Not allowing explicit reviews.

This is an adult site covering adult material, I am just curious as to why some escorts are allowed to state that they don't want sexually explicit reviews? For me the most helpful reviews are the ones that state what the escort does or doesn't do. And I am not talking about writing a review with every graphic detail of what happened.

If you read the FAQ section it says that if a girl says she doesn't want explicit reviews then you can write something about bad service, but you can't say her blowjob was lacking. But, isn't that the information you are looking for in reviews. A girl might do a bad blowjob but do amazing doggy style that more than makes up for it. How do you get this information out if you can't say blowjob or doggy style? The mods screen every review, so all the abusive and over the top ones won't get through anyway.

So why in a site about sex and escorting can we not mention any sexual words?

Also escorts can respond to any review, so they can tell their side of things.

It really amazes me that escorts can firstly opt out of the review system and secondly ask that reviews don't mention anything explicit. Details which might actually help punters make choices.

personally I have no problem to receive explicit reviews..but unfortunatelly,outthere are people judging you,especially people that already know you as friend and familiars,people from my private life that knows I'm an escort and where they can have a look 4 curiosity..and those details from an explicit review are not the best thing they should know about me in order to avoid uncomfortable and embarassing situation..that's why..and I suppose that most of the escorts doesn't allow explicit reviews for a similar reason,and if I'm wrong,please call my attention..
btw,as long as an review has a red or a green color u can say 75% if it worths or not.. and don't believe every detail u can see on the explicit ones because they r services that an escort is providing 4 some customers,but can be unavailable 4 some others..
so everything is relativ..beeing explicit or not..at least this is my opinion and my conclusion..

Surely, you can get your point across without having to be explicit. Just say the serrvice was not good and that you would not recomend her to someone else.

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Originally Posted by reaper12

This is an adult site covering adult material, I am just curious as to why some escorts are allowed to state that they don't want sexually explicit reviews? For me the most helpful reviews are the ones that state what the escort does or doesn't do. And I am not talking about writing a review with every graphic detail of what happened.

If you read the FAQ section it says that if a girl says she doesn't want explicit reviews then you can write something about bad service, but you can't say her blowjob was lacking. But, isn't that the information you are looking for in reviews. A girl might do a bad blowjob but do amazing doggy style that more than makes up for it. How do you get this information out if you can't say blowjob or doggy style? The mods screen every review, so all the abusive and over the top ones won't get through anyway.

So why in a site about sex and escorting can we not mention any sexual words?

Also escorts can respond to any review, so they can tell their side of things.

It really amazes me that escorts can firstly opt out of the review system and secondly ask that reviews don't mention anything explicit. Details which might actually help punters make choices.

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Not some escorts but ALL escorts advertising on this site are allowed to opt for not having explicit reviews.
Of course if you didn't get the services advertised you can state that on you review and not to recommend the lady.
Some reviewers are graphic, which in my opinion is not elegant at all. There is no reason to describe every position or every place in the house that you f... ed the lady.
Personally I have opted not to have explicit details on my reviews but not because I want to deceive anyone but it is not the kind of comment that i want to read about myself, i already know what and how we did it and I don't think it is necessary others to know.
A good and informative review is, in my opinion, the ones that let others to know how are the facilities (shower available, clean towels etc), location, how accurate are the pics, how smooth was the process to book the ladie and surely if all her favourites were provided.

If an escort wants to disallow explicit reviews then that's her choice. I don't know if it affects business, but I would guess not. Most of the time the guys who go into graphic detail are more interested in describing their own performance than the escort's.

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Originally Posted by El Gordo

Most of the time the guys who go into graphic detail are more interested in describing their own performance than the escort's.

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Bingo,
Westside.

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Originally Posted by reaper12

This is an adult site covering adult material, I am just curious as to why some escorts are allowed to state that they don't want sexually explicit reviews? For me the most helpful reviews are the ones that state what the escort does or doesn't do. And I am not talking about writing a review with every graphic detail of what happened.

If you read the FAQ section it says that if a girl says she doesn't want explicit reviews then you can write something about bad service, but you can't say her blowjob was lacking. But, isn't that the information you are looking for in reviews. A girl might do a bad blowjob but do amazing doggy style that more than makes up for it. How do you get this information out if you can't say blowjob or doggy style? The mods screen every review, so all the abusive and over the top ones won't get through anyway.

So why in a site about sex and escorting can we not mention any sexual words?

Also escorts can respond to any review, so they can tell their side of things.

It really amazes me that escorts can firstly opt out of the review system and secondly ask that reviews don't mention anything explicit. Details which might actually help punters make choices.

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All favourites are listed on profiles,I think it's clear enough what's available or not.If you're not happy with service provided you can state it in review,it's not necessary to be explicit about it.
I opted from them short while ago,for the same reasons as Jasmin.

Thanks for the replies. Jasmin, you highlighted some of my post, but, why did ignore the bit where I said there was no need for describing every graphic detail of what happened. Again, I just want to highlight, that I don't think there is any need for telling everyone every position you f..ked or every detail that happened. But, I don't know why you can't say if an escort does something really well. Or if she does something really badly.

Where I might have had a good time with a girl and want to give a good review, but, lets say there was something she did or didn't do that I know would really annoy some punters. Sure you can say not all favorites received, but, what favorites??

Shirley, yeah I understand, of course not all services are available for all people. I mean some clients might not have any hygiene standards or whatever. But, as I said last post, the escorts have a chance to reply if person posts a bad review and explain their side of things. And like you say, don't believe every detail you see, or every positive/negative review you see either :)

Again, thanks for the replies. Just more curious than anything. Like when an escort opts out of the explicit reviews, the favorites received section also goes. Or is this section also too explicit?

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Originally Posted by reaper12

Thanks for the replies. Jasmin, you highlighted some of my post, but, why did ignore the bit where I said there was no need for describing every graphic detail of what happened. Again, I just want to highlight, that I don't think there is any need for telling everyone every position you f..ked or every detail that happened. But, I don't know why you can't say if an escort does something really well. Or if she does something really badly.

Where I might have had a good time with a girl and want to give a good review, but, lets say there was something she did or didn't do that I know would really annoy some punters. Sure you can say not all favorites received, but, what favorites??

Shirley, yeah I understand, of course not all services are available for all people. I mean some clients might not have any hygiene standards or whatever. But, as I said last post, the escorts have a chance to reply if person posts a bad review and explain their side of things. And like you say, don't believe every detail you see, or every positive/negative review you see either :)

Again, thanks for the replies. Just more curious than anything. Like when an escort opts out of the explicit reviews, the favorites received section also goes. Or is this section also too explicit?

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well,it's true,we can reply the review,but most of the punters doesn't trust the escort's opinion..or if from 4 reviews-3 are redlight they may not even open them and pass over to another advertise..am I right?
and yes,4 sure,the favourites at the end of the review are too explicit same like the explicity of the comment..and anyway,u can write in a way that a punter understands almost exactly the + and the - of an escort without details,lil' bit of metaphory,and they will understand what u mean,also the admin won't remove any word from ur text..

I think Shirleyy is right and there are many ways to get your point across without being explicit. Personally, I do not lik explicit reviews whether they are good or bad.

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Originally Posted by herodotus

I think Shirleyy is right and there are many ways to get your point across without being explicit. Personally, I do not lik explicit reviews whether they are good or bad.

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yep..that's right..all u need <reaper12> it's a bit of elegance writing about imtimate act that includes your own person..:o

I know it's an adult oriented site, but Escorts are human beings too with family, friends, brothers, sisters etc. Not pieces of meat. If they choose not to allow explicit details then their choice should be respected. Personally I don't think you need explicit details to make an informed choice. For the most part you can tell if an Escort is for you by the general trend of their reviews, not just one exceptional review or one negative one.

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Originally Posted by Rodney69

I know it's an adult oriented site, but Escorts are human beings too with family, friends, brothers, sisters etc. Not pieces of meat. If they choose not to allow explicit details then their choice should be respected. Personally I don't think you need explicit details to make an informed choice. For the most part you can tell if an Escort is for you by the general trend of their reviews, not just one exceptional review or one negative one.

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that's my point!!! that's soo right sayed!!!

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Originally Posted by Rodney69

I know it's an adult oriented site, but Escorts are human beings too with family, friends, brothers, sisters etc. Not pieces of meat. If they choose not to allow explicit details then their choice should be respected. Personally I don't think you need explicit details to make an informed choice. For the most part you can tell if an Escort is for you by the general trend of their reviews, not just one exceptional review or one negative one.

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lol, what? when did I say they were pieces of meat? I am not condoning been rude or treating the escorts badly or been disrespectful. I am talking about the fact that I am paying for a service and I am been told how I should write my review on that service. The services the escort provides are listed in her profile yet I can't use those terms when I am reviewing an escort. Instead I have to try and find a fancy way of saying the same thing.

And again, I am not talking about writing explicit reviews, detailing every single thing done. But I think even if an escort does not allow explicit reviews, the client should be allowed put in the favorites he has received, if he wants to. There is nothing explicit in this, it's just listing what the escort has already put down in her profile. For me it offers reassurance that the escort does do the favorites she has listed, also if she has extra services then you can see that as well.

Anyway, sorry if all this makes me sound like a bastard. I am not, but, just Rodney's post implied that I think escorts are pieces or meat, so I wanted to respond.

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Originally Posted by reaper12

lol, what? when did I say they were pieces of meat? I am not condoning been rude or treating the escorts badly or been disrespectful. I am talking about the fact that I am paying for a service and I am been told how I should write my review on that service. The services the escort provides are listed in her profile yet I can't use those terms when I am reviewing an escort. Instead I have to try and find a fancy way of saying the same thing.

And again, I am not talking about writing explicit reviews, detailing every single thing done. But I think even if an escort does not allow explicit reviews, the client should be allowed put in the favorites he has received, if he wants to. There is nothing explicit in this, it's just listing what the escort has already put down in her profile. For me it offers reassurance that the escort does do the favorites she has listed, also if she has extra services then you can see that as well.

Anyway, sorry if all this makes me sound like a bastard. I am not, but, just Rodney's post implied that I think escorts are pieces or meat, so I wanted to respond.

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but if <escort ireland> would not have this reviews section (as many other escorts websites), where would u put your "explicit good/bad experience" ????
most of the websites doesn't have a field report section,and ppl still trust and don't request info about anterior experience of someother punter with a particullary escort..

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Originally Posted by reaper12

lol, what? when did I say they were pieces of meat? I am not condoning been rude or treating the escorts badly or been disrespectful. I am talking about the fact that I am paying for a service and I am been told how I should write my review on that service. The services the escort provides are listed in her profile yet I can't use those terms when I am reviewing an escort. Instead I have to try and find a fancy way of saying the same thing.

And again, I am not talking about writing explicit reviews, detailing every single thing done. But I think even if an escort does not allow explicit reviews, the client should be allowed put in the favorites he has received, if he wants to. There is nothing explicit in this, it's just listing what the escort has already put down in her profile. For me it offers reassurance that the escort does do the favorites she has listed, also if she has extra services then you can see that as well.

Anyway, sorry if all this makes me sound like a bastard. I am not, but, just Rodney's post implied that I think escorts are pieces or meat, so I wanted to respond.

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Hi Reaper12, Apologies if my comments came across as being directed at you. That was not my intention at all. They are just my opinion and not directed at anyone, but I can see how you would think that. Sorry about that.

I generally don't use explicit detail, but in one case I too had a review censored, at the time I believed I was using terms that the escort herself used when advertising on this forum, so thought it would be OK, but I respect the decision of the moderators and escort for it to be removed.

I would think that the more explicit and lewd the review is says more about the de-generate that wrote it than the escort. I stopped ticking the boxes while writing reviews some time ago as I feel its unnecessary. I agree with the escorts sentiments that posted on this thread.

Personally, I am surprised that so many escorts allow explicit reviews. (No criticism to those that do.)

I guess that many punters think that the reviews are like reviews of a car in a motoring mag or perhaps like those of random products on the amazon site.

Escort reviews are not like that. They are reviews of real people. Do you get performance reviews or assessments in your job? It's hard to be on the receiving end of one of those even if it turns out to be a good one. Reviews of escorts are like that only harder.

At work, you might get a review once or twice a year. The review stays private between you and your boss. How would you feel if the review was posted on the internet for the whole world to see forever? How about if you got a review once or twice a week?

That is what we expect escorts to put up with when they allow us to review them.

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Originally Posted by Rodney69

Hi Reaper12, Apologies if my comments came across as being directed at you. That was not my intention at all. They are just my opinion and not directed at anyone, but I can see how you would think that. Sorry about that.

I generally don't use explicit detail, but in one case I too had a review censored, at the time I believed I was using terms that the escort herself used when advertising on this forum, so thought it would be OK, but I respect the decision of the moderators and escort for it to be removed.

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It's ok, :) thanks for the response!!

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Originally Posted by sharkskin

Personally, I am surprised that so many escorts allow explicit reviews. (No criticism to those that do.)

I guess that many punters think that the reviews are like reviews of a car in a motoring mag or perhaps like those of random products on the amazon site.

Escort reviews are not like that. They are reviews of real people. Do you get performance reviews or assessments in your job? It's hard to be on the receiving end of one of those even if it turns out to be a good one. Reviews of escorts are like that only harder.

At work, you might get a review once or twice a year. The review stays private between you and your boss. How would you feel if the review was posted on the internet for the whole world to see forever? How about if you got a review once or twice a week?

That is what we expect escorts to put up with when they allow us to review them.

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here you have the problem with the line between a personal service and a business service both of which escorting is.

I don't think the comparison with an employment review is valid as it is usually discussed with the people to whom it is relevant.

There is plenty of scope for giving a useful positive/negative review without writing a reader's letter though I feel that services provided should be listed. It is probably not necessary to tick thsoe availed of but at the end of the day we are here for one thing...well maybe a few things...

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Originally Posted by Agnieszka

All favourites are listed on profiles,I think it's clear enough what's available or not.

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LOL Until you hand over the cash and ask for the desired service ;)

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Originally Posted by Agnieszka

All favourites are listed on profiles,I think it's clear enough what's available or not.

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Originally Posted by dannyboy10

LOL Until you hand over the cash and ask for the desired service ;)

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Believe it or not, this has never happened to me. I must be the luckiest punter on the planet.

I must be lucky too, never had a problem either.

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Originally Posted by El Gordo

Believe it or not, this has never happened to me. I must be the luckiest punter on the planet.

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It depends on the end that the escort operates. If for a cheaper price, which is based more on PSE and the client requires services more than the girl, then I guess it matters. We as escorts choose where to base ourselves accordingly.

However, on an adult site, not all adults need to know, they base their choice on a personality and trust to an extent.
I don't like explicit reviews it's not elegant, and my image is based on elegance and being discreet. Hardly discreet if someone
is then able to find in a review everything about me. It leaves nothing to the imagination for anyone who would like to meet me in the future. Sex starts in the head, imagination is sexy.

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Originally Posted by bellelulu

It depends on the end that the escort operates. If for a cheaper price, which is based more on PSE and the client requires services more than the girl, then I guess it matters. We as escorts choose where to base ourselves accordingly.

However, on an adult site, not all adults need to know, they base their choice on a personality and trust to an extent.
I don't like explicit reviews it's not elegant, and my image is based on elegance and being discreet. Hardly discreet if someone
is then able to find in a review everything about me. It leaves nothing to the imagination for anyone who would like to meet me in the future. Sex starts in the head, imagination is sexy.

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well said as respectful punter all i need to know is what services a escort offers,as for adults here not all posters are,liked your point of view .lol dr love;

true need to know whats the menu before you shelve out your casn

IMO, it's not necessary to give gynicological details, but I do appreciate knowing if the lady in question charges extra for her services or doesn't provide those services at all.

Still, if I read a review consisting of "we hugged and I went home afterwards", I'd lol.

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Originally Posted by BruceAlmighty

IMO, it's not necessary to give gynicological details, but I do appreciate knowing if the lady in question charges extra for her services or doesn't provide those services at all.

Still, if I read a review consisting of "we hugged and I went home afterwards", I'd lol.

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yes,u r right,but I think best way to know if an escort charges extras and 4 what service, is calling and talking with her,not reading a previous review,as I can say that many reviews are fake or overreacted in a good or bad way..