Postoned visits.

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29-04-15, 17:49
bollocks

Postoned visits.

One escort whom I see fairly often, and whom I get on great with, sometimes texts me, suggesting I postpone visit the next day.

This happened last sunday, arranged to meet at 10am the day before. I get up, shower, wash hair,, dress appropriately and text her to say I am on my way.....Then she texts me,,,she has an allergy and wants to postpone visit....This has happened on more than one sunday, and she could have texted me and told me in advance.....Last sunday I just told her to forget it.

I know damn well that she has arranged to see someone else, who probably showers her with money and gifts etc....One of them Banker/ wanker types or a member of the legal profession, who charges well for his knowledge.

I dont like postponed arrangements, and she hasnt rung me since, which she is well able to do when it suits her,
I've often had her text me 6 times a day when it suits her.

So I headed off for a day out and saved plenty of euros.

Hope I get sympathy from all my friends here
29-04-15, 18:40
simon2280

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

One escort whom I see fairly often, and whom I get on great with, sometimes texts me, suggesting I postpone visit the next day.

This happened last sunday, arranged to meet at 10am the day before. I get up, shower, wash hair,, dress appropriately and text her to say I am on my way.....Then she texts me,,,she has an allergy and wants to postpone visit....This has happened on more than one sunday, and she could have texted me and told me in advance.....Last sunday I just told her to forget it.

I know damn well that she has arranged to see someone else, who probably showers her with money and gifts etc....One of them Banker/ wanker types or a member of the legal profession, who charges well for his knowledge.

I dont like postponed arrangements, and she hasnt rung me since, which she is well able to do when it suits her,
I've often had her text me 6 times a day when it suits her.

So I headed off for a day out and saved plenty of euros.

Hope I get sympathy from all my friends here

Bollocks, confusing and irritating for You, As you said you did something Else, Good on You Move on and Forget this person, as I am sure you have already.
Personally for me Sunday Early is Spent exchanging Piss Takes with whoever on This Forum and seeing if any Regulars are Local
29-04-15, 18:51
xagerate

Probably best to just arrange on the day in question.
I find that's best
Take Sunday for example........I got up around 9am and rang a lady who said that 10am would be fine....she just had to rearrange something :shrug:
29-04-15, 18:53
bollocks

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irish Belle

10am appointment on a Sunday :eek::eek: That would mean getting up at 8.30am to prepare :shocked: Your lady might have had the best intentions to meet you so early but decided to have a lie on rather than working early on a weekend.....

She suggested the time, and I said i could even join her in bed. Guess she had appointments later in the day
29-04-15, 18:54
nonpareil

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irish Belle

10am appointment on a Sunday :eek::eek: That would mean getting up at 8.30am to prepare :shocked: Your lady might have had the best intentions to meet you so early but decided to have a lie on rather than working early on a weekend.....

10am on a Sunday,what a load of bollocks! she thought and turned around and went back to bed.
29-04-15, 18:55
bollocks

Quote:

Originally Posted by xagerate

Probably best to just arrange on the day in question.
I find that's best
Take Sunday for example........I got up around 9am and rang a lady who said that 10am would be fine....she just had to rearrange something :shrug:

I rearely make plans to see girls in advance, Prefer to see ladies when I have the urge, more or less there and then.
29-04-15, 19:48
bendmychasis

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

One escort whom I see fairly often, and whom I get on great with, sometimes texts me, suggesting I postpone visit the next day.

This happened last sunday, arranged to meet at 10am the day before. I get up, shower, wash hair,, dress appropriately and text her to say I am on my way.....Then she texts me,,,she has an allergy and wants to postpone visit....This has happened on more than one sunday, and she could have texted me and told me in advance.....Last sunday I just told her to forget it.

I know damn well that she has arranged to see someone else, who probably showers her with money and gifts etc....One of them Banker/ wanker types or a member of the legal profession, who charges well for his knowledge.

I dont like postponed arrangements, and she hasnt rung me since, which she is well able to do when it suits her,
I've often had her text me 6 times a day when it suits her.

So I headed off for a day out and saved plenty of euros.

Hope I get sympathy from all my friends here

personally if you are seeing her quite often she should have shown you respect when it suits her your cash is good enough fuck her move on plenty more out there
29-04-15, 19:56
hornylimerick

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

One escort whom I see fairly often, and whom I get on great with, sometimes texts me, suggesting I postpone visit the next day.

This happened last sunday, arranged to meet at 10am the day before. I get up, shower, wash hair,, dress appropriately and text her to say I am on my way.....Then she texts me,,,she has an allergy and wants to postpone visit....This has happened on more than one sunday, and she could have texted me and told me in advance.....Last sunday I just told her to forget it.

I know damn well that she has arranged to see someone else, who probably showers her with money and gifts etc....One of them Banker/ wanker types or a member of the legal profession, who charges well for his knowledge.

I dont like postponed arrangements, and she hasnt rung me since, which she is well able to do when it suits her,
I've often had her text me 6 times a day when it suits her.

So I headed off for a day out and saved plenty of euros.

Hope I get sympathy from all my friends here

no sympathy for being a stupid bollocks!!!

your being told nicely to move on, she's had enough of you and its that simple

dont ask why she's a woman,,,her and God only know why,,,you'll probably never know
29-04-15, 20:40
casman

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

One escort whom I see fairly often, and whom I get on great with, sometimes texts me, suggesting I postpone visit the next day.

This happened last sunday, arranged to meet at 10am the day before. I get up, shower, wash hair,, dress appropriately and text her to say I am on my way.....Then she texts me,,,she has an allergy and wants to postpone visit....This has happened on more than one sunday, and she could have texted me and told me in advance.....Last sunday I just told her to forget it.

I know damn well that she has arranged to see someone else, who probably showers her with money and gifts etc....One of them Banker/ wanker types or a member of the legal profession, who charges well for his knowledge.

I dont like postponed arrangements, and she hasnt rung me since, which she is well able to do when it suits her,
I've often had her text me 6 times a day when it suits her.

So I headed off for a day out and saved plenty of euros.

Hope I get sympathy from all my friends here

Good for you bollocks at 10 o clock sunday morning...me i'm just heading into mass at that time to confess my naughty sins :D
29-04-15, 21:34
bollocks

Quote:

Originally Posted by bendmychasis

personally if you are seeing her quite often she should have shown you respect when it suits her your cash is good enough fuck her move on plenty more out there

Thats what I felt, she has done well out of me in the last 4 years, ...She suggested the time ...as she was busy on the saturday. and I had met her the previous sunday at 11 am, and stayed for quite a while. I am waiting for her to text me,,,and if I am left waiting so be it.
29-04-15, 21:37
bollocks

Quote:

Originally Posted by hornylimerick

no sympathy for being a stupid bollocks!!!

your being told nicely to move on, she's had enough of you and its that simple

dont ask why she's a woman,,,her and God only know why,,,you'll probably never know

She doesnt want me to move on....she just wants my money when she is quiet, after all I am only down the road and can cum anytime,(she thinks)
29-04-15, 22:06
mexicanpete

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

One escort whom I see fairly often, and whom I get on great with, sometimes texts me, suggesting I postpone visit the next day.

This happened last sunday, arranged to meet at 10am the day before. I get up, shower, wash hair,, dress appropriately and text her to say I am on my way.....Then she texts me,,,she has an allergy and wants to postpone visit....This has happened on more than one sunday, and she could have texted me and told me in advance.....Last sunday I just told her to forget it.

I know damn well that she has arranged to see someone else, who probably showers her with money and gifts etc....One of them Banker/ wanker types or a member of the legal profession, who charges well for his knowledge.

I dont like postponed arrangements, and she hasnt rung me since, which she is well able to do when it suits her,
I've often had her text me 6 times a day when it suits her.

So I headed off for a day out and saved plenty of euros.

Hope I get sympathy from all my friends here

What you say is nonsense. If she was busy at 10am or sleeping on, she would have suggested a little later in the day. It sounds like she may have been unwell and wanted to postpone rather than disappointing you with a below par performance.

There are many afflictions like migraine, hay-fever etc. that are periodic. You wake up in the morning feeling lousy with no warning. You will know from experience that you will be in bad form for the day

In any event why would you think that your money is less welcome than someone else's??? I think that you have issues that you need to deal with

This is typical of the constant rubbish that I find here of always assuming the worst about escorts.
29-04-15, 22:18
bootboy

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

One escort whom I see fairly often, and whom I get on great with, sometimes texts me, suggesting I postpone visit the next day.

This happened last sunday, arranged to meet at 10am the day before. I get up, shower, wash hair,, dress appropriately and text her to say I am on my way.....Then she texts me,,,she has an allergy and wants to postpone visit....This has happened on more than one sunday, and she could have texted me and told me in advance.....Last sunday I just told her to forget it.

I know damn well that she has arranged to see someone else, who probably showers her with money and gifts etc....One of them Banker/ wanker types or a member of the legal profession, who charges well for his knowledge.

I dont like postponed arrangements, and she hasnt rung me since, which she is well able to do when it suits her,
I've often had her text me 6 times a day when it suits her.

So I headed off for a day out and saved plenty of euros.

Hope I get sympathy from all my friends here

Pull the other one or explain that sequence of calls ! :D
30-04-15, 03:36
bollocks

Quote:

Originally Posted by casman

Good for you bollocks at 10 o clock sunday morning...me i'm just heading into mass at that time to confess my naughty sins :D

And why not have sex before mass and get the confession out of the way real quick
30-04-15, 03:40
bollocks

Quote:

Originally Posted by bootboy

Pull the other one or explain that sequence of calls ! :D

Perhaps I should have said texts,,,,Presumably because she is waiting on customers, and is bored.............telling me how much and how well we get on together etc,,,,,,,,,and she likes being in my little car when she is doing messages etc dressed up in drab clothes.
30-04-15, 07:58
nonpareil

Quote:

Originally Posted by mexicanpete

What you say is nonsense. If she was busy at 10am or sleeping on, she would have suggested a little later in the day. It sounds like she may have been unwell and wanted to postpone rather than disappointing you with a below par performance.

There are many afflictions like migraine, hay-fever etc. that are periodic. You wake up in the morning feeling lousy with no warning. You will know from experience that you will be in bad form for the day

In any event why would you think that your money is less welcome than someone else's??? I think that you have issues that you need to deal with

This is typical of the constant rubbish that I find here of always assuming the worst about escorts.

Some escorts occasionally suffer from an overdose of clients (they' ve had enough),
and will need time to recover.
30-04-15, 10:35
mexicanpete

Quote:

Originally Posted by nonpareil

Some escorts occasionally suffer from an overdose of clients (they' ve had enough),
and will need time to recover.

At 10am in the morning it is more likely to be an overdose of bollocks :)
30-04-15, 13:15
mexicanpete

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

Perhaps I should have said texts,,,,Presumably because she is waiting on customers, and is bored.............telling me how much and how well we get on together etc,,,,,,,,,and she likes being in my little car when she is doing messages etc dressed up in drab clothes.

IMHO you are an idiot. Escorts have far more productive and pleasurable ways of passing their time than sending texts to people like you. The unfortunate woman saw you as a friend but you only saw her as a prostitute, only interested in money. I think that at this stage she realises exactly what you are and she is well shut of you.

You are too simple to understand the strong current of antipathy and negativity against women in general and escorts in particular that courses through these threads. How many times have you seen posters claim that escorts will not do anything except for money? They would deny the basic humanity of escorts whereby they could interact and form friendships like any other people.

There are two camps here. The bigger camp enjoy the ego boost of fucking and having their cocks sucked by an attractive woman. It makes them feel good about themselves but at the same time they feel small because they had to pay for it and this leads to resentment against the escorts. These people will never be anything but work for an escort and often hard work.

The smaller camp enjoy the company of women and relate to escorts as women rather than prostitutes. They do not see the escort as an object to be fucked but rather as an equal partner in a dance of pleasure. Women naturally reciprocate and are only too happy to put both body and soul into the encounter. This camp have no resentment in respect of paying for an escort’s time because they know that what they receive in return is priceless.

In my business, I meet many people who are difficult and tedious to interact with and I cannot wait to get out of their company. However, there are others that dealing with is a pleasure and one which I would often wish to prolong with a drink after business is concluded. I think that you would all relate to this in the context of your own business. Escorts are no different.

If a business friend calls me and says ’sorry, I have to cancel the social meeting we planned because something has come up at work, can we meet tomorrow instead’ I would say fine and think no more about it. I would not go loopy paranoid trying to attribute ridiculous ulterior motives for his postponement.

Many times, I have had escort friends ring me to reschedule an appointment because they have a good client coming to town who can only see them at that same time. I say ‘honey, no problem, I am happy to see you anytime’. I do not go into a hissy fit because my friend is looking after her business. In any event I know that when I do see her she will be even more attentive than usual :D

You have been unduly influenced by all the begrudgers and naysayers that post here. You did not treat the escort as a woman with due respect and consideration. She extended the hand of friendship to you but you only saw her as a prostitute to service you at your whim so when she had to postpone you got angry. I have no doubt that you got a major ego boost to get the texts from her but this only served to make you more angry that she did not jump when you called.
30-04-15, 13:50
The D Man

There are two camps here. The bigger camp enjoy the ego boost of fucking and having their cocks sucked by an attractive woman. It makes them feel good about themselves but at the same time they feel small because they had to pay for it and this leads to resentment against the escorts. These people will never be anything but work for an escort and often hard work.

The smaller camp enjoy the company of women and relate to escorts as women rather than prostitutes. They do not see the escort as an object to be fucked but rather as an equal partner in a dance of pleasure. Women naturally reciprocate and are only too happy to put both body and soul into the encounter. This camp have no resentment in respect of paying for an escort’s time because they know that what they receive in return is priceless.

An excellent piece of writing well done. Agree completely. Unfortunately it seems that the smaller camp is quite small.
30-04-15, 14:05
doodlebug

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

Thats what I felt, she has done well out of me in the last 4 years, ...She suggested the time ...as she was busy on the saturday. and I had met her the previous sunday at 11 am, and stayed for quite a while. I am waiting for her to text me,,,and if I am left waiting so be it.

Perhaps this explains the sudden cancellation, she is running a business, you are paying for her companionship and maybe she got annoyed at you staying for quite a while. If she wanted to go for lunch or just meet for a chat then she would have made the arrangement not you.
30-04-15, 18:15
bollocks

Quote:

Originally Posted by mexicanpete

At 10am in the morning it is more likely to be an overdose of bollocks :)

Thats orrible she said she had soar ayes.. an allergy and dat they wear read
30-04-15, 18:18
bollocks

Quote:

Originally Posted by mexicanpete

IMHO you are an idiot. Escorts have far more productive and pleasurable ways of passing their time than sending texts to people like you. The unfortunate woman saw you as a friend but you only saw her as a prostitute, only interested in money. I think that at this stage she realises exactly what you are and she is well shut of you.

You are too simple to understand the strong current of antipathy and negativity against women in general and escorts in particular that courses through these threads. How many times have you seen posters claim that escorts will not do anything except for money? They would deny the basic humanity of escorts whereby they could interact and form friendships like any other people.

There are two camps here. The bigger camp enjoy the ego boost of fucking and having their cocks sucked by an attractive woman. It makes them feel good about themselves but at the same time they feel small because they had to pay for it and this leads to resentment against the escorts. These people will never be anything but work for an escort and often hard work.

The smaller camp enjoy the company of women and relate to escorts as women rather than prostitutes. They do not see the escort as an object to be fucked but rather as an equal partner in a dance of pleasure. Women naturally reciprocate and are only too happy to put both body and soul into the encounter. This camp have no resentment in respect of paying for an escort’s time because they know that what they receive in return is priceless.

In my business, I meet many people who are difficult and tedious to interact with and I cannot wait to get out of their company. However, there are others that dealing with is a pleasure and one which I would often wish to prolong with a drink after business is concluded. I think that you would all relate to this in the context of your own business. Escorts are no different.

If a business friend calls me and says ’sorry, I have to cancel the social meeting we planned because something has come up at work, can we meet tomorrow instead’ I would say fine and think no more about it. I would not go loopy paranoid trying to attribute ridiculous ulterior motives for his postponement.

Many times, I have had escort friends ring me to reschedule an appointment because they have a good client coming to town who can only see them at that same time. I say ‘honey, no problem, I am happy to see you anytime’. I do not go into a hissy fit because my friend is looking after her business. In any event I know that when I do see her she will be even more attentive than usual :D

You have been unduly influenced by all the begrudgers and naysayers that post here. You did not treat the escort as a woman with due respect and consideration. She extended the hand of friendship to you but you only saw her as a prostitute to service you at your whim so when she had to postpone you got angry. I have no doubt that you got a major ego boost to get the texts from her but this only served to make you more angry that she did not jump when you called.

Thats an awful long reply,,,,,,,,,but thanx anyway.
30-04-15, 23:26
mexicanpete

Quote:

Originally Posted by bollocks

Thats orrible she said she had soar ayes.. an allergy and dat they wear read

So naturally, as she is an escort, she had to be lying through her teeth :o

Ring her, tell her that you were so looking forward to seeing her that when she had to postpone, you took it badly. Apologise for your hissy fit and ask her if she would be willing to see you again. Assuming that she is daft enough to say yes, go out and buy her a gift.

Flowers, perfume, chocolates etc. can be difficult to choose unless you know her tastes. At a rough guess I would say that you have never bothered to find out. A safe bet are some nice vanilla or sandalwood perfumed candles which she can enjoy and use in her work. Show that you are capable of appreciating her as a person and not just a vagina.