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ciara
05-03-11, 13:56
two customers in the last two days said they where asked to leave reviews!! one actually only signed up because he was specifically asked to, and the other said he was fairly friendy with an escort and she asked him to leave her two friends reviews !!!!!
is this normal , i would never dream of ASKING for one, either he doesnt or u get a pleasent surprise and he does!!!

look forward to reading ur opinions on this matter lads n ladies xxx

El Gordo
05-03-11, 14:00
It happens. Not often, but it happens. I've certainly never been asked by any lady to review her friends, however.

Ebony Amber
05-03-11, 14:01
I mentioned in another thread that the idea of asking to have a review left is cringe worthy! It almost makes me think that some escorts overperform soley to get a review which is madness.
As you say babe it's a nice surprise if you get one but no biggie if you don't. However I guess it's better than them writing bloody fake ones!
Amber xx

Ebony Amber
05-03-11, 14:02
It happens. Not often, but it happens. I've certainly never been asked by any lady to review her friends, however.

How do you feel when your asked?

dark-knight
05-03-11, 14:03
Ya getting a request for a review is common enough with new girls. I can understand why also, having a few reviews is better than having none. I have only reviewed twice and one of them I was asked for, but she deserved it we really clicked.

El Gordo
05-03-11, 14:05
How do you feel when your asked?

It's decidedly akward.

TheCelticDream
05-03-11, 14:07
yea i think girls asking for reviews is quite common, i dont really care if the provide a good service.

mileysweet
05-03-11, 15:00
I understand where you are coming from but then again its a contradiction....1 min someone make a thread over more punters to start put reviews another girls talking about clients being requested for review.....At times are clients that would like to put reviews but they do not now the importance of sharing their experience.....Also some clients wont bother with reviews unless they get request and after they might start sharing the time with every escort....

Lucy Chambers
05-03-11, 15:41
two customers in the last two days said they where asked to leave reviews!! one actually only signed up because he was specifically asked to, and the other said he was fairly friendy with an escort and she asked him to leave her two friends reviews !!!!!
is this normal , i would never dream of ASKING for one, either he doesnt or u get a pleasent surprise and he does!!!

look forward to reading ur opinions on this matter lads n ladies xxx

Oh, several guys leave reviews for their escorts friends. Some TR's. Absolute bollocks as they wouldn't like to go on a review that wasn't genuine but they don't mind leaving them.

mature abby
05-03-11, 15:54
whats TR s ???

vampirejackie
05-03-11, 15:56
whats TR s ???

Trusted reviewers :)

mileysweet
05-03-11, 15:56
whats TR s ???

Trusted Reviewers........

hornylimerick
05-03-11, 16:13
I have been asked a couple of times to leave reviews by girls i've seen,,, i really don't like being asked,,,no idea why as i would usually leave a review for any girl i see,,,but the ones that asked i just didn't bother,,,it's a bit rude to ask for a review IMO,,,maybe i'm wrong but people should not feel pressured into leaving reviews,,,i know the majority of punter dont leave reviews which i think is wrong too,,,if a girl sees 20 guys in a week they would be lucky to get a couple of reviews which i find astonishing as everyone reads reviews when choosing an escort,,, anyway if you ask for a review off me,,,your just not getting one,,, simple.

Fitzy
05-03-11, 16:18
I have never been asked to give a review but I do like to write a review I think it's the least we can do as we all spend quality time with these lovely woman.

mileysweet
05-03-11, 16:19
I have been asked a couple of times to leave reviews by girls i've seen,,, i really don't like being asked,,,no idea why as i would usually leave a review for any girl i see,,,but the ones that asked i just didn't bother,,,it's a bit rude to ask for a review IMO,,,maybe i'm wrong but people should not feel pressured into leaving reviews,,,i know the majority of punter dont leave reviews which i think is wrong too,,,if a girl sees 20 guys in a week they would be lucky to get a couple of reviews which i find astonishing as everyone reads reviews when choosing an escort,,, anyway if you ask for a review off me,,,your just not getting one,,, simple.

If i comeback from my retirement can i get a TR review from you???I will be nice and only ask you 10 times for it.....:D

hornylimerick
05-03-11, 16:21
If i comeback from my retirement can i get a TR review from you???I will be nice and only ask you 10 times for it.....:D

Fuck off miley!! i just told you NO! you would have got one if you hadn't asked,,, :p

(if you did come back and if i did see you)

Rachel Divine
05-03-11, 16:27
Its nothing wrong asking for reviews, its worst paying for it.....

DONEGALANGEL
05-03-11, 17:10
Its nothing wrong asking for reviews, its worst paying for it.....
sorry rachel but I dont know other girls opinions here so I can only talk for myself.. I do not think an escort should ask a client for reviews.. it sort of crosses the line a bit.. if a clent wishes to share his experience with the nation that should be his choice.. not the escorts.. so lets see the client feels after he left he never enjoyed the visit as much as he thought writes a negative review.. then the escort gives out.. but forgets to say she asked for the review.. a kiss on the cheek as the client is leaving oh by the way darling leave me a review.. real good finish for appointment.. lol..x

An don
05-03-11, 17:51
I've certainly never been asked by any lady to review her friends, however.

I think it would be worse though if you reviewed a lady on one profile and she dumps it , then has the cheek to ask you to review her again on her new profile.

TheCelticDream
05-03-11, 18:24
Oh, several guys leave reviews for their escorts friends. Some TR's. Absolute bollocks as they wouldn't like to go on a review that wasn't genuine but they don't mind leaving them.

yea im sure that kind of jazz happens a lot, i suppose u just got keep doing ur thing.

Morpheus
05-03-11, 18:39
two customers in the last two days said they where asked to leave reviews!! one actually only signed up because he was specifically asked to, and the other said he was fairly friendy with an escort and she asked him to leave her two friends reviews !!!!!
is this normal , i would never dream of ASKING for one, either he doesnt or u get a pleasent surprise and he does!!!

look forward to reading ur opinions on this matter lads n ladies xxx

Thanks for the thread Ciara.

I think there's a balance to this. Escorts shouldn't demand reviews and should never ask for a review to be left for another girl.

However, putting myself in a lady's shoes - if she's been told by a client how wonderful she was etc... then I think it might be ok for her to suggest that he put those compliments down in a review.

Thats actually how I started reviewing. I was seeing this lovely gorgeous young lady (mmm..getting distracted now...:p) - and I was telling how I was she had great reviews and that it influenced my choice in seeing her. She then casually mentioned that she hadn't had a review in awhile and I would be welcome to leave one. It was all very nonchalant and I didn't feel I was under any pressure to do so. I explained that I wasn't registered with E-I and hadn't been planning to leave reviews. She was nonplussed and very pleasant throughout inspite of what I'd said. However, after going home, I had a think about it and came to the conclusions that I still hold to (ie. that I really should leave a review everytime I see a new lady). I signed up the next day and left her a review.

I think in the ideal world, clients would all be gentleman and leave reviews. And escorts would all be ladies and not have to ask for one. Having said the world we live in is far from ideal, and this industry even worse!

As for you my darling Ciara - you never need to ask for a review. Your whole being demands that any guy in his right senses, who's had the privilege, wont be able to stop talking about you (and hence be unable to stop writing you a review).:D

Rodney69
05-03-11, 18:59
From my experience I don't think it happens that often. I've only been asked to leave a review once. And I did, but I was going to anyway. I don't think an escort should ask though

Sometimes it is hard to avoid, but to be honest I hate when the discussion about reviews comes up during an appointment. I don't think a client should really mention it either, certainly not at the start anyway.


And likewise just as it is not right for escorts to ask for reviews, I don't think a client should ask for references either. If and when you get them, then they should be a surprise, appreciated and accepted gratefully

dave1dave
05-03-11, 19:06
I've been asked if I was going to leave a review a few times. I'm not sure how I feel about it, a little uncomfortable but it all depends on how it's done.
The " So baby are you going to leave me a good review ?? " and then waiting for an answer. Is not a good idea in my opinion.

But at the end of an appointment if the escort just says " Don't forget to leave a review, if you want to. " Does no harm.

Amy Alison
05-03-11, 19:52
Guys, please don’t generalise. It’s perfectly fine not to ask for reviews and also perfectly fine if you do it in a nice and dignified way, more like a friendly informational chat, not as a demand or a cheeky request to get a positive one.

On one hand, you would like more guys to review. Are you aware that most of those guys would not do it unless someone takes the initiative to bring in discussion reviews?

There are a few nice reviewers on this site that have registered because I asked them to. There are others that did it because some other escorts nicely brought this into discussion. Any other escort that they have subsequently seen benefited of the innocent suggestion done by the first escort. I see it as a win-win situation.

Jrice
05-03-11, 19:56
I haven't been asked to leave a review but I agree with some of the posts above that it's important to leave them especially if you make your own decisions on which girl to call from reading the reviews.
I haven't left a review on a couple of occasions because we didn't 'click' & it wasn't really the girls fault so while I couldn't call the experience good, it wouldn't have seemed fault to leave a negative review.
I only left one negative review but it was because the experience was SO appalling although I realised after that some of the girls found it a bit off putting so I wouldn't leave something that explicit again.

Rodney69
05-03-11, 20:18
Guys, please don’t generalise. It’s perfectly fine not to ask for reviews and also perfectly fine if you do it in a nice and dignified way, more like a friendly informational chat, not as a demand or a cheeky request to get a positive one.

On one hand, you would like more guys to review. Are you aware that most of those guys would not do it unless someone takes the initiative to bring in discussion reviews?

There are a few nice reviewers on this site that have registered because I asked them to. There are others that did it because some other escorts nicely brought this into discussion. Any other escort that they have subsequently seen benefited of the innocent suggestion done by the first escort. I see it as a win-win situation.

Fair points Amy, but it's all down to how the conversation is approached. If it is dignified and at the end then yes I've no problem with that. But if it comes up at the start it is wrong.

Also for those that use the reviews to help make their choice, they should also post reviews to help others

Morpheus
05-03-11, 21:09
Guys, please don’t generalise. It’s perfectly fine not to ask for reviews and also perfectly fine if you do it in a nice and dignified way, more like a friendly informational chat, not as a demand or a cheeky request to get a positive one.

.

Thank you Amy. I agree completely. You have summarised it perfectly (better than my waffle above - which was intended to convey the same message!).:)

Its all in the manner of asking. And men being men, we do need prompting from time to time (or always!).:p

Blonde Alexa
07-03-11, 11:01
two customers in the last two days said they where asked to leave reviews!! one actually only signed up because he was specifically asked to, and the other said he was fairly friendy with an escort and she asked him to leave her two friends reviews !!!!!
is this normal , i would never dream of ASKING for one, either he doesnt or u get a pleasent surprise and he does!!!

look forward to reading ur opinions on this matter lads n ladies xxx

A stupid and emberassing thing to do..how can you ask someone to leave you a review, if the guys are feeling that they have something to say about you and to share that with the others...will do that anyway..but to ask someone to do that..and after all what is the purpose for this...those girls have to be very desperate..OMG

takemedrunkimhome
07-03-11, 11:17
two customers in the last two days said they where asked to leave reviews!! one actually only signed up because he was specifically asked to, and the other said he was fairly friendy with an escort and she asked him to leave her two friends reviews !!!!!
is this normal , i would never dream of ASKING for one, either he doesnt or u get a pleasent surprise and he does!!!

look forward to reading ur opinions on this matter lads n ladies xxx

I dont usually get involved in these discussions much but just saw the topic and it jogged a memory in me.

Over a year ago(long before I becae a TR) I was asked to leave a review by a lady on this site.
She asked me while I was with her in the hotel room, but I was really busy at work and forgot to leave it for a few days.
I then got a text asking did I really have a good time with her and if I did could I leave the review.
This was followed later by a pm(if not 2, I cant remember) asking me to leave a review.

At this point I felt a bit harassed and to make a long story short I never left the lady a review.
What is a real pity was that I had a great time with her and of I was left alone I am sure I would have left her a glowing review in a week or two or whenever I got the chance.

Was I being petty here? I always wondered if I was out of line not just writing the lady a review, but I just felt a bit under pressure to do it.

Victor Mature
07-03-11, 11:26
Hi

You should NEVER feel pressured into leaving a review!! Anyone that does this has very little respect for the client and may actually be compromising him!!

This is a loaded subject. I have been asked a few times to leave a review - in one case I had already done it! In other cases, I decide. I don't review them all and I NEVER give exact details on the appointment (including time and day) or make it too specific, for my personal protection.

I've no doubt that some escorts are very focused on their reviews. Why? Professional pride, a great way to attract business, more chance of meeting TRs who are generally a better class of client I'd say, and good advertising for what to expect on a visit.

I notice some escorts have over a hundred reviews and while they're obviously busy, I feel most of them MUST be asking clients for reviews.

I also notice that some escorts suddenly become popular on the Latest Reviews board, the latest example that springs to mind is Anny Mary, who also requested me as a Friend. Fair enough, I'm all for target marketing, but I hope all these reviews are genuine, they're all complimentary. I use this example as I won't be visiting Anny Mary as it happens, 'cos she doesn't do one or 2 things I usually ask for. We've discussed and she's cool with it - otherwise she seems like a lovely lady.

I'm actually getting a bit sceptical about the whole thing lately. There must be loads of punters getting good info. but not contributing themselves. I'm thinking of hanging up my boots (or punting equivalent!!) in more ways than one....

Vic

JessicaJessy
07-03-11, 12:33
I notice some escorts have over a hundred reviews and while they're obviously busy, I feel most of them MUST be asking clients for reviews.

Excuse me?!How could you be so sure about that?

lovethegirls
07-03-11, 12:39
Hi

You should NEVER feel pressured into leaving a review!! Anyone that does this has very little respect for the client and may actually be compromising him!!

This is a loaded subject. I have been asked a few times to leave a review - in one case I had already done it! In other cases, I decide. I don't review them all and I NEVER give exact details on the appointment (including time and day) or make it too specific, for my personal protection.

I've no doubt that some escorts are very focused on their reviews. Why? Professional pride, a great way to attract business, more chance of meeting TRs who are generally a better class of client I'd say, and good advertising for what to expect on a visit.

I notice some escorts have over a hundred reviews and while they're obviously busy, I feel most of them MUST be asking clients for reviews.

I also notice that some escorts suddenly become popular on the Latest Reviews board, the latest example that springs to mind is Anny Mary, who also requested me as a Friend. Fair enough, I'm all for target marketing, but I hope all these reviews are genuine, they're all complimentary. I use this example as I won't be visiting Anny Mary as it happens, 'cos she doesn't do one or 2 things I usually ask for. We've discussed and she's cool with it - otherwise she seems like a lovely lady.

I'm actually getting a bit sceptical about the whole thing lately. There must be loads of punters getting good info. but not contributing themselves. I'm thinking of hanging up my boots (or punting equivalent!!) in more ways than one....

Vic

I would say if a lady has over one hundred reviews they are damm good at what they do and would have no reason to ask for a review.

mellors
07-03-11, 12:55
I would say if a lady has over one hundred reviews they are damm good at what they do and would have no reason to ask for a review.

Quite agree, these girls don't need to ask, also some of the girls who build up reviews quickly do it because they really impress. However,I'm not niave enough to believe fake reviewing doesn't take place.
Only once been asked very politely and with no pressure if I'd consider leaving a review and that was in what I saw as exceptional circumstances. (girl in question had flown over from the UK only for a few days, timed it just as everyone got snowed in and couldn't answer calls on her UK mobile)

Rachel Divine
07-03-11, 15:53
Just wondering....
How did ye lads start to review the ladies? Is cause a lady ask for the review and explein to ye how to registered on E-I,or ye did it by ur own???
I would say its half half...

ThomasJ
07-03-11, 15:59
Just wondering....
How did ye lads start to review the ladies? Is cause a lady ask for the review and explein to ye how to registered on E-I,or ye did it by ur own???
I would say its half half...

Had been browsing this site for a while before I visited my first escort so I knew about the review system - decided that since I was using reviews to select an escort it was only fair that I leave reviews. Of all the escorts I have visited I have only once been asked to write a review.

lovethegirls
07-03-11, 16:52
Ive never been asked to leave a review but i do believe that the lady deserves a review when you visit.

dave1dave
07-03-11, 17:00
Just wondering....
How did ye lads start to review the ladies? Is cause a lady ask for the review and explein to ye how to registered on E-I,or ye did it by ur own???
I would say its half half...

I had been seeing escorts for a while before I joined the site :o To my embarrasment I was using the site, reading the reviews.

I realised one day that I was doing a disservice to the ladies that I should have been reviewing.
And the few bad experiences I had had up to then, I was only doing other punters a disservice too by not reviewing to warn them.

Ebony Amber
07-03-11, 18:00
Hi

You should NEVER feel pressured into leaving a review!! Anyone that does this has very little respect for the client and may actually be compromising him!!

This is a loaded subject. I have been asked a few times to leave a review - in one case I had already done it! In other cases, I decide. I don't review them all and I NEVER give exact details on the appointment (including time and day) or make it too specific, for my personal protection.

I've no doubt that some escorts are very focused on their reviews. Why? Professional pride, a great way to attract business, more chance of meeting TRs who are generally a better class of client I'd say, and good advertising for what to expect on a visit.

I notice some escorts have over a hundred reviews and while they're obviously busy, I feel most of them MUST be asking clients for reviews.

I also notice that some escorts suddenly become popular on the Latest Reviews board, the latest example that springs to mind is Anny Mary, who also requested me as a Friend. Fair enough, I'm all for target marketing, but I hope all these reviews are genuine, they're all complimentary. I use this example as I won't be visiting Anny Mary as it happens, 'cos she doesn't do one or 2 things I usually ask for. We've discussed and she's cool with it - otherwise she seems like a lovely lady.

I'm actually getting a bit sceptical about the whole thing lately. There must be loads of punters getting good info. but not contributing themselves. I'm thinking of hanging up my boots (or punting equivalent!!) in more ways than one....

Vic

I had a think about this and initially thought the same thing but i now don't think this is neccaserilly true. Most ladies that have heaps of reviews have been touring Ireland for a couple of years hence such a high number. Also I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that they are already "established" for want of a better word. I feel when an escort is very well known it may earn a reviewer more brownie points if they have seen her. Or at least when a thread starts to talk about a certain established lady the reviewer can indulge in conversation. Also a lot of ladies ask for references now days so a reviewer can say "check my reviews I've seen such and such." I know that if a client quotes and proves that he has seen a fairly established lady I am much more likely to see him.

In contrast I feel it is probably harder in some ways for the most reviewed ladies to get more as sometimes people don't see the point of repeating the same praises.

I hate to think that escorts are requesting reviews but it obviously happens. I think a subtle hint when a client is praising you is one thing but pms and texts are out of order. Hopefully more guys will start to review as it really does help an escort and a punter
Amber xo

mellors
07-03-11, 18:25
You've hit the nail on the head Amber, there is a certain 'cache' about seeing some of the more established girls to some of the posters on here and also offers a safe bet for less experienced clients. I've recently changed my mind on leaving reviews as despite my reservations, it is unfair on both escorts and prospective clients not to review.
I'm sure it does get harder for establish girls to get reviews, I recently posted a review on an escort who has loads of reviews,what can you say that hasn't been said again and again and again

rubberlover
07-03-11, 19:09
I have to say that no escort ever requested that I leave a review and I only leave it so I can show my appreciation for the escort (and to date all my experiences have been good) probably as a result of others leaving reviews as it helps punters make an informed choice.

takemedrunkimhome
08-03-11, 02:12
Just wondering....
How did ye lads start to review the ladies? Is cause a lady ask for the review and explein to ye how to registered on E-I,or ye did it by ur own???
I would say its half half...

I did it on my own to be honest Rachel. I based my first few visits on escorts that had been reviewed and that made my mind up to give the same back the best I could.

El Gordo
08-03-11, 09:07
Just wondering....
How did ye lads start to review the ladies? Is cause a lady ask for the review and explein to ye how to registered on E-I,or ye did it by ur own???
I would say its half half...

Well, I started to review because I met Eve (https://www.escort-ireland.com/1922/Eve/irish-escort.html). She never mentioned reviews, but I thought she was worth telling the world about.

Irish Fiona
08-03-11, 09:30
I've never asked anyone for a review and i'm always chuffed to get one :)
But allot of guys don't review which is a shame, because i cant help thinking some times after a particularly great experience i've had in the bedroom with a hot lovin client....... wouldn't it be nice if he was a reviewer ;)

xxxxxxx

john connor
08-03-11, 10:24
i would always use the review system on this site as a guide to meeting a new girl.
so far is has been 100% accurate and i have never been disappointed.
i have been asked once to offer a review and it did not bother me as someone said earlier its better than people making up fake ones.
with new girls starting i think it would be very important for them to get some reviews in order to put themselves out there.
i will always review a girl if i have had a positive or experience as i value reading other reviews
the review system on EI and its accuracy are one of the strongest features on this site.

wanted the best 69
08-03-11, 11:20
I did it on my own to be honest Rachel. I based my first few visits on escorts that had been reviewed and that made my mind up to give the same back the best I could.
i too have never been asked,but, take a moment to think on this, a new girl arrives,she puts an ad up,let us say she is good escort in all regards,but how many of us would dare visit her?
EI punters,golden rule, no reviews,no visit.
so the girl is caught in the deadly circle, just a thought

Rachel Divine
08-03-11, 11:49
i too have never been asked,but, take a moment to think on this, a new girl arrives,she puts an ad up,let us say she is good escort in all regards,but how many of us would dare visit her?
EI punters,golden rule, no reviews,no visit.
so the girl is caught in the deadly circle, just a thought

I agree and I will say there is the posibility on a visit to one new lady with no reviews, and not leave one for her.

takemedrunkimhome
08-03-11, 14:06
i too have never been asked,but, take a moment to think on this, a new girl arrives,she puts an ad up,let us say she is good escort in all regards,but how many of us would dare visit her?
EI punters,golden rule, no reviews,no visit.
so the girl is caught in the deadly circle, just a thought

I agree totally man, but in this case the
lady in question had over 20 reviews.

wanted the best 69
08-03-11, 15:05
I agree totally man, but in this case the
lady in question had over 20 reviews.

i think i was putting it from a slightly different view point, but, see your point too

takemedrunkimhome
08-03-11, 15:57
i think i was putting it from a slightly different view point, but, see your point too

Yeah it's a strange one.
I was probably wrong not te leave the girl
a review, especially as I enjoyed my time with her.

I just remember feeling coerced at the time.

Probably just some stupid stubborn streak
running through me at the time.
On reflection I wish I had left her a review
as she was a really nice girl.

wanted the best 69
08-03-11, 16:15
Yeah it's a strange one.
I was probably wrong not te leave the girl
a review, especially as I enjoyed my time with her.

I just remember feeling coerced at the time.

Probably just some stupid stubborn streak
running through me at the time.
On reflection I wish I had left her a review
as she was a really nice girl.

thats is the point, she was a nice girl and alot depended on you to help her, if she was crap well, no need to go further, but spare a though for the nice,good new girls,it is a hard road they choose,

takemedrunkimhome
08-03-11, 16:21
thats is the point, she was a nice girl and alot depended on you to help her, if she was crap well, no need to go further, but spare a though for the nice,good new girls,it is a hard road they choose,

So in your opinion it's ok for girls to ask
clients to leave them reviews?

Sam Spade
08-03-11, 16:28
I have never been asked to write a review, but understand why the ladies may feel the need to do so.
Personally I don't see a problem asking provided the request isn't laboured or favours given in exchange.

The best we can hope for is to provide an honest and accurate account of our meeting.
As they say "to thine own self be true".

takemedrunkimhome
08-03-11, 16:43
I have never been asked to write a review, but understand why the ladies may feel the need to do so.
Personally I don't see a problem asking provided the request isn't laboured or favours given in exchange.

The best we can hope for is to provide an honest and accurate account of our meeting.
As they say "to thine own self be true".

That's fair enough mark and I guess these
are the opinions ciara was looking for in her
original post.

Personally I love writing reviews and will
continue to do so to help both the ladies
and my fellow clients in the best way that I can.

But there was just something I didn't like
about being asked persistently to leave one.

That's just my opinion in it and it definitley
won't be the first time I will be wrong or the last.

Sam Spade
08-03-11, 17:21
That's fair enough mark and I guess these
are the opinions ciara was looking for in her
original post.

Personally I love writing reviews and will
continue to do so to help both the ladies
and my fellow clients in the best way that I can.

But there was just something I didn't like
about being asked persistently to leave one.

That's just my opinion in it and it definitley
won't be the first time I will be wrong or the last.


Personally I would have done the same myself.
As I said, I would find a problem if the request was laboured.
We don't like being coerced, and any such repeated request may inadvertently affected my review,
which would be good for no one.

OnlyMe
08-03-11, 17:29
I have been thanked a couple of times for leaving a review then next time I visit.
Not sure why but I tend to get a little embarrassed.
Often wondered how they knew who I was.
I'm obviously that good. :)

wanted the best 69
08-03-11, 17:38
So in your opinion it's ok for girls to ask
clients to leave them reviews?

i did not say that,what i said was spare a thought for the girl starting out who right thats all

takemedrunkimhome
08-03-11, 17:41
i did not say that,what i said was spare a thought for the girl starting out who right thats all

The girl I was referring to was very well established in fairness but I see what you're saying bud.

wanted the best 69
08-03-11, 17:48
The girl I was referring to was very well established in fairness but I see what you're saying bud.

i know i have gone off thread but all these this,thoughts come, and this one of them,

sharkskin
09-03-11, 08:37
I can only speak from my experiences but nobody ever asked me for a review, not once.

Not even in circumstances when some folks might expect it. Consider something like this which has happened to me more than once.

I visit an escort who has no reviews. We have a fantastic time together, we get on really well. She gets wet and climaxes and I also have really good sex. We chat easily during the less active moments.

So there we are at the end of the session. She knows that I like her. She knows that I had a really good time. She knows that I am well aware that she took pleasure as well. She is not shy about talking to me. She has told me what things she likes - in some detail: "No, you are much better with that finger." "Yes there, but move like this." "This time, I want to go on top."

Never has that experience ended in an escort asking me to write a review.

Blond chick NIKKY
09-03-11, 10:28
I think thats WRONG. Ask or pay for reviews.... Even mention it during the appointment. Or try to give better service to member on ei if u know who is he on ei.. I feel sorry for these girls. So desperate!!!!

charlottebabe
09-03-11, 13:58
Let's dispell a few myths on here.

1. Most men who visit escorts, including repeat clients DO NOT REVIEW. They feel it is their private business.

2. Men have told me they see me BECAUSE I have only a few reviews and in their fantasy world it makes them feel that I have not been with thousands of men lol!

3. Having lots of reviews does not give an escort more business. Often it works the other way and because the clients feel the escort is more EXCLUSIVE.

4. Escorts can be competitive in this business, just like any other and feel under pressure to have reviews (girls you do not need them, but some girls like to have them and that is fine).

5. Escorts advertising on E.I. should be able to leave reverse reviews to vouch that a client is a gentleman, or was unclean or late etc. This happens on another site and works very well, the good clients like it to re-assure future ladies they want to see.

6. We all know that some reviews are false, so best to make up your own mind. At the end of the day reviews are subjective and one mans babe is another mans turn off.

Monkeynut
09-03-11, 17:37
Let's dispell a few myths on here.

1. Most men who visit escorts, including repeat clients DO NOT REVIEW. They feel it is their private business.

2. Men have told me they see me BECAUSE I have only a few reviews and in their fantasy world it makes them feel that I have not been with thousands of men lol!

3. Having lots of reviews does not give an escort more business. Often it works the other way and because the clients feel the escort is more EXCLUSIVE.

4. Escorts can be competitive in this business, just like any other and feel under pressure to have reviews (girls you do not need them, but some girls like to have them and that is fine).

5. Escorts advertising on E.I. should be able to leave reverse reviews to vouch that a client is a gentleman, or was unclean or late etc. This happens on another site and works very well, the good clients like it to re-assure future ladies they want to see.

6. We all know that some reviews are false, so best to make up your own mind. At the end of the day reviews are subjective and one mans babe is another mans turn off.

There are so many clients who wont visit a girl with no reviews and Im one of them. There is a reference system available for escorts to 'recommend' a client.

scottyledeuce
09-03-11, 20:22
Let's dispell a few myths on here.

1. Most men who visit escorts, including repeat clients DO NOT REVIEW. They feel it is their private business.

2. Men have told me they see me BECAUSE I have only a few reviews and in their fantasy world it makes them feel that I have not been with thousands of men lol!

3. Having lots of reviews does not give an escort more business. Often it works the other way and because the clients feel the escort is more EXCLUSIVE.

4. Escorts can be competitive in this business, just like any other and feel under pressure to have reviews (girls you do not need them, but some girls like to have them and that is fine).

5. Escorts advertising on E.I. should be able to leave reverse reviews to vouch that a client is a gentleman, or was unclean or late etc. This happens on another site and works very well, the good clients like it to re-assure future ladies they want to see.

6. We all know that some reviews are false, so best to make up your own mind. At the end of the day reviews are subjective and one mans babe is another mans turn off.

I like this,

I'm new here and with there being no reviews for the escorts in my area really put me off going to them.
Honesty is the main thing of course so nobody should be pressured to review either

scottyledeuce
09-03-11, 20:23
There are so many clients who wont visit a girl with no reviews and Im one of them. There is a reference system available for escorts to 'recommend' a client.

How does this reference system work if you don't mind as I'ts the first I've heard

charlottebabe
10-03-11, 11:30
Sorry guys trust me as a working girl! Having few or no reviews makes no difference, in some ways it is better for the girls because you gain more regular clients who like the fact you are more anon. It is a matter of courses for horses.

At the end of the day most men do not review as I said above.

Ebony Amber
10-03-11, 11:42
It works both ways.
If you have a lot of good reviews certain clients will be more likely to see you as they know you are genuine etc. However some will be put off.
If you have no reviews certain clients will come to see you as they like the anon side of you and can fantasise that you don't fuck so many many.

However what burns me is when I read a thread from a guy asking for advice on an escort and he gets told "nah don't see her she has no reviews". Un verified pics are one thing but advising a guy not to visit an escort as she has no reviews is unjust and a bit mean imo. I only have 8 reviews (and I thank every gentleman that left them) but a few months ago I had none. At some point every escort strarted at zero. It is not fair to warn a guy off an escort because nobody has bothered to review her.

Lucy Chambers
10-03-11, 12:00
Sorry guys trust me as a working girl! Having few or no reviews makes no difference, in some ways it is better for the girls because you gain more regular clients who like the fact you are more anon. It is a matter of courses for horses.

At the end of the day most men do not review as I said above.

Interesting, but entirely the reverse of my experience. I returned to work after a lengthy break, having deleted all my reviews from Punternet when I got married. I returned to work less than a year ago, with no reviews anywhere. It has been interesting to note the difference in the amount of bookings I received 6 months ago, when I had no reviews, and the amount of bookings I get now. It has doubled. I can also track my websites, I notice exactly where and when there is a spike in traffic and bookings and that always corresponds with a recent report.

Keltic1
10-03-11, 14:17
OK, Today is definitely a thread day for me....2nd today that I felt strongly enough about to post.
As a Punter I am always wary of girls with no reviews.
When I joined I decided that when I visited a girl I would generally review her only if she was really good or really bad. Then, one week when there were only girls with no reviews and I was ganging for it, I tried one girl without any reviews and she was really nice, so I decided that (knowing guys are only genuinely interested if the girl has a review) I would review all girls I visited and be honest with that review - good or bad.
I have had a few bad experiences with girls that had no reviews but I am still willing to take the chance that she might be a diamond in the rough. However, I would not visit a girl with no reviews that charges more than 100!! anything over 100 per half hour, in my mind, means that she has a reputation for being good Or she believes herself to be good - but no reviews always contradicts that, in my mind. I believe that if she was that good someone would be so enamoured that they would take the effort to leave her a review, thus justifying her price....am I making sense here??

charlottebabe
11-03-11, 00:22
I understand what you are saying, but it could be that you are just better known now as it takes about 6 months to re-establish after a break I have found. I also track all my hits on google analytics. What I find is my hits go up when I tour and post on various sites, upload new photos too -1,000s of hits a month world wide. I used to spend a lot on advertising. But seeing where my hits came from I dropped most of the charging sites and saved myself a lot of money and business got better! How weird is that? So it is not always true that more advertising makes any difference, you just need to know where you get hits and it is often the free sites in my case. I do know a couple of really nice good escorts in the UK who will not allow reviews and they have a great reputation with many repeat loyal clients and never advertise now.

But I do think now from reading this thread that it may be a different scene in Ireland, with some men not trusting us and reading about bad experiences in Ireland.

ksteve
13-03-11, 00:23
I understand what you are saying, but it could be that you are just better known now as it takes about 6 months to re-establish after a break I have found. I also track all my hits on google analytics. What I find is my hits go up when I tour and post on various sites, upload new photos too -1,000s of hits a month world wide. I used to spend a lot on advertising. But seeing where my hits came from I dropped most of the charging sites and saved myself a lot of money and business got better! How weird is that? So it is not always true that more advertising makes any difference, you just need to know where you get hits and it is often the free sites in my case. I do know a couple of really nice good escorts in the UK who will not allow reviews and they have a great reputation with many repeat loyal clients and never advertise now.

But I do think now from reading this thread that it may be a different scene in Ireland, with some men not trusting us and reading about bad experiences in Ireland.

Hello Charlotte:)

I do think reviews are important but I also think too many are nearly worse.It gives out the wrong vibe.

I also think pics are very important and yes I understand fully all the reasons why these may be difficult to publish but I still think clear pics are a determining factor. Where there are no pics then the importance of reviews goes up.

Hope you had a nice time here and that you come back.

steve

carriebbw
13-03-11, 07:07
I have to echo what charlotte has said,i only visit ie a few times a year and do not have many reviews.However i continue to see many regular clients and new and appear not to be affected by the review system. Many of the guys i see are not registered with the site and use it just to see the girls. Hence they do not take part in forum chat. I havent asked guys for a review but on occassions we have discussed reviews and several guys have said they do not read the reviews as they do no know how trustworthy they are, also what one client may see as a great lady may not be the same experience for them as well all know a lot also comes down to chemistry as well. I also agree with Charlotte about the male pride thing! Carrie x

SecretaryLover
14-03-11, 20:08
I've only just signed up here, same username on the other site which is dead now. Anyway, over the years I have seen a fairly high number of Escorts and have only been asked to leave a review twice (ish). Once by a UK lady who was touring (she hasn't been about in a while, was around last year) and the other time by a very very popular lady who has toured Ireland for quite a few years. In fairness the later lady was the ish part, she asked would I be leaving a review, it's quite difficult to get an appointment with her so I doubt she was reckoning it would improve business, maybe just a conversation point, difficult to know what ladys are thinking.

GriffW
22-03-11, 13:24
Sorry to go off topic a bit, but this one seems to have been done to death.

For a bit of fun, why not allow the girls to review the punters (except me of course). I think there might be some hilarious postings

happygolucky
25-03-11, 08:04
I was looking at profiles of girls in Dublin yesterday and one gir actually said on her profile"I need reviews",so she obviously considers them important.
i cannot remember who,someone else may have seen it as well.
Personally I never see ladies without reviews.

TheH
25-03-11, 14:44
I was looking at profiles of girls in Dublin yesterday and one gir actually said on her profile"I need reviews",so she obviously considers them important.
i cannot remember who,someone else may have seen it as well.
Personally I never see ladies without reviews.

Was it this one ? ;)

https://www.escort-ireland.com/14463/Emile/irish-escort.html

McLooking
02-04-11, 21:07
Guys, please don’t generalise. It’s perfectly fine not to ask for reviews and also perfectly fine if you do it in a nice and dignified way, more like a friendly informational chat, not as a demand or a cheeky request to get a positive one.

On one hand, you would like more guys to review. Are you aware that most of those guys would not do it unless someone takes the initiative to bring in discussion reviews?

There are a few nice reviewers on this site that have registered because I asked them to. There are others that did it because some other escorts nicely brought this into discussion. Any other escort that they have subsequently seen benefited of the innocent suggestion done by the first escort. I see it as a win-win situation.

It’s funny. I was asked to leave a review by a young Lady way back in February or March ’09.
I eventually got around to registering near Paddy’s Day, and when I logged in to leave her a review, she was no longer on the site!
But as you said, any Escort that I have reviewed since has benefitted was this first request. Otherwise I would never have registered (well at least until the next time I was asked). Being asked by an Escort is not something I have come across. I actually ask would they mind if I leave a review, usually on my way out the door or by text message afterwards.
A review can be quite personal, and several times I was asked not to go into any details (but the site was updated a while ago, so the Escort could opt out of the details anyway).
I’m a firm believer that you should take most reviews with a pinch of salt. I have found that if you treat the Lady with respect (which I would like to think I do) then you get much more than someone who does not. Several Ladies I’ve seen have had negative or neutral reviews (before or after I’ve seen them), for reasons I did not encounter.
It’s a fair system, as long as you are willing to accept that nothing is perfect.
Sometimes I write the reviews just to go through the memory, tingling with excitement! Then write a completely toned down version for fear of being barred.

corkpunter
02-04-11, 21:15
Some are more subtle than others in requesting reviews...

https://www.escort-ireland.com/14463/Emile/irish-escort.html

From her profile:


NEED A REVIEWS PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE
★★★★★

Hi Guys!!!
I am Emille. I am 25 years old beautiful student who arrived to Dublin to improve my English and have a look around!
My pictures are genuine. I am very sexy as well as looking sweet and innocent. I go to the gym most days to keep my figure in shape.
I am a happy personality and like to enjoy life. I like night clubbing, dancing, the theater and musicals. If you are looking for a lovely,
sweet girl to take out for dinner-date or go to the cinema or just expend all night kissing ..... I am the girl for you!!!!


only call me big kiss!★★★★★

Here is a hint Emille, don't have 2 fake pic reports on your profile, don't try to con the punters and you will get your reviews without asking for them on your profile.

ChiefHandker
02-04-11, 21:31
Some are more subtle than others in requesting reviews...

https://www.escort-ireland.com/14463/Emile/irish-escort.html

From her profile:



Here is a hint Emille, don't have 2 fake pic reports on your profile, don't try to con the punters and you will get your reviews without asking for them on your profile.

PMSL nice spot. And yet she does have a positive reviewer who was Very Happy with the accuracy of her second set of fake photos.

Amy Alison
02-04-11, 21:36
Some are more subtle than others in requesting reviews...

https://www.escort-ireland.com/14463/Emile/irish-escort.html

From her profile:

Here is a hint Emille, don't have 2 fake pic reports on your profile, don't try to con the punters and you will get your reviews without asking for them on your profile.

My gosh, this is a little ridiculous :D
To be honest, I kinda feel a little sorry for her, I think her business is in serious trouble :o

As you said, maybe she can get some photos of her though and it may get better.

Amy Alison
02-04-11, 21:37
But what do you think of one email I received today where the sender was asking me if I have “specials” for him as he is a top reviewer and he’ll leave a review for me?

I honestly don’t think he is any reviewer, he is just someone who is trying to con escorts in a very stupid way.

This is the extreme reverse situation of what we are discussing here, reviewers themselves or just con men that use reviews as a bargaining cheap to get themselves cheaper rates, a lot of time longer for the same money, extra services. I find this even nastier then escorts who may be desperate enough to demand reviews.

ChiefHandker
02-04-11, 21:52
But what do you think of one email I received today where the sender was asking me if I have “specials” for him as he is a top reviewer and he’ll leave a review for me?

I honestly don’t think he is any reviewer, he is just someone who is trying to con escorts in a very stupid way.

This is the extreme reverse situation of what we are discussing here, reviewers themselves or just con men that use reviews as a bargaining cheap to get themselves cheaper rates, a lot of time longer for the same money, extra services. I find this even nastier then escorts who may be desperate enough to demand reviews.

There's no reason why he wouldn't be an actual reviewer. If he goes to the trouble of emailing various ladies offering reviews for special treatment then chances are he's quite well acquainted with the whole system so he probably does have an account, he could even have multiple accounts to review with.
However, whether he is or not, one thing is for sure - he's an idiot.

If i were in your shoes i'd forward on his Email address to management and see if it corresponds to any registered users on here :D Name and shame these twits!

Amy Alison
02-04-11, 21:57
If i were in your shoes i'd forward on his Email address to management and see if it corresponds to any registered users on here :D Name and shame these twits!

This is actually a very good idea, there is a chance that this email address has been used here!
Thanks for this Chief :kiss:

McLooking
03-04-11, 01:26
This is actually a very good idea, there is a chance that this email address has been used here!
Thanks for this Chief :kiss:

The least you should demand is that they are converted to a "ratted" reviewer and loose any existing standing (TR Status) they have.

Amy Alison
03-04-11, 09:18
The least you should demand is that they are converted to a "ratted" reviewer and loose any existing standing (TR Status) they have.

Well, I did asked for the email address to be sought but I do think that even if the guy is a reviewer, he is not at all a top reviewer or a trusted reviewer (just my opinion).

He sent a second mail with a photo of his ... dick :eek: and such tasteless approach is not usually done by people who have seen a lo of escorts or are considered good trusted gents.

Jrice
03-04-11, 15:50
Only recently I have been asked by a couple of girls if I would leave a review. I normally do anyway so I didn't think anything of it. Some girls find it helps their business, even if they have had reviews in the past a new one can help kickstart things for them.
It didn't bother me to be asked although they were coy asking.

BACMAN36
06-04-11, 21:42
Well, I did asked for the email address to be sought but I do think that even if the guy is a reviewer, he is not at all a top reviewer or a trusted reviewer (just my opinion).

He sent a second mail with a photo of his ... dick :eek: and such tasteless approach is not usually done by people who have seen a lo of escorts or are considered good trusted gents.

He reckoned that once you saw what was coming your way he'd be in fo a freebe! :D