Fed up seeing escorts

I'm getting fed up with visiting escorts as punting now 4 years, escorts have been good but its got monotonous now and really same thing all the time. as my mechanic says same shit, different day, Not bothered now if i visit or not... maybe need change of scenery
Any others feel like that, be feckin honest now

If you are fed up visiting escorts, you are not doing it right.

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Originally Posted by SteveB

If you are fed up visiting escorts, you are not doing it right.

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I am, you will notice i'm not blaming the escorts but suppose with everything you get bored, you get a Ferrari and after a month its not the same, youre bored with it, so i didnt do so bad with 4 years

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Originally Posted by zilch

You are being very very silly now. Tut tut.

Maybe take a break for a week or two and see how you feel.

It could also be a fever coming on.

Oh i don't know. :)

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maybe its this country, most good escorts are the same really, same favourites and actions and allotted time only different is their face, use to think Anal was the bees knees not its really no biggie

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Originally Posted by hadaway

I am, you will notice i'm not blaming the escorts but suppose with everything you get bored, you get a Ferrari and after a month its not the same, youre bored with it, so i didnt do so bad with 4 years

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I have been visiting escorts much longer than I have been a member of this forum and I am still not bored with it. I can't say I will not become bored in the future.

I am not someone who is obsessed with female company or sex, so why are you bored and I am not? I think that is a question neither of us would know the answer. As zilch said, "Maybe take a break for a week or two and see how you feel".

To me, it is more than entertainment. It is an opportunity to meet interesting people I would never meet in my ordinary life.

Spot on. It's more than just the sex. But ultimately it is your own time and money and given that this can be a relatively expensive pastime it makes little sense to indulge if it yields little or no satisfaction. If it is something that you are driven to do by compulsion and don't get pleasure from, then maybe it might be a good idea to take a break or perhaps seek some professional advice.

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Originally Posted by hadaway

maybe its this country, most good escorts are the same really, same favourites and actions and allotted time only different is their face, use to think Anal was the bees knees not its really no biggie

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More like it's you, that's the same,
and there's only one person who can change that.
Hadaway with ya. ;)

It depends on your personal circumstances, but it is a fairly synthetic plastic experience after a while. That's if it's not your only chance at female companionship for one reason or another.
Save your punting money for a month or two and use it to do something else. See if you find that more fulfilling. Then take a look and if an escort's profile wows you, maybe try and see if the thrill returns.
If not, stay away for a few more months and then reassess.
You may decide to return or you may have grown to want different things.

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Originally Posted by hadaway

I'm getting fed up with visiting escorts as punting now 4 years, escorts have been good but its got monotonous now and really same thing all the time. as my mechanic says same shit, different day, Not bothered now if i visit or not... maybe need change of scenery
Any others feel like that, be feckin honest now

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Well if you feel that way then give it up and get a wife
After a while you might change your mind :)

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Originally Posted by hadaway

I'm getting fed up with visiting escorts as punting now 4 years, escorts have been good but its got monotonous now and really same thing all the time. as my mechanic says same shit, different day, Not bothered now if i visit or not... maybe need change of scenery
Any others feel like that, be feckin honest now

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Think what all the girls you seen have in common. If they are quite similar, maybe go for a new type? A different price level? Different services?
If you already experimented enough, yeah, just take a break maybe you're just andrenaline chasing and once that's gone you can visit the best of the best and you won't enjoy it.

I have regulars I have seen for years, it's not just about the sex for them, it's also a bit of company, some banter, the secure environment to talk openly about sex or the safety to try to fulfill their fantasies, some fantasies that they have harboured for many years but unfortunately they are not able to act out their fantasies with their partners. Some guys don't have partners or are widowed & they are lonely, so they like the company, the touchy-feely element.

If you are just going for the sex & don't strike up a rapport with the girls you are visiting, then it might at some stage become routine. But I would've thought that the fact that you can a have a choice of girl should offer some variety, every girl is different, her touch, her body, her personality, so the experience shouldn't be the same with every girl.

If you feel fed up, then yes it's best you leave the scene. It's no longer providing fulfillment so it's your time to move on.

Sandy x

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Originally Posted by hadaway

I am, you will notice i'm not blaming the escorts but suppose with everything you get bored, you get a Ferrari and after a month its not the same, youre bored with it, so i didnt do so bad with 4 years

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so whats the option? getting married? or handjob? adult-whack-it ? because if u get married u will be more bored.. or u thinking to stop having sex? because one way or other u need sex in some way and only escorts give u diversity. Women are not same different person different services different experience. nothing same... maybe u went to see same type of girl same age same services... just saying

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Originally Posted by hadaway

I am, you will notice i'm not blaming the escorts but suppose with everything you get bored, you get a Ferrari and after a month its not the same, youre bored with it, so i didnt do so bad with 4 years

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I'm not blaming the escorts either. I had 2 Ford Escort's & smashed 1 & blew the engine in the other- can't blame the escorts !!! Never could afford a Ferrari- maybe if I stopped punting ? Fuck it I'd only get bored with it.

CARRY ON PUNTING !!!:)

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Originally Posted by hadaway

maybe its this country, most good escorts are the same really, same favourites and actions and allotted time only different is their face, use to think Anal was the bees knees not its really no biggie

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If it's no biggie, you obviously don't have a biggie.

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Originally Posted by FetishCherry

so whats the option? getting married? or handjob? adult-whack-it ? because if u get married u will be more bored.. or u thinking to stop having sex? because one way or other u need sex in some way and only escorts give u diversity. Women are not same different person different services different experience. nothing same... maybe u went to see same type of girl same age same services... just saying

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There are people (both men and women) who classify themselves as asexual
that is, they do not get turned on by sex and have little to no interest in it.
At most, they might form 1 to 2 per cent of the population, if that.

And it is possible to get too much of a good thing.
If indulged in too frequently, even the extraordinary can become routine.
Hadaway if not just doing a bit of trolling, may be experiencing this.
Have seen a couple of others express similar sentiments here.
Had a way---but now lost his way.
Tbh not much about sex with me either, just my way of contributing to the GDPs of Hungary and Romania. ;)

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Originally Posted by hadaway

maybe its this country, most good escorts are the same really, same favourites and actions and allotted time only different is their face, use to think Anal was the bees knees not its really no biggie

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I don't know about that! I have met some great escorts on here - and they were all different in so many ways. Some are explosively sensual where others were laugh a minute and you would leave with pains in your side from laughing so much - a pure sign that you had a good time.

Even seeing the same person regularly for me didn't get boring. But I suppose that has as much to do with the individual escort!

No matter how many times I'd walk up to her door and knock I'd get a chill down my spine with anticipation :D

Just to walk in and see her in a different sexy dress with matching heels each time would make me go weak at the knees. This may have been the same girl who I saw last week and the week before that and the week before that but I would still be as excited as ever :D

She knew how to keep it fresh and me excited. For me it's not just about sex - it's as much about being seduced and finding some sort of connection and enjoying the company of someone who I would probably never get to meet out in normal boring society.

You don't say what sort of appointments you are going for - are they the short half hour where everything is very rushed? Do you go for the longer hour appointments where things are more relaxed of do you like the dinner dates and overnighters where you have time to indulge in real fun?

It all boils down to what you want to get out of the experience and how you go about getting that!

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Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce

Been there bought the t-shirt, you need to shift it up a gear!

Only you know what that means to you. :dunno:

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If there is no fifth gear you need to forget about it.

I'm fed up seeing escorts too. Holding them is a different matter though. :wave:

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Originally Posted by zilch

Hey there sweetpea. If you are looking for something different send me a pm. Kissey Kissey adult-tea-bagadult-golden-showers:flirt:

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Are you doing nixers now? :lmao:

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Originally Posted by zilch

I like to call it charity work my friend :)

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Very respectful sir ;)

Cut the balls off make earings

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Are people reading my posts correctly as some seem to have a problem and believe i dislike escorts, i see other white knights are jumping to the defense of ladies that they even have not met and trying to blacken me, thats just stupid, anyone can see from my first posts that i say its not about escorts as they have been great so to label me as being negative towards escorts because i've got the guts to tell the truth shows they talking through their ass

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Originally Posted by zilch

You are being very very silly now. Tut tut.

Maybe take a break for a week or two and see how you feel.

It could also be a fever coming on.

Oh i don't know. :)

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May a ban for 2 weeks work for him? Hmmmm:rolleyes:

Now Now, I still see escorts but dont get the same buzz when i first started, again not the escorts fault as they do their best. I cant explain it but age does change a person too.
You get to the stage in life when you think you have seen it all.

Variation on an old joke.

Man goes to the Doctor
Doctor, Doctor, I am fed up seeing escorts!

The Doctor replies, "Well, stop seeing them".

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Originally Posted by hadaway

Now Now, I still see escorts but dont get the same buzz when i first started, again not the escorts fault as they do their best. I cant explain it but age does change a person too.

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I kind of know what you mean I think. When I first started seeing escorts I would be a bag of nerves with the excitement before the door would open. The anticipation of meeting a seriously gorgeous new lady would give me a serious buzz. Now however that buzz is not always there when meeting someone new — Obviously if it is someone new it can't be the ladies fault.

On the other hand though there are ladies who I have seen many times in the past with one in particular who would have the hair standing on the back of my neck with anticipation if I was going to see her even today!

Why do I get more excited with some ladies who I know over others who I haven't met? Hard to say really only that I know what to expect from someone I have already met and if she is exceptionally good then I will look forward to the meeting even more! So in these cases there is an argument to say the escort is responsible for my anticipation.

So it comes down to expectations as to whether I get a buzz or not! I generally tend not to expect much — that way I won't be disappointed if it all goes south — but will be more than happy when it all turns out good.

Perhaps you expectations have changed Hadaway? What do you want out of your visits? Do you come away happy or disappointed? Do you see the same type of ladies each time or do you mix it up?

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Originally Posted by Petros

I kind of know what you mean I think. When I first started seeing escorts I would be a bag of nerves with the excitement before the door would open. The anticipation of meeting a seriously gorgeous new lady would give me a serious buzz. Now however that buzz is not always there when meeting someone new — Obviously if it is someone new it can't be the ladies fault.

On the other hand though there are ladies who I have seen many times in the past with one in particular who would have the hair standing on the back of my neck with anticipation if I was going to see her even today!

Why do I get more excited with some ladies who I know over others who I haven't met? Hard to say really only that I know what to expect from someone I have already met and if she is exceptionally good then I will look forward to the meeting even more! So in these cases there is an argument to say the escort is responsible for my anticipation.

So it comes down to expectations as to whether I get a buzz or not! I generally tend not to expect much — that way I won't be disappointed if it all goes south — but will be more than happy when it all turns out good.

Perhaps you expectations have changed Hadaway? What do you want out of your visits? Do you come away happy or disappointed? Do you see the same type of ladies each time or do you mix it up?

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do you get the same buzz when you see them the second time around, seeing them for the first them waiting in anticipation to see what she will be like and waiting for her to open the door, everything starts to go downhill as you get older

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Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce

Ye your a bit of an old hand I think now.

If your pants don't rumble when the door opens,

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Well, its not gone completely :D

Anyway, I prefer the thrill of when the door is closed and I'm behind it ;)

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Originally Posted by hadaway

do you get the same buzz when you see them the second time around, seeing them for the first them waiting in anticipation to see what she will be like and waiting for her to open the door, everything starts to go downhill as you get older

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I tend to see the same ladies — I do like repeat visits and getting to know them. For me the buzz can be better the second, third, fourth time. As i said it comes down to expectations and with some ladies because I know what they are capable of my expectations can be very high!

When I know I am going to be meeting one of the most amazing ladies I have ever met in my life of course I'll have great buzz — who wouldn't! Sure, it's always interesting meeting someone new and of course it is exciting but you never know how things will go and if you will both click — I no longer get the same buzz out of that!

I don't put it down to getting older — maybe it'd more to do with past experiences? I have been very lucky with the ladies who I have met so far — and I hope my luck continues.

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Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce

Different buzz altogether.

Like you know what your going to expect, it can be very horny.

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I totally agree IDF! When you are lucky enough to reach that point you just don't think about seeing anyone new!