Well said Mr Magoo.
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What im saying goes back to what i said before about what enables an escort to do her job. Women can have sex with a guy and thats all it is, just sex,nothing else. Most men find it difficult to do this despite what they might say or do. What makes a woman really like a guy is a mental connection, sort of mental click.This is what i mean with regards to the above.Maybe the woman simply doesnt feel that connection anymore and whats gives that connection is the small things that developed it and maintained it all along.
Westside.
True but look at the way women are. the guy has to move at the start, has to ask her out, has to have patience, she might push him away for a bit, but if he hangs in there and just is himself, something may blossom out of it. I cant see why this would change with a marraige. Regardless of the right and wrong, i still think its the guy that has to move to rebuild that connection i speak of.Of course you get marraiges made in hell where the ass falls out if the whole thing but im speaking about the spark missing.If the ass is gone out of things then best as you say , to move on.
Westside.
Not trying to be clever here, but imho if ure main reason for entering a marriage is to get regular sex i feel
the union would be doomed from the start. While a healthy ssex life is important, it is only a small component
of a good marriage and to place too much emphiasis on it would be disastorous.
I wonder how the good lady would feel if she knew the main reason for the marriage was sex
lads-i know its a cliche but it genuinely scares me how little men will ever understand
about the opposite sex and vice-versa. A neighbour that i fancy is just so difficult to read-
even women friends have said its odd. scared cos' if i get it wrong it will cost me
emotionally again and this time financially...