Regular lady gone.

The I am afraid I am a creature of habit
Before I found this site I was a once a week visitor to
Jessica Jessy and sometimes her friend Vanessa Vanny.
When she left and informed me about this site , it took a while and found
another regular once a week lady.
Then she up sticks and left and I eventually found another regular lady.
Now this lady and her friend have gone home and I find myself looking again for a regular lady.
The problem is most of the ladies tour on a regular basis.
My last regular lady toured but spent at least 40 weeks a year in Dublin.
So 2 questions.
Do a lot of clients have a regular once a week/ fortnight/ month lady,
And how do you cope if she tours
Secondly for the ladies , why do the majority of ladies tour and not stay put.
Surely if you had 30/40 once a week regulars it would be better all round for you to stay put.
I did visit other ladies on occasion esp when my regular lady toured , but much preferred the
familiarity of my regular lady , even though she regularly mixed it up and threw in some new moves
as she knew I really liked that.

Girlfriends are for the 12 weeks of the year that your regular is on tour.

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Originally Posted by happygolucky

The I am afraid I am a creature of habit
Before I found this site I was a once a week visitor to
Jessica Jessy and sometimes her friend Vanessa Vanny.
When she left and informed me about this site , it took a while and found
another regular once a week lady.
Then she up sticks and left and I eventually found another regular lady.
Now this lady and her friend have gone home and I find myself looking again for a regular lady.
The problem is most of the ladies tour on a regular basis.
My last regular lady toured but spent at least 40 weeks a year in Dublin.
So 2 questions.
Do a lot of clients have a regular once a week/ fortnight/ month lady,
And how do you cope if she tours
Secondly for the ladies , why do the majority of ladies tour and not stay put.
Surely if you had 30/40 once a week regulars it would be better all round for you to stay put.
I did visit other ladies on occasion esp when my regular lady toured , but much preferred the
familiarity of my regular lady , even though she regularly mixed it up and threw in some new moves
as she knew I really liked that.

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I have sex with the same woman once a week all year, she is called the wife. For the rest, I like diversity.

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Originally Posted by xagerate

Girlfriends are for the 12 weeks of the year that your regular is on tour.

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Those 12 weeks will cost me more than the 40 once a week visits to a regular

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Originally Posted by mexicanpete

I have sex with the same woman once a week all year, she is called the wife. For the rest, I like diversity.

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Tried that marraige lark for 25 yrs and never cheated.
She decided it wasn't for me and I haven't looked back since.

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Originally Posted by happygolucky

Tried that marraige lark for 25 yrs and never cheated.
She decided it wasn't for me and I haven't looked back since.

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That can happen my friend...that can happen

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Originally Posted by zilch

You need to find yaself 2 or 3 regular ladies to cover all angles if one of them is on tour.
Failing that find one who is permanently based in a suitable location. They do exist......

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Good suggestion , but I want ONE once a week regular lady
I only do 1 HR appointments so the one lady is ideal for me.

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Originally Posted by happygolucky

Those 12 weeks will cost me more than the 40 once a week visits to a regular

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At one time I had the wife, a girlfriend and my various escort friends. I calculated that every time I had sex with my wife cost me about €1,000, every time with my girlfriend about €500 and the escorts were about €200. I can tell you that the pleasure received was not related to the cost.

Come to think of it, Men are going to have to stop handing money over to their wives or they run the risk of being convicted of paying for sex.

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Originally Posted by mexicanpete

At one time I had the wife, a girlfriend and my various escort friends. I calculated that every time I had sex with my wife cost me about €1,000, every time with my girlfriend about €500 and the escorts were about €200. I can tell you that the pleasure received was not related to the cost.

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Exactly a once a week encounter for 200/250 is a whole lot cheaper.
I am not blowing my own trumpet( no pun intended) but I have never had
big problems attracting ladies or having sex on a regular basis in Civvy street.
At this time of my little fe I just find visiting Escorts suits me perfectly.

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Originally Posted by happygolucky

Those 12 weeks will cost me more than the 40 once a week visits to a regular

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If that's true you're spoiling her, treat her a little meaner and you'll find she's a lot keener !! and you'll be able to make more the 40 visits you make now !!!

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Originally Posted by mexicanpete

Come to think of it, Men are going to have to stop handing money over to their wives or they run the risk of being convicted of paying for sex.

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Pete! That Happens here already, Guys are in Prison, Because Other Jealous and Frustrated So-called Female advise Wife's, to ask Hubby for more money, if he refuses, Say he is being cruel and violent. Female Briefs and Female Judges will always Give the wife Support they can, Barring Orders and or Prison, Marriage has a bad Reputation thus the Growth of attending escorts for those moments of Intimate Pleasure

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Originally Posted by spur

Its great having a regular girl.I have been lucky to have had 2 since i joined here.The very first girl i seen i ended up seen for about 2 years.Also seen Vanesse lovely girl.When the first girl went home i thought i would never find any one else like her.Well i couldn't have been more wrong.My regular girl now i have been seeing for 3 years and is amazing.Every time i see her its different but always amazing.Don't worry you will find someone else just like i did and you did in the past.Until then have lots of fun trying to find that next amazing girl.

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Tell us More "Spur" U Prankster I know of many more who Entertained You:footinmouth::dance:

I am staying away from seeing same girls regularly as it can develop quickly into something you get very used to.

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Originally Posted by spur

Nothing wrong with that so long as you both keep it for what it is.But if you feel its becoming more, then you are right in what you are doing.

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Must be difficult to keep everything at arms length and treated like just another punter for so long .

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Originally Posted by bootboy

Must be difficult to keep everything at arms length and treated like just another punter for so long .

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Oh no fuck that.
I know exactly what I am doing and why I'm doing it.
It's a buisness transaction , pure and simple.
The lady gets money , I get time and companionship.
I am not one of those delusional fuckers you see on here , who think that
the lady has developed feelings for them.
Or worse still the Assholes who develop feelings of exclusitivity towards a lady.
It is what it is , and I know what it is.

yeah most ladys just come for a job and money and they do not care anything else.....
some fake moan and you believe tat they like you
some like it from 100 maybe 2 but is just a bussines you will never get right feeling but is ok this is escort service

not easy may you will lucky

And you may be unlucky and get taken for more than a ride

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Originally Posted by Irish Belle

You'd be surprised how many delusional guys are out there hunie. :bigeyes:

Some of us ladies are so good at what we do (modesty is my middle name:D) that guys forget it's a business transaction but instead delude themselves into thinking there's more to it and we have developed personal feelings towards them:rolleyes::banghead::banghead:

At the end of the day it's business and always will be. If guys want more, then dating sites, not escort sites is where they need to spend their time!!

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So. It's all your fault LOL

Seriously though — some guys prefer to see a different girl each time whereas others like to see the same girl regularly.

The problem with seeing the same girl regularly, apart form getting attached is that this is a business for them, it's not her life! She will inevitably finish up and either move on to pastures new or retire back to her home where her real friends and family reside!

There are guys on here who were punting 10 years ago — I doubt there are and escorts on here now who were working here 10 years ago.

The regular lady will only be regular for so long — nothing lasts forever and unfortunately for us punters who like a regular lady the time will come when we have to fine a new regular lady if we want to continue punting.

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Originally Posted by Petros

So. It's all your fault LOL

Seriously though — some guys prefer to see a different girl each time whereas others like to see the same girl regularly.

The problem with seeing the same girl regularly, apart form getting attached is that this is a business for them, it's not her life! She will inevitably finish up and either move on to pastures new or retire back to her home where her real friends and family reside!

There are guys on here who were punting 10 years ago — I doubt there are and escorts on here now who were working here 10 years ago.

The regular lady will only be regular for so long — nothing lasts forever and unfortunately for us punters who like a regular lady the time will come when we have to fine a new regular lady if we want to continue punting.

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Very true, but what I have experienced in the short time I have indulged in the escort world is that the talented girls can get you off the first time you go for a date whereas the others are not so good at all :)

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Originally Posted by KevinACE

Very true, but what I have experienced in the short time I have indulged in the escort world is that the talented girls can get you off the first time you go for a date whereas the others are not so good at all :)

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its words like that that breed the delusion referred to earlier :o

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Originally Posted by bootboy

Must be difficult to keep everything at arms length and treated like just another punter for so long .

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'treated like another punter', gosh, it sounds like your experiences to date have not been great...

May I ask what your general 'treatment' of being a punter entails???

I find this a rather intresting comment.

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Originally Posted by Irish Belle

You'd be surprised how many delusional guys are out there hunie. :bigeyes:

Some of us ladies are so good at what we do (modesty is my middle name:D) that guys forget it's a business transaction but instead delude themselves into thinking there's more to it and we have developed personal feelings towards them:rolleyes::banghead::banghead:

At the end of the day it's business and always will be. If guys want more, then dating sites, not escort sites is where they need to spend their time!!

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Totally agree with you Belle, then you have to end the business transaction, because the guy doesn't know how to separate:

Sex+Pleasure+Business= Business

of

Sex+Pleasure+Business=Felling .

Is not rock Science , is simple . Business with $$$$, always will kept as business. ;)

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Originally Posted by spur

Its not difficult at all, in fact its easy.We both know what it is.

I am with Leigha can i ask what you mean treated like another punter?

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spoiler alert....

youve been warned...

and once more...

I think he means as a customer client rather than someone special which the deluded seem to feel :o