I wouldnt forget you lads.............................

Right guys,
Your scrolling around good ole EI and there before your eyes is your dream girl. You make an app , clean up ,call in and you get along great, have a good time and really think that you two connected. Not your everyday escort.
Time goes on ( a.year ......maybe...remember??) , and you become a reg. you see her outside of her workplace and low and behold you two stop and talk. She is really into you.
Bottom line is this. Can you do it? Do you ask her out and put her job aside or are you all fine and dandy as long as your having a ride?? Can you maintain a relationship and respect her without interference of her job?

Sincerely,
Westside

hi westside, its me claudia...
i love the topic you mentioned up above... its a very good one..
ok well heres my side of it.. im a escort, and have meet a few very nice men..

but why are you puting it down to us being the problem as in being the escort?
its a job.. and most of us treat it as a job.. ok its not the nicest job in the world...
but it has to be done...

and lets just touch on the subject, that you have paid this girl....
what goes on in her head?
she's probably thinking ok im an escort but, heck he's after paying for sex with me, and know he's intrested in me... how many other escorts has he been with?
why does he pay for sex? and so whats the chip on his shoulder about me being an escort.. he of all people should be able to respect me to a certain degree..

in my opinion.. you should respect her.. dont try to be her saviour in disguise..
if you do get things going... let it be a very casual thing.. take her out.. and let her come back to you...let her know your intrested but play it VERY COOL..
You must also remember its her job dealing with the public.. and you know she could be like this with every man she has meet.. let her text/ring you if she really intrested you will soon know.
and if you really do get it off well toghter... then ask her to finish working... and then that hole line then works " well baby i think its time i supported you''.
im sorry i dont mean to sound harsh or rude.. but its my honest opinion.. ive also had a few relationships.. and at the end of the day.. it could be the worst thing you ever know... but you must remember DO NOT GET JEALOUS....that will make things much worse.. and at the end of the day she wants to be loved like the rest of us.... so she will save the best for you...
i hope it goes well..

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Originally Posted by claudia xox

hi westside, its me claudia...
i love the topic you mentioned up above... its a very good one..
ok well heres my side of it.. im a escort, and have meet a few very nice men..

but why are you puting it down to us being the problem as in being the escort?
its a job.. and most of us treat it as a job.. ok its not the nicest job in the world...
but it has to be done...

and lets just touch on the subject, that you have paid this girl....
what goes on in her head?
she's probably thinking ok im an escort but, heck he's after paying for sex with me, and know he's intrested in me... how many other escorts has he been with?
why does he pay for sex? and so whats the chip on his shoulder about me being an escort.. he of all people should be able to respect me to a certain degree..

in my opinion.. you should respect her.. dont try to be her saviour in disguise..
if you do get things going... let it be a very casual thing.. take her out.. and let her come back to you...let her know your intrested but play it VERY COOL..
You must also remember its her job dealing with the public.. and you know she could be like this with every man she has meet.. let her text/ring you if she really intrested you will soon know.
and if you really do get it off well toghter... then ask her to finish working... and then that hole line then works " well baby i think its time i supported you''.
im sorry i dont mean to sound harsh or rude.. but its my honest opinion.. ive also had a few relationships.. and at the end of the day.. it could be the worst thing you ever know... but you must remember DO NOT GET JEALOUS....that will make things much worse.. and at the end of the day she wants to be loved like the rest of us.... so she will save the best for you...
i hope it goes well..

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thanks for the advice love but its just a general question for the lads here. I havnt met any escort. Its just a hypothetical situation.
Since you mentioned it, there is one escort i would go out with but i never see here and to be honest im not too pushed about searching. I agree with what you say, having being there....three times.
The best thing a guy that is interested in an escort could do is stop hanging around her at work and dont ,,dont call into her. the best thing to say is that "i dont call to you or do buisiness bescause i respect you too mcuh". Always works.
Funny you mention it. The escort has to move out of her role. Come to think of it a lot (loads of women) havnt a clue how to attract the man they ,let alone keep him. They get too stand offish, and say things that literally scare a guy off.They think they know but to be honest most are clueless.
Hey you sound sweet yourself hun. Take it easy.

Hugs and Kisses,
West.

well done claudia - a quite excellent reply - shows this goon (westside) up wonderfully well -

unfortunately he is too stupid to fully appreciate your perfect logic -

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well done claudia - a quite excellent reply - shows this goon (westside) up wonderfully well -

unfortunately he is too stupid to fully appreciate your perfect logic -

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alechoran,how are they hanging? With a name like that who needs friends.Anyway i sincerely apoligise for striking a nerve with you. I had no idea you had trouble hitting it off with the ladies.Not to worry though lots of instructional booklets out there for you.
Yes it was an excellent reply to something totally different. Yes i am a stupid person, i come here to make my pathtetic life feel better and it does work like when i read your posts.
Anyway great to hear from you again and hey goodthings never change.once a numnut ,always a numnut.

Dumber than i look but smarter than you think,
Westside.

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i sincerely apoligise
Yes i am a stupid person, i come here to make my pathtetic life feel better


Dumber than i look ,
Westside.

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you said it kid !

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Originally Posted by alechoran

you said it kid !

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Thanks Granddad:)

Can i sit on yer lap?
Westside.

PS I have heard from reliable sources that surgeons in dublin have removed some of Ricosauves brains in order to make assholes for hobby horses. At least an appropriate use for them. I'll say you banal ole boy, thats rather jolly ole boyo.
Oh Whats another year....................Whats another year.........ohooooohhh baby.