Making an appointment, and then arriving late thick!

Hey all, i don't know what you think of this but here,


a guy rang for an appointment for 12:10, then calls me shortly after half saying i'm near, where do i go. Ii said i'm sorry.. you didn't confirm and your late? It would have been fine if he called on the time and said i'm near. So now, he's off on a rant sending me texts.


I really do hate this sort of crap, and fed up with this sort of stuff.

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Originally Posted by IrishAoife

Hey all, i don't know what you think of this but here,


a guy rang for an appointment for 12:10, then calls me shortly after half saying i'm near, where do i go. Ii said i'm sorry.. you didn't confirm and your late? It would have been fine if he called on the time and said i'm near. So now, he's off on a rant sending me texts.


I really do hate this sort of crap, and fed up with this sort of stuff.

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He was late and didnt give you a heads up. Ignore the texts or hell if they are threatening maybe the police would like to see them.

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Originally Posted by Rayden

He was late and didnt give you a heads up. Ignore the texts or hell if they are threatening maybe the police would like to see them.

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I seem to just attract this kind of men!

Gets a tad bit annoying!

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Originally Posted by IrishAoife

I seem to just attract this kind of men!

Gets a tad bit annoying!

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You're not alone it seems Aoife.:( A number of escorts have posted similar stories over the past few days.

Sorry to hear that Aoife :( But as Rayden said, if these texts continue and are in anyway threatening, go to the cops.

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Originally Posted by Rayden

You're not alone it seems Aoife.:( A number of escorts have posted similar stories over the past few days.

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Come down to Limerick......;)

Thats crap Aoife! You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of shit! He's either an arrogant bastard or a total numbskull!
Sorry to hear you got treated like that. XX

Thank you lads, gentlemen.

Ah things are slowly getting worse.

Doing as this guy has and many other, shows no respect towards an escort.

Thanks again lads x

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Originally Posted by Rayden

Come down to Limerick......;)

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Don't you think you've disappointed enough girls (and guys) already? LOL. Come down to Limerick certainly Aoife, but Ray's just a pure time waster :p Avoid at all costs!!! :lmao:

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Originally Posted by Rayden

Come down to Limerick......;)

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I may be down this weekend sweetheart :)

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Originally Posted by IrishAoife

I seem to just attract this kind of men!

Gets a tad bit annoying!

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Sorry to hear you are being hassled but rest assured you are not alone - such behaviour seems to have become increasingly common of late.

I think perhaps guys are reading too much about how business is not as good as it was for escorts & consequently some of them are starting to think that they can behave any way they like & escorts will have to tolerate it (as they need the business more than ever). Well that's my theory anyway; in blunt economic terms some guys may have gotten it into their heads that it's now a buyer's market so they don't have to hide what totally ignorant inconsiderate jerks they really are.

Punctuality, like hygiene, manners, respect, and discretion are never optional for either party in this business.

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Originally Posted by ladiesman217

Don't you think you've disappointed enough girls (and guys) already? LOL. Come down to Limerick certainly Aoife, but Ray's just a pure time waster :p Avoid at all costs!!! :lmao:

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I guess I dont know when to quit.:D

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Originally Posted by Rayden

I guess I dont know when to quit.:D

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You can say that again me old chum... :p

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Originally Posted by Bodkin

Sorry to hear you are being hassled but rest assured you are not alone - such behaviour seems to have become increasingly common of late.

I think perhaps guys are reading too much about how business is not as good as it was for escorts & consequently some of them are starting to think that they can behave any way they like & escorts will have to tolerate it (as they need the business more than ever). Well that's my theory anyway; in blunt economic terms some guys may have gotten it into their heads that it's now a buyer's market so they don't have to hide what totally ignorant inconsiderate jerks they really are.

Punctuality, like hygiene, manners, respect, and discretion are never optional for either party in this business.

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Absolutely spot on Bodkin, It's just really unfair. I can't see how anyone would feel the need to be just such Fools! I mean i and many other escorts have had reveiws about arriving to the place and no answer or not answering phones but this is total Crap. Who would turn away 100 or 200 euro just a few foot steps away. Only purely for the reason i have stated. Arriving late or not confiming appointments. Which is just pointless. I have no time what so ever for this kind of behaviour and have ignored all that SHITE totally. So should every other escort.

In This day and age basic manners i thought, were taught in playschool no?

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Originally Posted by IrishAoife

In This day and age basic manners i thought, were taught in playschool no?

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You wouldnt think something like that would need to be said here.

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Originally Posted by IrishAoife

Absolutely spot on Bodkin, It's just really unfair. I can't see how anyone would feel the need to be just such Fools! I mean i and many other escorts have had reveiws about arriving to the place and no answer or not answering phones but this is total Crap. Who would turn away 100 or 200 euro just a few foot steps away. Only purely for the reason i have stated. Arriving late or not confiming appointments. Which is just pointless. I have no time what so ever for this kind of behaviour and have ignored all that SHITE totally. So should every other escort.

In This day and age basic manners i thought, were taught in playschool no?

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You'd think that Aoife but certainly from what I've heard recently that's as far from the truth as you can get :indifferent: Just another fine example of how pathetic human society can be :( Manners cost nothing, but for some reason unknown to even God it is an alien concept to many people...

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Originally Posted by Rayden

You wouldnt think something like that would need to be said here.

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In general no Ray but you know as well as, if not better than I do, we get more than out fair share of spastic twats here :(

I bit of cop on in this industry would do wonders for many.

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Originally Posted by IrishAoife

I bit of cop on in this industry would do wonders for many.

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Indeed it would Aoife, not just in this industry but in society in general :) But sadly many people lack it...

How late was he Aoife? I really can't understand why guys can't either be on time or else just send a message saying they will be a little late and asking is that ok. You should not have to put up with abusive messages from this clown.

Come to the midlands Aoife? Plenty decent guys in Athlone. ;)

sadly it is not just in this industry that manners have gone out the window, but in general, it appears , sadly having made a mistake the man takes it upon himself to blame this lady for his mistake
this type of behaviour seems common place now in our country,
in the celtic tiger period,it was called playing hard ball in business, which in reality was another name for walking over people,
well, the tigers gone, but the behaviour is not .
sorry that you are going through this messing, but till we relearn manners i fear it will remain

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Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe

sure i have currently 6 that i know of guys that no matter were i am in the country they ring up all nice and book apointments and dont turn up they will then latter on in the day book another apointment and not turn up then they will do it the day after also
if i say to them sorry ive finnished work they will beg for apointment telling me there in *** for short time and really want to see me , and they dont turn up
they also ring and say oh i seen you last week and you were fantastic can i book apaointment , and then they dont show up

i just learnt to let them book and dont bother getting ready

really do think a few men have it out for me, or maybe there pimps of escorts

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quick question Kelly, would it not be better to save their numbers as "Do Not Answer 1, Do Not Answer 2, etc." that way you don't even have to pick up the phone when it rings?

Either that, or pretend to be Detective [Insertname] from nearest Garda station. Tell the person they have just called the phone of a murder victim and you need to take them in for questioning. Make up a mental story, claim that their phone is being traced etc. etc. Sure if you're not going to get any money out of them at least get a bit of enjoyment at their expense

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Originally Posted by monster_monster

quick question Kelly, would it not be better to save their numbers as "Do Not Answer 1, Do Not Answer 2, etc." that way you don't even have to pick up the phone when it rings?

Either that, or pretend to be Detective [Insertname] from nearest Garda station. Tell the person they have just called the phone of a murder victim and you need to take them in for questioning. Make up a mental story, claim that their phone is being traced etc. etc. Sure if you're not going to get any money out of them at least get a bit of enjoyment at their expense

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"hello?, legion of mary, sister anna speaking, how can i help you?":D:D:D:D:D

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Originally Posted by wanted the best 69

"hello?, legion of mary, sister anna speaking, how can i help you?":D:D:D:D:D

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Dublin City Morgue, you kill em, we chill em!!!!

IMHO Aoife I think you should take his next booking and when he arrives (late no doubt) have on you best Basque, Stockings, Killer Heals and beautifully made up face. Open the door with your best Irish smile ..........

and Kick him straight in the nuts!


CG

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Originally Posted by City Gent

IMHO Aoife I think you should take his next booking and when he arrives (late no doubt) have on you best Basque, Stockings, Killer Heals and beautifully made up face. Open the door with your best Irish smile ..........

and Kick him straight in the nuts!


CG

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or ,i sorry, were are closed for the day,:D:D:D
we re open at 10 o`clock tomorrow morning, try not to be late:D:D:D

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Originally Posted by monster_monster

Dublin City Morgue, you kill em, we chill em!!!!

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I would say that involves some effort so i think i'll give that one a miss!!

Well, next time he calls, i hope he can swim.. straight into the quays wth him, i don't work out of the docklands for nothing ;)


Lol x

There are lots of idiots around - sad to think that a guy gets a thrill out of making a booking he has no intention of keeping. I was once delayed for an appointment with a girl - stuck in traffic - I called and she couldn't have been nicer, saw her later that evening - manners cost so little yet make a huge impact.

I think many guys like to kid themselves that they are the only one we are going to see that day, so it doesnt matter if they stroll in an hour late.
If I havent had a call or text to let me know a client is running late, I give him ten mins leeway then give his appointment to someone else.
I agree with Kelly giving the known timewasters and no-shows a booking. I also just take their booking to humour them then forget about it.

profiteroles...

If he keeps sending you texts and making false appointments. Start texting and ringing him back in the middle of the night. Assuming most guys that see escorts are married. His wife will soon ask questions about late night phone calls.

Dear Ladies / Gents of EI,

These threads from the ladies are really worrying for the future industry.. There's only so much the girls will take before they pack their bags and not bother coming back! :(

At this point I am tired (by no way do I mean this in a negative towards the ladies) really tired of reading posts from girls complaining of threats, no shows, verbal and shockingly physical abuse from "Clients"!!!

If you have ever done any of the above you are one almighty prick!!

I am considering no more punting myself due to these types of threads continually as it is very off putting to think ladies endure these situations daily!!!


Yours Sincerely,

One helluva disappointed Irish Guy!

I have been late on three occasions...
Once, when my car was pulled over by the peelers, who clamped it for being untaxed (kinda shows where my priorities are when I'm punting away my car-tax money)
Once because of an insane lack of parking.
And once because I accidentally turned up at the wrong hotel (damn you Google-maps!)

Each time, I made sure to let the ladies know that I was fighting a losing battle with punctuality. And they were great about it. Sure, they took the piss out of me - but they were fully entitled to, and we had a good laugh about it.
A little bit of consideration goes a damned long way.