One way...or the other......

Well everyone, I was contemplating my attitude towards my own punting experiences and found myself feeling a wee bit hollow towards the whole thing.
I generally dont suffer any guilt after a meet up however there is a certain inadaquency I feel, due to I think is the monetary side of how I get satisfaction from a visit to a working lady.
I know I could adopt the view that you pay for "IT" one way or the other but I wonder do any other like minded men ever get these feelings.
I suppose we guys can validate what we do when on the other hand you might hit the town on a saturday night with your mates, eye up some girls, probabaly have to get quite tipsy before having the balls to chat a girl up and then start putting in the hard work of trying not to come across as a complete dick who is not really listening to what she may have to say but is just plotting a strategy to some how convince her that its a good idea to leave her friends and come back to mine and have, lets face it ,bad drunken 5min sex......
And so I think for me, that the punting side of things probably trumps the old fashioned, more morally acceptable approach. At least I can last a bit longer....costs about the same as a night out if not cheaper and I go home happy and she has another positive review posted.......so thats all I wanted to say, I would be interested to hear any views on the matter. Peace out!

jeez, guess im the only guy with these thoughs so

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Originally Posted by rebelman79

Well everyone, I was contemplating my attitude towards my own punting experiences and found myself feeling a wee bit hollow towards the whole thing.
I generally dont suffer any guilt after a meet up however there is a certain inadaquency I feel, due to I think is the monetary side of how I get satisfaction from a visit to a working lady.
I know I could adopt the view that you pay for "IT" one way or the other but I wonder do any other like minded men ever get these feelings.
I suppose we guys can validate what we do when on the other hand you might hit the town on a saturday night with your mates, eye up some girls, probabaly have to get quite tipsy before having the balls to chat a girl up and then start putting in the hard work of trying not to come across as a complete dick who is not really listening to what she may have to say but is just plotting a strategy to some how convince her that its a good idea to leave her friends and come back to mine and have, lets face it ,bad drunken 5min sex......And so I think for me, that the punting side of things probably trumps the old fashioned, more morally acceptable approach. At least I can last a bit longer....costs about the same as a night out if not cheaper and I go home happy and she has another positive review posted.......so thats all I wanted to say, I would be interested to hear any views on the matter. Peace out!

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Ahh....modern romance.

We're thinking............

Hmmm.........:scratchchin:

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Originally Posted by luther

We're thinking............

Hmmm.........:scratchchin:

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Still thinking

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Originally Posted by fishermansoul

See this business of trying to chat up a woman in a club in order to have sex to her, that is what seems hollow and meaningless to me. I can't pretend anymore to be interested in what a attractive woman has to say just because she is pretty.

But I have needs, sexual needs, which just very rarely mesh with the women who I find interesting to talk to. I know many women who are supremely intelligent, talented, fascinating to talk to, but
a) they are not attractive sexually, or
b) they are attractive sexually but unavailable, or
c) their sexual appetite/ability/tastes is just not the equal of mine.

I just don't think most women want to have sex as often as men do. There are of course exceptions ...

The money thing doesn't bother me, I see it as a gamble. It could be rubbish, and they you leave feeling empty, with a sore wallet. Then again, you might leave feeling like a king.

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Thats the spirit .....

for me chatting up somebody is way too much hassle. I loathe the idea of having to be fake and all that in order to attract somebody. Where as meeting escorts is so much easier for me. Just simply hand over the money and i get to spend time with a lovely lady.

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Originally Posted by Rayden

for me chatting up somebody is way too much hassle. I loathe the idea of having to be fake and all that in order to attract somebody. Where as meeting escorts is so much easier for me. Just simply hand over the money and i get to spend time with a lovely lady.

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I agree,it takes out all the hassle if you are looking for a one-off.......

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Originally Posted by Rayden

I loathe the idea of having to be fake and all that in order to attract somebody.

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Maybe that's where you're going wrong. Why do you think you have to be fake in order to attract somebody???

Have some confidence, be yourself. I'm sure you're a nice guy. There's someone out there for everyone. I hope you find her...........:)

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Originally Posted by luther

Maybe that's where you're going wrong. Why do you think you have to be fake in order to attract somebody???

Have some confidence, be yourself. I'm sure you're a nice guy. There's someone out there for everyone. I hope you find her...........:)

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Well if he is only looking for a one night stand be as fake as you like,agree with what she says and shower her with complimants.....