How would you react if a client asked if you were working of your own free will?

Obviously this industry is not without its problems.

If a well-meaning client asked you if you were sure you had chosen to work as an escort, would you be offended? Would it ruin the mood of the appointment?

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Originally Posted by Parrot

Obviously this industry is not without its problems.

If a well-meaning client asked you if you were sure you had chosen to work as an escort, would you be offended? Would it ruin the mood of the appointment?

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Yes it would ruin the mood of the booking. For me it would imply that you felt that I was being fake and putting on a mask for you and that would make me feel that we were not gelling and uncomfortable. On the other hand, if I really wasn't working of my own free will, then I'm not going to tell you that, because it could get me into trouble and I don't want that either. You might also want to cancel the booking and not pay me.

I would also wonder who you thought you were asking me if I am 'sure' I have chosen to do this work. I mean what exactly does that mean? Do I not know my own mind?

Maybe better to ask someone if they are happy if you are concerned. You could also find that an Escort maybe upset about another aspect of their life and if they are not happy it could be something totally unrelated.

Then again... it could just be that you have bad breath and she is finding it hard to not grimace when you get too close (not you personally, but who ever is asking).

If he was holding a micro phone to my face it would ruin the mood but otherwise id be happy to explain why I do my job to someone who really just wants to make sure im not being forced to do it. My whole attitude from arrival to room and start of appointment would not give my client concern to ask that question tho. Xx

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Originally Posted by Parrot

Obviously this industry is not without its problems.

If a well-meaning client asked you if you were sure you had chosen to work as an escort, would you be offended? Would it ruin the mood of the appointment?

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You could leave it till the end of the appointment and then ask

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Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

Yes it would ruin the mood of the booking. For me it would imply that you felt that I was being fake and putting on a mask for you and that would make me feel that we were not gelling and uncomfortable.

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Let's say you knew it was not that, more like it was a policy of saying that to every escort before starting.

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Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

On the other hand, if I really wasn't working of my own free will, then I'm not going to tell you that, because it could get me into trouble and I don't want that either. You might also want to cancel the booking and not pay me.

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Yeah. Have considered that, but it's a separate issue. I'm asking would the escort be upset at the question.

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Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

I would also wonder who you thought you were asking me if I am 'sure' I have chosen to do this work. I mean what exactly does that mean? Do I not know my own mind?

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It means that you had chosen to do it, not someone else had made that decision for you.

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Originally Posted by HairyPotter

You could leave it till the end of the appointment and then ask

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What would be the point of that? I'm not asking for curiosity, I'm asking because I want to avoid raping someone.

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Originally Posted by Parrot

Obviously this industry is not without its problems.

If a well-meaning client asked you if you were sure you had chosen to work as an escort, would you be offended? Would it ruin the mood of the appointment?

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I would say none of us are working of our own free will. It's all about paying some sort of bill no matter what line of work we are in.

Posted the same reply several tines but had to write this to fill the blank

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Originally Posted by Parrot

Obviously this industry is not without its problems.

If a well-meaning client asked you if you were sure you had chosen to work as an escort, would you be offended? Would it ruin the mood of the appointment?

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Yes it would ruin the mood for me AND it HAS in the past when someone asked me. He was wondering why I was making no aex noises, I had to point out that it's because he wasn't touching me :rolleyes: to he then asked if I was happy and if I was doing this of my own free will. I don't think he meant any harm but I do think he was completely stupid. Are we suppose to just lie there and make noise without any stimulation of any sort?

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Originally Posted by Kendra

Yes it would ruin the mood for me AND it HAS in the past when someone asked me. He was wondering why I was making no aex noises, I had to point out that it's because he wasn't touching me :rolleyes: to he then asked if I was happy and if I was doing this of my own free will. I don't think he meant any harm but I do think he was completely stupid. Are we suppose to just lie there and make noise without any stimulation of any sort?

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pfff.. yeah.... whats your point here.. :D