Curvaceous Kate
15-04-12, 09:01
In an attempt to educate myself if nothing else and assuming others may also be interested I'm surfing the net and will be putting up links to places that I have found interesting and helpful with regards to clients and disability. If you find any or know of any place that would be helpful from either the disabled or the Escort angle, please do add it.
Many thanks,
My first link of interest http://dating.com/escort-resources/being-a-disability-friendly-escort.php
Here is what it says...
For many disabled adults, their first and (sometimes) only sexual experiences occur with professional escorts and not with girlfriends, boyfriends, spouses or fun flings. In the United States, the 2000 census reported that there were 49.7 million people who had some level of disability. Many of these individuals find themselves cut off socially from others and denied basic social interactions, such as affection, intimacy and sex with others. Disability-friendly escorts perform a vital role in serving the needs of many disabled individuals' lives.
An escort who works with the disabled must take into account many things before taking on a disabled client. Several questions should be asked, which demonstrates the most essential aspect of the relationship: communication. While communication is important to any client/escort relationship, it becomes even more significant when the client is disabled. The escort needs to be properly prepared in order to make the appointment most enjoyable for his or her client. Some questions to ask ahead of time include:
•Mobility: Does the client have a mobility issue that requires special accessibility or provisions? Is he or she in a wheelchair? Need assistance to walk/undress/bathe/etc? Will stairs or narrow doorways prove to be a problem for the client?
•Tremors/Seizures: Is the client prone to regular/frequent tremors or seizures? Do certain activities bring seizures or tremors on (such as nervousness, arousal or orgasm)?
•Medication: Is the client taking any medication currently that might cause significant side effects? Does the client have with him or her any medication that is necessary in case of an emergency (such as heart attack or seizure)?
•Communication: Does the client have a particular way of communicating other than through the spoken word? Does he or she use a board or device? Is sign language a form of communication used? Can he or she hear?
•Senses: Are any of the client's senses impaired? Sense of touch, sight, hearing, etc? Which parts of the body are affected?
•Sexual experience: What is the level of sexual experience of the client? Is he or she a virgin? Is he or she relearning about sex? Is the client regularly sexually active?
•Medical Equipment: Is there specific medical equipment that the escort should be aware of? Does the client use a catheter and bag? Is an IV hooked up? Does the client utilize oxygen?
•Caregiver: Will the client be bringing along a caregiver or someone to assist him or her? If so, consider a place for them to wait during the appointment and a way to contact him or her when the appointment is concluded.
Many disabled individuals consider discretion and confidentiality of the utmost importance. It's important to find out if he or she lives in a care center, at home with relatives or is at home alone. A considerate escort tries to dress appropriately when visiting the client during an in call. Such as dressing conservatively as an insurance representative if visiting in the client's care facility or as a nurse when visiting a client at home with his or her parents.
Escorts should always show the client respect and kindness during the appointment. Sometimes all a client wishes is to obtain personal closeness and physical contact, which is very simple for an escort to provide. Communication about what the client wants and needs from the escort is paramount. A good escort should find out ahead of time what type of services the client wants prior to the appointment, if possible.
Clients commonly ask for assistance in masturbation, cuddling, massage or getting accustomed to their bodies as related to sex. Additionally, many individuals may be looking for a coach to help them attract potential partners, with advice about seduction, flirting, small talk and appearance.
While serving the disabled population is a niche that is fulfilling to serve, it may also result in problems for an escort. Some disabled clients become dependent or clingy and fall in love with their escort. After all, the escort may be the only person to have shown him or her kindness, intimacy and physical contact. Be prepared for the client to be extremely vulnerable and limit sessions if this becomes a problem.
Many thanks,
My first link of interest http://dating.com/escort-resources/being-a-disability-friendly-escort.php
Here is what it says...
For many disabled adults, their first and (sometimes) only sexual experiences occur with professional escorts and not with girlfriends, boyfriends, spouses or fun flings. In the United States, the 2000 census reported that there were 49.7 million people who had some level of disability. Many of these individuals find themselves cut off socially from others and denied basic social interactions, such as affection, intimacy and sex with others. Disability-friendly escorts perform a vital role in serving the needs of many disabled individuals' lives.
An escort who works with the disabled must take into account many things before taking on a disabled client. Several questions should be asked, which demonstrates the most essential aspect of the relationship: communication. While communication is important to any client/escort relationship, it becomes even more significant when the client is disabled. The escort needs to be properly prepared in order to make the appointment most enjoyable for his or her client. Some questions to ask ahead of time include:
•Mobility: Does the client have a mobility issue that requires special accessibility or provisions? Is he or she in a wheelchair? Need assistance to walk/undress/bathe/etc? Will stairs or narrow doorways prove to be a problem for the client?
•Tremors/Seizures: Is the client prone to regular/frequent tremors or seizures? Do certain activities bring seizures or tremors on (such as nervousness, arousal or orgasm)?
•Medication: Is the client taking any medication currently that might cause significant side effects? Does the client have with him or her any medication that is necessary in case of an emergency (such as heart attack or seizure)?
•Communication: Does the client have a particular way of communicating other than through the spoken word? Does he or she use a board or device? Is sign language a form of communication used? Can he or she hear?
•Senses: Are any of the client's senses impaired? Sense of touch, sight, hearing, etc? Which parts of the body are affected?
•Sexual experience: What is the level of sexual experience of the client? Is he or she a virgin? Is he or she relearning about sex? Is the client regularly sexually active?
•Medical Equipment: Is there specific medical equipment that the escort should be aware of? Does the client use a catheter and bag? Is an IV hooked up? Does the client utilize oxygen?
•Caregiver: Will the client be bringing along a caregiver or someone to assist him or her? If so, consider a place for them to wait during the appointment and a way to contact him or her when the appointment is concluded.
Many disabled individuals consider discretion and confidentiality of the utmost importance. It's important to find out if he or she lives in a care center, at home with relatives or is at home alone. A considerate escort tries to dress appropriately when visiting the client during an in call. Such as dressing conservatively as an insurance representative if visiting in the client's care facility or as a nurse when visiting a client at home with his or her parents.
Escorts should always show the client respect and kindness during the appointment. Sometimes all a client wishes is to obtain personal closeness and physical contact, which is very simple for an escort to provide. Communication about what the client wants and needs from the escort is paramount. A good escort should find out ahead of time what type of services the client wants prior to the appointment, if possible.
Clients commonly ask for assistance in masturbation, cuddling, massage or getting accustomed to their bodies as related to sex. Additionally, many individuals may be looking for a coach to help them attract potential partners, with advice about seduction, flirting, small talk and appearance.
While serving the disabled population is a niche that is fulfilling to serve, it may also result in problems for an escort. Some disabled clients become dependent or clingy and fall in love with their escort. After all, the escort may be the only person to have shown him or her kindness, intimacy and physical contact. Be prepared for the client to be extremely vulnerable and limit sessions if this becomes a problem.