View Full Version : Using E-I as a medium for sex work
It seems to me that E-I is probably the best medium in Ireland for ladies to advertise themselves. It is well supported,lots of interesting features, inter-action and advice from other escorts, the list goes on and on.
There is one aspect that puzzles me though is why some ladies register themselves as members but do not put their link to their member's page on their main advertising profile page. Other than wanting to be able to post completely independently of their escort name or being so ridiculously busy that they just dont have time to answer pms, what other reasons might ladies have for not wishing to use the pm medium ?
EnglishAlex
01-04-12, 13:49
It seems to me that E-I is probably the best medium in Ireland for ladies to advertise themselves. It is well supported,lots of interesting features, inter-action and advice from other escorts, the list goes on and on.
There is one aspect that puzzles me though is why some ladies register themselves as members but do not put their link to their member's page on their main advertising profile page. Other than wanting to be able to post completely independently of their escort name or being so ridiculously busy that they just dont have time to answer pms, what other reasons might ladies have for not wishing to use the pm medium ?
They might not have a good grasp of written English. They might not have decent internet access. They might wish to avoid lots of pm's from clients who like to talk about an appointment rather than actually making one.
They might not have a good grasp of written English. They might not have decent internet access. They might wish to avoid lots of pm's from clients who like to talk about an appointment rather than actually making one.
Thanks Alex.
In respect of pms from members ( ones that are not just obviously to say hello etc ) , roughly what percentage of these would an escort believe should ( as opposed to like ) turn into firm bookings ? Then what percentage in reality turn into actual bookings ?
EnglishAlex
04-04-12, 13:21
Thanks Alex.
In respect of pms from members ( ones that are not just obviously to say hello etc ) , roughly what percentage of these would an escort believe should ( as opposed to like ) turn into firm bookings ? Then what percentage in reality turn into actual bookings ?
Just seeing this now.
Why do you ask ksteve? Curiosity killed the cat dont ya know ;)
Thanks Alex.
In respect of pms from members ( ones that are not just obviously to say hello etc ) , roughly what percentage of these would an escort believe should ( as opposed to like ) turn into firm bookings ? Then what percentage in reality turn into actual bookings ?
The way I see it, all PM's should turn into bookings. Why else on earth would you contact a service provider? I dont know about other escorts but I am not here to make friends or to amuse myself by chatting to strangers.
In reality about 10pc turn into a booking. The rest are just wankers or guys who cannot manage their schedule very well.
EnglishAlex
04-04-12, 13:48
The rest are just wankers or guys who cannot manage their schedule very well.
Don't be forgetting the nosy old women (masquerading as men) and complete fantasists who even convince themselves they're going to turn up lol
EnglishAlex
04-04-12, 13:54
The way I see it, all PM's should turn into bookings. Why else on earth would you contact a service provider? I dont know about other escorts but I am not here to make friends or to amuse myself by chatting to strangers.
In reality about 10pc turn into a booking. The rest are just wankers or guys who cannot manage their schedule very well.
I enjoy getting pm's from some people so can't agree with this but can understand why some ladies feel the way you do. PM ping pong with someone who blatently wants to get you to talk about very personal things or to try and get some wank material pisses me off and I don't entertain it at all
Just seeing this now.
Why do you ask ksteve? Curiosity killed the cat dont ya know ;)
Well just look at Anna's post for the answer to that. It would appear that her view would be that her pics and info on her profile contains all the information required to allow the guy to make a booking.Nothing else could be relevant and therefore the pm system should only merely be used to set the time and date.!
The way I see it, all PM's should turn into bookings. Why else on earth would you contact a service provider? I dont know about other escorts but I am not here to make friends or to amuse myself by chatting to strangers.
In reality about 10pc turn into a booking. The rest are just wankers or guys who cannot manage their schedule very well.
Maybe because they are people as well and you would like their personal view on something or other ? What about being fellow members of the E-I community ?
EnglishAlex
04-04-12, 17:41
Thanks Alex.
In respect of pms from members ( ones that are not just obviously to say hello etc ) , roughly what percentage of these would an escort believe should ( as opposed to like ) turn into firm bookings ? Then what percentage in reality turn into actual bookings ?
Just seeing this now.
Why do you ask ksteve? Curiosity killed the cat dont ya know ;)
The way I see it, all PM's should turn into bookings. Why else on earth would you contact a service provider? I dont know about other escorts but I am not here to make friends or to amuse myself by chatting to strangers.
In reality about 10pc turn into a booking. The rest are just wankers or guys who cannot manage their schedule very well.
Well just look at Anna's post for the answer to that. It would appear that her view would be that her pics and info on her profile contains all the information required to allow the guy to make a booking.Nothing else could be relevant and therefore the pm system should only merely be used to set the time and date.!
No, Annas post didn't explain why you were asking such specific details about business that does not concern you. Care to share why you ask such detailed personal questions? Are you also at Uni writing a dissertation by any chance :p
I don't really see how it's any of my business why an escort prefers to take appointments one way rather than another. If I'm interested I'll find a way to contact her.
No, Annas post didn't explain why you were asking such specific details about business that does not concern you. Care to share why you ask such detailed personal questions? Are you also at Uni writing a dissertation by any chance :p
Ha,ha -- I know they facilitate 'mature students ' in Uni but I think accepting me would be tasking the piss !! :D
As regards the 'personal ' questions , you will note that I was cute enough to refer to only the view of 'an escort ' generally rather than you personally. However,please feel free to give your own personal stats on this, should you feel disposed to do so !;)
I don't really see how it's any of my business why an escort prefers to take appointments one way rather than another. If I'm interested I'll find a way to contact her.
Personally, I have a big preference for making bookings by pm for a variety of reasons. In many instances, although I like the profile of the lady I will not take any steps towards a booking as she is not registered as a member and I cannot pm her. Therefore, it is very much in my interests to identify the type of reception I will receive from the escort and her own immediate expectations following my first contact.
Anna has made it clear that she will only entertain enquiries provided that she is happy a booking is practically guaranteed.There may well be others who feel precisely the same way and if this is the case I would like to know that that is their stance as I would want to avoid wasting any of their time, if I had not already made the decision to actually book.
Personally, I have a big preference for making bookings by pm for a variety of reasons. In many instances, although I like the profile of the lady I will not take any steps towards a booking as she is not registered as a member and I cannot pm her. Therefore, it is very much in my interests to identify the type of reception I will receive from the escort and her own immediate expectations following my first contact.
Anna has made it clear that she will only entertain enquiries provided that she is happy a booking is practically guaranteed.There may well be others who feel precisely the same way and if this is the case I would like to know that that is their stance as I would want to avoid wasting any of their time, if I had not already made the decision to actually book.
That sounds very considerate of you.
I'm just curious to know, why would you contact an escort before you've made the decision to book? Unless you just need to clarify something regarding her services my imagination fails to provide me with reasons other than wasting time.
Of course there seem to be gentlemen out there, that seem to contact us just to get a feel of whether we are a suitable match which is pure assholism cause a)you cannot judge what shes gonna be like in person and b)if you have 2 or more brain cells you should be able to get the feel from her profile/website.
That sounds very considerate of you.
I'm just curious to know, why would you contact an escort before you've made the decision to book? Unless you just need to clarify something regarding her services my imagination fails to provide me with reasons other than wasting time.
Of course there seem to be gentlemen out there, that seem to contact us just to get a feel of whether we are a suitable match which is pure assholism cause a)you cannot judge what shes gonna be like in person and b)if you have 2 or more brain cells you should be able to get the feel from her profile/website.
Assholism !!! :D:D:D Fantastic,-- you are very special Anna !! :)
I will try and reply properly when I stop laughing --- it might be some time yet though!! :D
Assholism !!! :D:D:D Fantastic,-- you are very special Anna !! :)
I will try and reply properly when I stop laughing --- it might be some time yet though!! :D
Thanks, I shall use that the next time I get asked how come I charge 150.
I'm glad I could bemuse you so easily:) Have a good laugh, I hear it's healthy.
Maybe escorts need to become like solicitors and start billing for correspondence they have to process :)
That sounds very considerate of you.
I'm just curious to know, why would you contact an escort before you've made the decision to book? Unless you just need to clarify something regarding her services my imagination fails to provide me with reasons other than wasting time.
Of course there seem to be gentlemen out there, that seem to contact us just to get a feel of whether we are a suitable match which is pure assholism cause a)you cannot judge what shes gonna be like in person and b)if you have 2 or more brain cells you should be able to get the feel from her profile/website.
I like to think that I qualify on the ' 2 or more brain cells ' front, anyway I will indulge myself ! :D
Here are a few of my views;
* You are wrong to think that pre-booking communications will not give the guy any feel for what the lady is going to be like. Where I have had positive pre-booking exchanges with an escort, I cant think of any example where the lady has not been as nice in person when we met. If the lady is well motivated to pay you the respect of dealing with a few pre-booking pms then she is likely to treat you just as well when you meet.
* Some ladies ( for reasons only known to themselves ) actually put little or no detail about themselves in their profiles and it can be very difficult to get feel of them from the profile.( Indeed, some of these ladies subsequently have gone on to be very successful and well reviewed here .:)
*Very often you will get a good feel from pms as to whether or not the lady is truly independent. This is not always easy to determine from the profile , as many here have regularly stated.
* I may want to clarify with the lady whether she is happy meeting a fat, bald , ugly middle aged man like me. I dont want her 'throwing up ' when she opens the door ! :D ( others I might just spring it on them ! )
* I like to get some clarification of her type of incall. Is it in a 'well known ' building not very discreet, is it busy with other working girls, is she in a hotel etc. As an established member, I find very often that the lady will be comfortable to give me this info by pm.
* If she is Irish, I may want to know from her whether there will be any security or privacy issues. Dublin is a small place after all.
* Because of my personal situation, I may want to check with her how much notice of a booking she may require, what times fit best into that scenario for both her and me as I find it difficult to arrange bookings well in advance and I am anxious not to cancel. Therefore I tend to make bookings at only short notice and I need to understand how this can work with her.
These are just a few things that regularly pop, not all of them in all cases of course ! :)
Here are a few of my views;
Some of your points make sense, but I find this one puzzling:
*Very often you will get a good feel from pms as to whether or not the lady is truly independent. This is not always easy to determine from the profile , as many here have regularly stated.
You don't know who's answering your pm's, just as you don't know who wrote the profile text.
Some of your points make sense, but I find this one puzzling:
You don't know who's answering your pm's, just as you don't know who wrote the profile text.
Yes so true of course, that's why I only used the words 'often ' and 'feel'. :( Indeed, I have been banned and infracted for raising this problem before ! :mad:
On balance I think you do get a good feel but I am sure I have been fooled before and probably will be again.!!
Well, I might be wrong, but I think that if a guy needs to ask so many questions before a booking that it takes up several PM's, then he is an idiot and won't be getting any booking from me anyway:)
Well, I might be wrong, but I think that if a guy needs to ask so many questions before a booking that it takes up several PM's, then he is an idiot and won't be getting any booking from me anyway:)
As I said, it is unlikely that any guy will need to ask so many questions in respect of just the one booking but he may need to ask some ! :rolleyes:
Do you think that the info sought/mentioned is useless and irrelevant ?
Maybe he could cram all his questions into just one pm just for you. Would you answer one, just one miserable pm or phone call, without a guaranteed booking ?? :D
Why should an escort have to use PMs for bookings, have you seen some of the shite and ridiculousness that members post on their walls?
Although it does make my heart smile when I get a random PM.
Why should an escort have to use PMs for bookings, have you seen some of the shite and ridiculousness that members post on their walls?
Although it does make my heart smile when I get a random PM.
No escort is obliged to use pm for bookings ,although I am not aware of any registered ladies who opt to refuse this method , unlike say texting and land-line communication which they do refuse. Fortunately many ladies who put their member's page link on their profile actually give preference to bookings by pm.
Going back to the OP , what I was tryng to get a handle on was the reasons why some ladies who are registered members , who dont refuse to take bookings by pm but dont put their member's link on their profile ? :confused:
EnglishAlex
05-04-12, 07:21
No escort is obliged to use pm for bookings ,although I am not aware of any registered ladies who opt to refuse this method , unlike say texting and land-line communication which they do refuse. Fortunately many ladies who put their member's page link on their profile actually give preference to bookings by pm.
Going back to the OP , what I was tryng to get a handle on was the reasons why some ladies who are registered members , who dont refuse to take bookings by pm but dont put their member's link on their profile ? :confused:
Just to refresh your memory :)
They might not have a good grasp of written English. They might not have decent internet access. They might wish to avoid lots of pm's from clients who like to talk about an appointment rather than actually making one.
One more reason I've thought of. Sometimes ladies don't want to encourage bookings from board members. They find them to be nosy and often use the fact of being well known here to manipulate the situation: pushing for extra time, fishing for info and generally being nosy sods!
Personally I don't mind appointments with board members at all. If someone is taking the piss I couldn't give a shit who they are, I'll tell them to stop asking questions that are none of their business and if they're dragging their feet being reluctant to leave I remind them they can pay for extra time if they'd like to stay. If not no problem, just don't take the piss :)
The link to my message board profile isn't on my advert but it should be, so thanks for reminding me of that.
Were there any more questions at all? I'm sure there will be knowing you ksteve :D
Just to refresh your memory :)
Just to refresh yours too ! :)
Thanks Alex.
In respect of pms from members ( ones that are not just obviously to say hello etc ) , roughly what percentage of these would an escort believe should ( as opposed to like ) turn into firm bookings ? Then what percentage in reality turn into actual bookings ?
Generally speaking of course.! :D
mmmmmmm -- now which ones might they be Alex ??
Well I am one of them. I do see some board members but I'm picky. I definitely don't encourage it.
As you know.. :)
Well I am one of them. I do see some board members but I'm picky. I definitely don't encourage it.
As you know.. :)
Discretion Heather, discretion !! ;)
btw, where has my post gone ? The one you quoted in your post !! :confused:
i find alot of board members are time wasters
just to point out i said alot not all
i once had around i think it was 9 or 10 pm bookings during a week only one turned up
and the amount of ones send you constant pms suggesting they plann to vist asking question after question etc etc yet month, year, years later ive yet to see them
Well, thats a relief ----- I think !!:eek:
I must say I am surprised and disappointed at this. Were these firm and clear bookings that were broken ?
Discretion Heather, discretion !! ;)
btw, where has my post gone ? The one you quoted in your post !! :confused:
I don't know what happened to your post. I can't see it.
One thing though, regarding your questions on the forum. I am totally at a loss as to why you need to know all these things.
I don't know what happened to your post. I can't see it.
One thing though, regarding your questions on the forum. I am totally at a loss as to why you need to know all these things.
Were any of these questions/things you refer to contained in my ' lost ' post can you remember ?
Steve, you are an arsehole of the highest order. If a post is deleted, stop damn well trying to refer to it, ESPECIALLY when you have posted suggestive points about an escort's personal details :mad:
You are too damn nosey for your own good, so I suggest if you wish to continue with your 'hobby', you tone it down.