SPARE a THOUGHT AS WE TOO ARE MOTHERS, DAUGHTERS, SISTERS, PARENTS,,WHY ARE WE BEING

Robbed, raped and treated like second class citizens. As usual when i post supporting escorts, i will get a backlash, but someting has to be said.


I know there are many of you good out there who have a fab time with us, but do you know what its like as a rule......perhaps not.

Its so tough. I do believe we are a benefit as much as we are here for money, we also have parents/children and grandchildren to support.we do bring massive smiles to a lot of you accross ireland.

We pay out a lot to tour and yes it is our choice, however , please do not think our job is easy.

Please keep in mind when calling us, to be polite and you will be treated the same way you treat us.

Girls have been raped and robbed repeatedly by irish men, yes you heard, irish men over the past few weeks and its a shock to us all, yet we know it is a miniscule minority, we do not deserve this in any way.

We know that many of you are genuine punters looking for genuine girls and this is not to make you feel bad in anyway, but you have to appreciate sometimes if we are guarded and security concious on initial conatct with you.

I know of 3/4 incidents recently where disgusting things have happened.


Once again, please understand what we go through and be dimplomatic and have manners(refernces )when you contact ladies.

It is now becoming increasingly dangerous for girls to operate here. True independents are exactly that, yet i hear of the girls being targeted more and more.


Be considerate and please understand if girls who ask security questions, as there is reasoning for it gents of ireland .

For once guys, can you not backlash me for my comments, i am only trying to express in writing something that i know is in a concern amongst many girls.i have posted this purely because i care about this industry as a whole. It needs to be cleaned up and back to the safe and discreet standard it used to be.

Rebecca(this post is not meant to be replied to. Purely observed)

It is a shame the increase of bad incidents in this job........purely became the most dangerous thing.......if drugs were 1st now this job is the most dangerous.......we can clearly understand we need to respect and be polite to ppl that ring us but why SOME ppl b4 they ring or get abusive towards a lady does not think the same b4........

how could you backlash somthing so horrible .ladys be safe respect to you all
the doc

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It is a shame the increase of bad incidents in this job........purely became the most dangerous thing.......if drugs were 1st now this job is the most dangerous.......we can clearly understand we need to respect and be polite to ppl that ring us but why SOME ppl b4 they ring or get abusive towards a lady does not think the same b4........

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dianna out of interest what ages would said assholes be .
fell my love dr love

NO AGE SELECTION DR LOVE.......ASSHOLES DO COME IN ALL AGES, I HAVE NOW HAD AFEW PMS OFF OF PEOPLE ON THESE BOARDS AND FAIR PLAY TO ALL of you. BAD MANNERS AND BEING RUDE DOES NOT CROSS BORDERS.THERE IS NOT A CATEGORY THAT SAID PEOPLE FIT INOTO. I WAS ONLY COMMENTING

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Originally Posted by dr love

dianna out of interest what ages would said assholes be .
fell my love dr love

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starting with 18 ending with 99.....

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Originally Posted by diannasweet

starting with 18 ending with 99.....

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speak for myself i complete respect every escort i have been with .and that quite a few.maybe its down to my mother.
and the way i was brought up.

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Originally Posted by dr love

speak for myself i complete respect every escort i have been with .and that quite a few.maybe its down to my mother.
and the way i was brought up.

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Most men do, unfortunately some don't. Equally unfortunately the types of men that don't will not be reading this.

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Most men do, unfortunately some don't. Equally unfortunately the types of men that don't will not be reading this.

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lucy as usual just one sentence to sum up said pricks.when are you droping by my way'
respect the doc;

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Originally Posted by english rebecca

It needs to be cleaned up and back to the safe and discreet standard it used to be.

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Is this true Rebecca???

Did shit like this not always exist or is it just getting worse???

Jees I hope it's not getting worse. A disgrace that it exists at all, before or now.........

Stay safe ladies............

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Is this true Rebecca???

Did shit like this not always exist or is it just getting worse???

Jees I hope it's not getting worse. A disgrace that it exists at all, before or now.........

Stay safe ladies............

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Always existed. But the recession has brought out the worst in some.

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Always existed. But the recession has brought out the worst in some.

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as a whole i hope the good out number the bad;stay safe lucy love your wit on boards.

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Always existed. But the recession has brought out the worst in some.

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Yep, sadly I kinda thought that.........

Same in lots of businesses and crime in general, but nothing can be as bad as the aforementioned crimes.........

Shamefull for a civilization.........

We had something like this recently, "Respect for Escorts on E-I".

It's only good manners to treat escorts with respect, I've always been polite and mannerly and friendly and so have all the escorts I've had the good fortune to meet. BUT, there are always arseholes. You meet them in the street, it's not just an escort thing, there are a lot of ignorant thugs around and unfortunately they can make life unpleasant for the people they encounter. I hope on the escort front that they are just a minority, so keep the heads up girls and I hope all your clients are gentlemen like Mousey.

To save me doing it again, I just lifted the post I did on that thread.

So Rebecca, I do not mind what security questions you ask. Politeness and civility come first in my book.

unfortunately you don`t need to be an escort to be raped, robbed or treated badly by a man...there is so many men out there who have no respect unforunately for women in many ways... it is a sad fact.. though many years ago women took this abuse without batting an eyelid... I am so glad things are changing and women are saying no more are we second class citzens...but also the sad fact there is as many men who get treated the same.. for some reason some members of the human race are freaks who get off in treating others so disrespectfully.. but sure as long as there is decent people in this world hopefully we can battle against these people.. so stay safe and be careful...xxxx

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Originally Posted by lucy chambers

Most men do, unfortunately some don't. Equally unfortunately the types of men that don't will not be reading this.

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You never know, but I certainly hope none of the people here are the ones doing this. But I think ER's post wasn't really directed to them anyway. It was more to help the rest of us to understand.

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Originally Posted by DONEGALANGEL

unfortunately you don`t need to be an escort to be raped, robbed or treated badly by a man...there is so many men out there who have no respect unforunately for women in many ways... it is a sad fact.. though many years ago women took this abuse without batting an eyelid... I am so glad things are changing and women are saying no more are we second class citzens...but also the sad fact there is as many men who get treated the same.. for some reason some members of the human race are freaks who get off in treating others so disrespectfully.. but sure as long as there is decent people in this world hopefully we can battle against these people.. so stay safe and be careful...xxxx

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Originally Posted by El Gordo

You never know, but I certainly hope none of the people here are the ones doing this. But I think ER's post wasn't really directed to them anyway. It was more to help the rest of us to understand.


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well said elgordo the sentiment of us all;

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Originally Posted by luther

Yep, sadly I kinda thought that.........

Same in lots of businesses and crime in general, but nothing can be as bad as the aforementioned crimes.........

Shamefull for a civilization.........

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Indeed, and IMO, things will only get worse and more and more pressure comes - no excuse, but it means even more safety must be important.

Sadly as always it is the terrible behaviour of the minority that affects the majority. It really makes me sick just reading about it. Recession may bring out the worst in people and drive them to do stupid things out of desperation for financial reasons, but there is absolutely no excuse for recession or other reasons to be the cause of abuse to women.

For all escorts I really do admire your bravery for the job you do and the happiness you bring. Take care

I find it all too easy to believe that escorts are being attacked and abused more often here. From what I've seen in the last couple of years the worst in Irish people is coming more to the surface. Road rage, illegal dumping, vandalism are things I'm getting used to seeing. I think it was always there and the problem of course is that these bastards always go for the soft target. I dread of reading or hearing on the news some day of a serious attack on an escort. When I see these posts I question my own conduct and whether I should be doing this at all. Looking at it objectively I think escorting is a very dangerous job to be in - the escorts are just too vunerable to these predators. Admittedly it is easy to forget at times that you are dealing with somebodys daughter. But I've never forgotten that I'm dealing with a human being who is sharing their most intimate self with me. I've noticed a few times that some escorts, usually the better ones, give a small piece of information about themselves. Whether this is deliberate or not I don't know, but I think it's a good way to remind a punter that an escort is a person. Of course, the dangerous types don't listen and don't care.
And it's pointless talking about bad laws forcing girls to work on their own. Escorts and punters alike have to examine their own lifes and decide whether to be involved or not. It might not be fair that we have decisions forced on us, but the laws won't change. Punters will always be afraid of being found out and the escorts will always be vunerable - to attacks, arrest, persecution and abuse. I wish it wasn't so - but it is.
For my own part , I've being spending too much and I'm finding the experience to be more of an anticlimax. I'm not saying I'm giving up altogether but I'm definitely cutting back and I'm going to stick to those escorts I've already seen - assuming they'll see me. But it won't take much to make me stop altogether. And I fear it is only a matter of time.

Well summed up Prickly. You expressed much better than I could have the exact thoughts I amhaving reading this post

Hi Rebecca
Can I just say how appalled and saddened I am read your post? It’s sickening and totally out of order. No way can any (and I won't call them men, that’s an insult to real men who behave with respect and dignity to women) individual who does this be tolerated. I have said in the past we punters are so lucky to meet some fabulous girls on this site, who share themselves with us in a manner of which we are privileged to experience. So keep well and safe and continue to screen your clients, all escorts well being should take priority over everything else. Thanks again to all escorts for been here for us punters and we punters must treat escorts accordingly with respect and punters.

Thanks for your honest and I am sure heartfelt post

I've only punted a few times, and I have been struck by just how vulnerable the escorts are. I have nothing but respect and admiration for what you do and your courage in putting yourselves on the line like this. Not only do you have to put up with people like me, but there are people out there who want to do you harm, to hurt and rob you. As far as I'm concerned ask as many security questions as you like, take all the precautions you need. Your safety is paramount, and if a punter doesn't understand this, then hang up - u don't need their business. I for one am one of the majority who appreciate what you do and respect you for who you are. Stay safe. xx