I'm not in a good place at the moment........

My immune system is low at the moment and it’s making me less tolerant and more irritable than I normally am. I haven’t been sleeping well and I’m constantly tired. Here just isn’t a good place for me to be at the moment, or not to be posting anyway. It isn’t fair to people who I may snap at while I’m here and feeling like this. This is not a strange feeling for me, and none of this is new to me, although nobody knows anything about this aspect of my life, not even my closet family or friends, I can at times be a very private person and I’ve managed to conceal all this from everybody except the people who need to know. I’m normally a very sociable, friendly out going person and held in high regard in my social, professional and business circles, and again, I’ve concealed this irritable side of my life at the moment from everybody, but something has changed for me here and I’m sorry to say, at the moment, it’s no longer the sanctuary, the safe haven or the escape for me that it once was. I use to come here to get away from everything else. Apart from the obvious business and information end of the site, I’ve always enjoyed the forum and have always enjoyed coming here, the banter, and helping people whenever I could, but it’s just not working for me at the moment……….

Again, I’m sorry to the people who may have required help from me recently, and to the people who were due congratulations etc……..

And again, thanks to those who posted or sent me PM’s of support etc., very much appreciated……….

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by luther

My immune system is low at the moment and it’s making me less tolerant and more irritable than I normally am. I haven’t been sleeping well and I’m constantly tired. Here just isn’t a good place for me to be at the moment, or not to be posting anyway. It isn’t fair to people who I may snap at while I’m here and feeling like this. This is not a strange feeling for me, and none of this is new to me, although nobody knows anything about this aspect of my life, not even my closet family or friends, I can at times be a very private person and I’ve managed to conceal all this from everybody except the people who need to know. I’m normally a very sociable, friendly out going person and held in high regard in my social, professional and business circles, and again, I’ve concealed this irritable side of my life at the moment from everybody, but something has changed for me here and I’m sorry to say, at the moment, it’s no longer the sanctuary, the safe haven or the escape for me that it once was. I use to come here to get away from everything else. Apart from the obvious business and information end of the site, I’ve always enjoyed the forum and have always enjoyed coming here, the banter, and helping people whenever I could, but it’s just not working for me at the moment……….

Again, I’m sorry to the people who may have required help from me recently, and to the people who were due congratulations etc……..

And again, thanks to those who posted or sent me PM’s of support etc., very much appreciated……….

---

the reason your getting the support is because of who you are luther...thats the reason you are not posting....a lot of us (even me lots of times)would post away and take it out on innocent ppl...you are a class above and i wish you well

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by luther

My immune system is low at the moment and it’s making me less tolerant and more irritable than I normally am. I haven’t been sleeping well and I’m constantly tired. Here just isn’t a good place for me to be at the moment, or not to be posting anyway. It isn’t fair to people who I may snap at while I’m here and feeling like this. This is not a strange feeling for me, and none of this is new to me, although nobody knows anything about this aspect of my life, not even my closet family or friends, I can at times be a very private person and I’ve managed to conceal all this from everybody except the people who need to know. I’m normally a very sociable, friendly out going person and held in high regard in my social, professional and business circles, and again, I’ve concealed this irritable side of my life at the moment from everybody, but something has changed for me here and I’m sorry to say, at the moment, it’s no longer the sanctuary, the safe haven or the escape for me that it once was. I use to come here to get away from everything else. Apart from the obvious business and information end of the site, I’ve always enjoyed the forum and have always enjoyed coming here, the banter, and helping people whenever I could, but it’s just not working for me at the moment……….

Again, I’m sorry to the people who may have required help from me recently, and to the people who were due congratulations etc……..

And again, thanks to those who posted or sent me PM’s of support etc., very much appreciated……….

---

Hey Luther, I'm really sorry to hear about your current situation. I hope things improve for you soon.
You put a lot of time into the site, from all angles and at all hours of the day and night. I don't know where you got the energy.:confused:
Life on the forum isn't quite the same without you, but you have enough on your plate so you shouldn't be worrying about members not being helped, congratulated or whatever. Look after yourself and hopefully see you back here in good health real soon.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by luther

My immune system is low at the moment and it’s making me less tolerant and more irritable than I normally am. I haven’t been sleeping well and I’m constantly tired. Here just isn’t a good place for me to be at the moment, or not to be posting anyway. It isn’t fair to people who I may snap at while I’m here and feeling like this. This is not a strange feeling for me, and none of this is new to me, although nobody knows anything about this aspect of my life, not even my closet family or friends, I can at times be a very private person and I’ve managed to conceal all this from everybody except the people who need to know. I’m normally a very sociable, friendly out going person and held in high regard in my social, professional and business circles, and again, I’ve concealed this irritable side of my life at the moment from everybody, but something has changed for me here and I’m sorry to say, at the moment, it’s no longer the sanctuary, the safe haven or the escape for me that it once was. I use to come here to get away from everything else. Apart from the obvious business and information end of the site, I’ve always enjoyed the forum and have always enjoyed coming here, the banter, and helping people whenever I could, but it’s just not working for me at the moment……….

Again, I’m sorry to the people who may have required help from me recently, and to the people who were due congratulations etc……..

And again, thanks to those who posted or sent me PM’s of support etc., very much appreciated……….

---

mind yourself best you can Luther. sleep is so essential to well being.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by luther

My immune system is low at the moment and it’s making me less tolerant and more irritable than I normally am. I haven’t been sleeping well and I’m constantly tired. Here just isn’t a good place for me to be at the moment, or not to be posting anyway. It isn’t fair to people who I may snap at while I’m here and feeling like this. This is not a strange feeling for me, and none of this is new to me, although nobody knows anything about this aspect of my life, not even my closet family or friends, I can at times be a very private person and I’ve managed to conceal all this from everybody except the people who need to know. I’m normally a very sociable, friendly out going person and held in high regard in my social, professional and business circles, and again, I’ve concealed this irritable side of my life at the moment from everybody, but something has changed for me here and I’m sorry to say, at the moment, it’s no longer the sanctuary, the safe haven or the escape for me that it once was. I use to come here to get away from everything else. Apart from the obvious business and information end of the site, I’ve always enjoyed the forum and have always enjoyed coming here, the banter, and helping people whenever I could, but it’s just not working for me at the moment……….

Again, I’m sorry to the people who may have required help from me recently, and to the people who were due congratulations etc……..

And again, thanks to those who posted or sent me PM’s of support etc., very much appreciated……….

---

Hey Luther,

Yourself and me may not see eye to eye at times but hope everything sorts out for you. If theres anything i can do pm me. The site will always be here and if you feel its not for you right now then dont feel bad about not being here. You can always come back later when things are fine with you which they will be.

Westside.

Maybe you have hypothyroidism' seaweed or iodine might help, but I'd recommend going to the GP. Take care:)

Luther,
take care of yourself and get well soon. P.

Get well soon. And once you're feeling better, you know where to find us. :)

When I'm in the dumps or sick I often come to the simple realisation that Life is a Bitch so there's nothing new about the crap I'm going through, it's often the simple things that make us feel better and it's that simple thought that often turns things around for me! This isn't just happening to me I realise, it happens to others also and nobody goes through life without a few bumps, keep that in mind luther. Sayings such as We all have our own crosses to bear didn't appear out of nowhere..

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by anon361

When I'm in the dumps or sick I often come to the simple realisation that Life is a Bitch so there's nothing new about the crap I'm going through, it's often the simple things that make us feel better and it's that simple thought that often turns things around for me! This isn't just happening to me I realise, it happens to others also and nobody goes through life without a few bumps, keep that in mind luther. Sayings such as We all have our own crosses to bear didn't appear out of nowhere..

---

great post Anon...

you are undoubtedly held in high regard here too give yourself as much time u need to get yourself right u are a proper gentleman & for me this website is not the same in your absence keep the chin up see u soon Luther..

Take care of yourself,your health is your wealth as they say....come back when you feel ready luther.

It is the measure of a man in how he lightens the burden of those with whom he comes into contact with, in this matter Luter I can attest that you have succeded in this task admirably, your humour and balanced approache to your function here is in my opinion one to be aspired to..many times in threads where there are contentious issues your presence has acted as a safety valve, and given time to those involved to reflect, I am speaking for myself here, you are of course missed.. and it is no surprise to me that you have a side that is not shown easily to others..in my experience those with the most intrigity carry the biggest burdens and are the most self critical..I do not know the circumstances but I would say this to you do not be too hard on yourself..I bet you are your hardest critic...look after yourself and take care my friend...

Poggo..............

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by luther

My immune system is low at the moment and it’s making me less tolerant and more irritable than I normally am. I haven’t been sleeping well and I’m constantly tired. Here just isn’t a good place for me to be at the moment, or not to be posting anyway. It isn’t fair to people who I may snap at while I’m here and feeling like this. This is not a strange feeling for me, and none of this is new to me, although nobody knows anything about this aspect of my life, not even my closet family or friends, I can at times be a very private person and I’ve managed to conceal all this from everybody except the people who need to know. I’m normally a very sociable, friendly out going person and held in high regard in my social, professional and business circles, and again, I’ve concealed this irritable side of my life at the moment from everybody, but something has changed for me here and I’m sorry to say, at the moment, it’s no longer the sanctuary, the safe haven or the escape for me that it once was. I use to come here to get away from everything else. Apart from the obvious business and information end of the site, I’ve always enjoyed the forum and have always enjoyed coming here, the banter, and helping people whenever I could, but it’s just not working for me at the moment……….

Again, I’m sorry to the people who may have required help from me recently, and to the people who were due congratulations etc……..

And again, thanks to those who posted or sent me PM’s of support etc., very much appreciated……….

---

hope you are better soon luther i just though about you the other day i haven't noticed you posting for a while i'm thinking of you mate hope your back in full form soon

All the best to you, Luther. Rest-up, feel better, and take care of yourself. Come back when you're ready, we'll all be looking forward to that day.

luther
we are not friends, but, please leave that a side, i hope you return to us in better state, i will hope you return to all of us as the sharp luther we all know and LOVE

A lot of people here miss you and wish you all the best,Luther and i am one of them!Take care of yourself dear!

kisses xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by poggo

It is the measure of a man in how he lightens the burden of those with whom he comes into contact with, in this matter Luter I can attest that you have succeded in this task admirably, your humour and balanced approache to your function here is in my opinion one to be aspired to..many times in threads where there are contentious issues your presence has acted as a safety valve, and given time to those involved to reflect, I am speaking for myself here, you are of course missed.. and it is no surprise to me that you have a side that is not shown easily to others..in my experience those with the most intrigity carry the biggest burdens and are the most self critical..I do not know the circumstances but I would say this to you do not be too hard on yourself..I bet you are your hardest critic...look after yourself and take care my friend...

Poggo..............

---

Jeeze Poggo you have taken the words out of my mouth but you have managed to say it so much more elequently.

Luther you are our rock of Sense and sensibility. Relax and recover man. You're presence is required to police these boards.

Miss ya bud.

Sweet Cookie
You know I miss you badly already. You have been precious poster for this website and hope to see you posting soon again. I cannot imagine being around here with knowing you might never post again. :( Hope all will be good with you hun, please take care and chin up. You are special person to me and to many people posting here, always remember about it.
Love ya , fell better :)
Your Sweetcheeks

Sorry to hear you are not feeling the best at the moment Luther. We all go through rough patches sometimes. You'll get through this one and come out the other side smiling. I hope you know how much we all adore you and are wishing you well. Look forward to having you back, but not a moment before you are ready. Pat xxx

Yes Luther,i know i dont be here much but i am aware of the amount of time you give E-I.Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by luther

My immune system is low at the moment and it’s making me less tolerant and more irritable than I normally am. I haven’t been sleeping well and I’m constantly tired. Here just isn’t a good place for me to be at the moment, or not to be posting anyway. It isn’t fair to people who I may snap at while I’m here and feeling like this. This is not a strange feeling for me, and none of this is new to me, although nobody knows anything about this aspect of my life, not even my closet family or friends, I can at times be a very private person and I’ve managed to conceal all this from everybody except the people who need to know. I’m normally a very sociable, friendly out going person and held in high regard in my social, professional and business circles, and again, I’ve concealed this irritable side of my life at the moment from everybody, but something has changed for me here and I’m sorry to say, at the moment, it’s no longer the sanctuary, the safe haven or the escape for me that it once was. I use to come here to get away from everything else. Apart from the obvious business and information end of the site, I’ve always enjoyed the forum and have always enjoyed coming here, the banter, and helping people whenever I could, but it’s just not working for me at the moment……….

Again, I’m sorry to the people who may have required help from me recently, and to the people who were due congratulations etc……..

And again, thanks to those who posted or sent me PM’s of support etc., very much appreciated……….

---

join the club

Good Luck Luther, Do whatever is best for yourself- Hope you get better soon. Take care Man.

Hope you can overcome this hun, I think everyone gets like this mentally at times, but if you are physically unwell also it is time for a break , get a little selfish, the most important things to give yourself now is "lots of me time".


xxx
Milfminx

Thank you all for the PM's and posts.........:kiss:

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by luther

Thank you all for the PM's and posts.........:kiss:

---

Hope you're feeling a bit better in the last few days Luther, hasn't beent he same here without you...