Originally Posted by
Quarterpoundher
Good for you.
What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. You are entitled to the Matrimonial home as from what you say he cheated on you first and people can dress it up any way they want and say seeing an escort is not cheating if emotion is not involved but they are codding themselves. I have sympathy for someone who is in a loveless marriage or who love’s their partner but the spark is gone etc a marriage should not be a life sentence with no hope of parole as things can change and go wrong and I can see how someone could get drawn into this and take the easy option and say nothing as in reality who would say to a partner they are off out to see an escort for the first time? It would be the best thing to do that and let the cards fall where they may but its easier said then done to just say they should end things first or come to some understanding especially if children are involved but at the end of the day they are betraying a commitment made and at some point the consequences will have to faced up to and be paid for if a partner finds out.
I have no sympathy however for people who are as far as a partner is aware are in a happy marriage and brag about their “conquests” and worry more about their punter number being compromised or getting a discount rather then give a seconds thought to the hell that a partner who knows or suspects they are being cheated on might be going through deciding should they put up with being treated like a mug and a skive for the sake of maintaining the pretence of a normal family life for the children's sake while he gets his oats or take the courageous step that BH is taking and securing her home and future rather then stand meekly by and let her husband piss their life savings away.
I admire your guts and take him to the cleaners…