Oh how do I punt, let me count the ways!
In Amsterdam-An older gentlemen, came stayed two hours, then returned the next day, stayed two more hours and gave me a lovely present of a silver Bracelet that he himself made! I still have that piece. It is a lovely treasure. Not Bling, but special. I was so nervous, I pretended I was with my boyfriend, and everything was fine.
In Ireland-A really Nervous gentleman, I don't know who was more scared him or me? :) I was paranoid, and he was too! It made for a comedy sketch. He was expecting me to not be the girl in the pictures, and I was expecting the police! Ah the fond memories of yesteryear.
In Dubai-A German gentleman! quite short and wanted domination!
In Brussels-A truly delicious gentleman, OMG he was tall, good looking, and well hung, polished English accent, I swear something out of a bond film! I Have to admit, I thoroughly enjoyed myself!:D
In Belfast- A Very nice older gentleman, very sweet, and pleasant, put me at ease and I did the same for him. Then every gentlemen after him's dick got larger! And his wasn't small! I at one point was beginning to wonder what the hell they feeding those Northern Boys! Let's just say the last one was a bit of a stretch! :D
Nervous? Me???? wellllll yesssss!!!
Well QP, I think that both parties are nervous, first timers and experienced client\ladies.
Because you just never know until the actual booking is over, just what will happen.
Thats why its probably best to go back to a lady, as you know each other a little better then and most of the tension will be off.
I would imagine the ladies are wondering if the client is going to be trouble and the client is wondering if their time is going to be up any minute or if the lady is will actually do all that is in their profile.
(As a side note, my first punt was funny because like a fool, i could only think of getting as many positions in as possible - so even when I could tell she was enjoying it - i would change and try something else, usually less effective!!)
Of course it depends on the lady also, the best ones (sigh - Alexi D), put you at your ease immediately, and as a client I try and do likewise.
Normally I am quite a dominant person but with an escort, I basically back off and give all the power to the lady, let her dictate and go with her flow.
One lady I was with, would just say "I am not into that", if I asked to go down on her for example, so no problem I think.
I think if you ever actually met a lady for real, you would see she is a little nervous, and very human. Like you I had totally the wrong idea about escorts, but every one of my "five" punts has been with a very real person and not some cold robot. I have the utmost respect as it must take a lot of guts and I am sure there are times when they just want a day off or prey for an easy going gent as their last of the day.
Only once have I bolted. I couldnt get into Dublin, so I tried a local agency who directed me to a hotel. When the door opened there was a very young and frightened looking girl, so I just said I had the wrong room and legged it!
So there you go, my whole punting life story!