44
dr love

most punters will go with escorts with reviews,even if they opt out with a bad review and opt in again , the negative review,will be there also.
14-11-10, 20:44
mathsteacher

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Originally Posted by n73

Not my point really. I think what I'm trying to say is that, yes, an escort should have the right to opt out but if a review has been placed before the escort opts out the prior reviews should be left up. The reason I believe this is the opt out facility can be used by bad escorts, who were hoping for good reviews, to cover up negative critique.

i hear what ur saying but they should make this the best service by outing the escorts on the rip
14-11-10, 20:47
Doozer

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Originally Posted by mathsteacher

I feel opting out should not be an option
1. a punter should be able to evaulate before having to part with cash when its too late, it is a service after all
2. it takes away from all the good experiences when u feel ur after getting ripped off, if they want to opt out go to another place to advertise.

Escorts have the right not to allow reviews
Some dont think its appropriate to be judged on their ability (good or bad) and some of them may have friends or fa,ily memebrs who know they escort and may find it uncomfortable with them reading their reviews
14-11-10, 20:55
mathsteacher

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Originally Posted by Doozer

Escorts have the right not to allow reviews
Some dont think its appropriate to be judged on their ability (good or bad) and some of them may have friends or fa,ily memebrs who know they escort and may find it uncomfortable with them reading their reviews

yeah but they are in business and punters are paying customers its a service, if they are bad providers of a service they shouldnt get good business
14-11-10, 20:56
Doozer

If they opt out of reviews their profile will be unverified which will loose the business
Thats the catch of not allowing reviews
14-11-10, 21:18
herodotus

Only an idiot would go with a girl who opts out of reviews unless he has some very good reasons for not doing so. As for the opting in or out of reviews that is personal choice and shoud not be forced on anyone.

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Originally Posted by mathsteacher

yeah but they are in business and punters are paying customers its a service, if they are bad providers of a service they shouldnt get good business
14-11-10, 21:31
Monkeynut

This is one of my rant subjects. Of course an escort has the right to opt out of reviews but they must realise that as things get tougher, punters need the extra assurance that reviews give that their hard earned cash will not be spent on a bad experience. Pulling out of the review system will have a negative effect on their business.
I wish there were figures to back this up.